Only fresh pu$$1 can make a man stay with you. Unfortunately,most women have traded their fresh tomatoes in their youth.

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

Y did u go checking what is not ur ish? Now u got urself into sadness and mistrust. Ur husband who doesn't even know anything. Anyway, don't confront him but playfully tell him about it cos confronting will be an allegation. Next time try and mind ur ish.

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

even here you're trying to shield your husband, the women aren't asking your husband out, he's the one asking women out.

Have you forgotten that there is love in sharing?
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Remember givers never lack...

Any woman say my wife,(of course i love her) who catches me in this kind of situation, let's even assume, I ain't cheating yet, but the ladies are asking out. If really my wife saw it, and she wakes me up in the middle of the night, pour her heart to me, ask me what and where she was missing out, talk to me calmly, let me know I messed up or I am messing up without raisingher voice, and even her me out mehn, Id give all to her. That's a rare woman in this generation.

Because that is communication. It is key in relationship.

Neverquit:
How did he reply to those messages? Is he coming home late? Or always traveling for business? Etc.

Don't be angry @ him because he's innocent until proven guilty. Also, does he lock his phone? You know your man, study him and go with your intuition.

rookie

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

What were his responses to these women?

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

So because of this bullshitz, u created another account and a dumb mod help you push this nonsense into fp

Rubbish

Did u invited any nairalander to the wedding?

How long did you date him before you married?
If you dated him only for a short period no wahala he is just trying to let the losers down easy.

But if you were dating for a couple years and suppose to be in a magnanimous relationship, well hes a player.

In that case you just give him a box of condoms and tell him you read his Whats App and you want him to be safe as to not harm your unborn child with diseases because thats who you married get used to it.

Work out of the marriage

As Onegai stated, make it clear that you won't accept such bullshi*t but only if you truly have the guts to go all the way through if he calls your bluff. You can't afford to be an empty barrel and end up doing nothing when he continues.

Saddenedsoul ITS VERY IMPORTANT YOU READ THIS ANALOGY:

The funny thing is challenging a cheating husband will not make him stop (Someone who wants to cheat would cheat).

Another funny thing is you can cause havoc and proffer little solution with your dramas (No one likes a nagging woman).

Another funny thing in life is once you start to distrust your partner or friend in any kind of relationship there is, there begins to be some feeling of distrust, lies, unfaithfulness from that moment on-wards even if nothing like such ever existed.

The truth however is that majority of men cheat. Yes! Majority. However, if a man is not cheating, he will never fight his wife over her concerns but will gently remind her of his love for her and calm her and re-assure her.

Another truth is that, if a man is not cheating, you will never see a sign of something that is towards that ramification (Why should you see smoke without fire).

Another truth is that, when a woman ask a faithful husband out, then he tells them expressly his stance and probably ends the friendship with the so called lady or powerfully tell her as a man of integrity to withdraw from such.

SOLUTION:
Tell him after dinner just before sleep that you love him so much and that you cannot wait to grow old together, raise your children, achieve a lot together in life and be with the Lord Jesus together if you are a Christian.
Tell him to not let any lady distract his plans, journey and progress that he has made so far.
Do this mildly and kiss him and sleep or Bleep.

Lets pray this works.

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

My advice


Look for another husband

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wetin I find come here

not a big deal.He has you why does he need what apps.If he is serious he should uninstall it. I had peace of mind when i did so.Atimes being married and on social network can be burden somme.

Saddenedsoul:
Sorry, to bother you all , but I just had to get this off my chest. I recently got married, just little over a year ago. I have had no reason not to trust my husband, in fact I could trust him with my life. My problem started last week when I borrowed his laptop to complete some office work. I found his WhatsApp web was logged in, so out of curiosity, I decided to take a peek. What I found what worrying, I saw lots of messages from women who were literally asking my husband out, planning dates and meet up venues, even when they are all well aware that he is married. Since then I have been paranoid, every word from his mouth becomes suspicious, I get angry at him for no reason; I don't know wether to confront him, because I feel like he's just going to lie to me, I'm very confused , somebody help me.

why WOMEN no dey get sense at all


you no thanks God say WOMEN dey approach your husband? this just show your husband is actually a hot cake and you should be glad he choose you as his wife.

and you MUMu on the other hand, now is the time for you to START putting more effort to please him and give no chance for other woman instead to start nagging him for what he didn't do.


use your head to think na! he don start to cheat on You?

na una dey make we men CHEAT. AFTER nagging us for what we didn't do.


you won tell me say if we check your phone we no go see your office boss dey APPROACH you!


afterall do RUBBISH another woman go replace You.

Am still single, but at back of my mind I av it that men are polygamous in nature. A colleague of said to me that didn't I kW we women are like fruits of difrent species that men are fruit salad meang they always want to av another taste one day. With that it won't bug me if my man cheats but he shouldn't bring dat person home. I will make sure I carry out all my responsblities give him support so that d blame will be on him if nabbed that he is cheatg me. I won't choke him BKS no matter how u do that a man that will cheat will definitely do, madam my advise is take is easy, don't challenge with slap like, stylishly study on what he sees in d oda women, if na make up I beggi start applyg, if na dressing u also sud upgrade, if na bedmatic styles u too improve BKS Una don sign d contract. But don't give urslf heart attack BKS he is cheatg, if somedy die or run mad a cheater remains a cheater

Dont Talk about it to him again. He is a goodman, if not you would have received a dirty slap since.
Get your mind busy on things that make you happy. So when ever you see him in happy mood when you both have long left the subject. Then Bring it up and ask him if you are not that good enough for him(probably after some nice x3x) but4now just keep a good open line of coomunication with him. Wish you luck.

byvan03:
Lack of communication is the surest way to ruin any marriage. Sit your husband down and communicate. Learn how to discuss your fears because you can only mess things up with your new unfriendly disposition. Go have a chat with your man.

You are damn right! He should try and talk to him instead of going about with overload burden on her mind.

By hacking his account

Contact your pastor

Women will always be the reason behind their own problems! Tor!

Saddenedsoul:
I've tried something crazy before, don't want to compound my problems. The fact that he keeps his calm just further drives me crazy

For all kinds of breed, this is effective... Are u gona wait until he starts going on dates b4 u talk to him? It might be too late den o if u know what i mean

from your statement,i didnt see any sign of infidelity from your man.he wasnt asking or keeping a date with anyone rather it was the other way round.also i didnt read where you said he accepted one of those proposals.so please try and trust your man if you want a happy home.belive you me if he is on it,he wouldnt have given you his pc knowing fully well of its contents.

Put thunderbolt on him.....them babe's are all dead..............thank me later










Just kidding though

I believe if he goes through you messages, he's find offensive/suspicious things too.

Talk to him about it, and don't forget to apologize for reading his private chats, yes. APOLOGIZE.