An average female in a university setting is been faced by certain challanges which includes acquiring the best things of life, looking good like their fellow gals and they tend to find a way to achieve those things even if it involves sleeping around with married or single men.... i have 2 admit,its not easy to avoid temptations from these big gals, i mean u need to indulge in fasting n prayers just for u nt to be tempted ...lyk d pressure is 2 much,it gets frustrating at times when ur fellow gals appear in designer clothings n accessories n u appear literally in rags..so i dnt really judge gals that sleep around that much cos this so called big gals just have a way of making the average gal feel worthless and dejected...

secondly, most gals sleep around just 2 make ends meet...when ur not 4rm a well to do family and ur faced with the burden of paying ur house rent,school fees n feeding urself in school....
i solely blame the men[fathers] for this... the rate at which fathers go back on their duties is quite alarming.... i believe fathers are 2 stepup their game so their daughters wont be sleeping around with their age mates just to make ends meet or survive in school... lyk i knw most gals dt pay their school fees yet their fathers are alive and kicking,its just that they are to lazy 2 work n provide 4 their children most esp female children..

my point is we can all make this world a better place,starting with the fathers of our gals, the society and the females as well.... we shouldnt really castigate gals dt sleep around that much cos most of them really dnt ve a choice... they r human being like ourselves...
this goes to the male folks both old n young... work hard to provide for ur family so ur daughters wont be forced to sleep around to foot their bills... Be a man and do ur job which is to provide...

LASTLY,to all those married men that take advantage of young girls in distress...na God go judge all of una... i reserve my comment until further notice...

this goes to my young gals in the house, be content with the little you have so you wnt be forced to do what u will regret in future,, i mean its nt easy buh we ve try to set a good example for our unborn kids..

the thread is open 4 suggestions or comments... this is just my opinion of things and i need to hear u guys opinion as well...

What is the way forward?

pjsmart:
What is the way forward?

by doing our best,the lil way we can..

CindyeMerAld:

we shouldnt really castigate gals dt sleep around that much cos most of them really dnt ve a choice... they r human being like ourselves...
this goes to the male folks both old n young... work hard to provide for ur family so ur daughters wont be forced to sleep around to foot their bills... Be a man and do ur job which is to provide...

LASTLY,to all those married men that take advantage of young girls in distress...na God go judge all of una... i reserve my comment until further notice... .

another feminist on rampage..... so men should just donate their resources just like that? Do u women even share with your husbands?.... So why r most guys not into armed robbery because they have no choice? battered philosophy for an irresponsible generation who can't take responsibility 4 their actions....

menstrualpad:

thats all u ve 2 contribute

good article. nice write up if only they will hear because as things are now in this country even the ones fighting hard to resist will see more reasons to indulge than not to

pjsmart:
good article. nice write up if only they will hear because as things are now in this country even the ones fighting hard to resist will see more reasons to indulge than not to

thanks... we can do it with God on our side..

CindyeMerAld:

we shouldnt really castigate gals dt sleep around that much cos most of them really dnt ve a choice... they r human being like ourselves...
this goes to the male folks both old n young... work hard to provide for ur family so ur daughters wont be forced to sleep around to foot their bills... Be a man and do ur job which is to provide...

LASTLY,to all those married men that take advantage of young girls in distress...na God go judge all of una... i reserve my comment until further notice... .

another feminist on rampage..... so men should just donate their resources just like that? Do u women even share with your husbands?.... So why r most guys not into armed robbery because they have no choice? battered philosophy for an irresponsible generation who can't take responsibility 4 their actions....

But why make it seem as if men are the only ones who are to provide for their daughters? What about their mums?

Nobody is forcing anyone to go into prostitution.. it's a choice. There are other honorable jobs out there for such ladies to engage in..

This is crap nau.

menstrualpad:


another feminist on rampage..... so men should just donate their resources just like that? Do u women even share with your husbands?.... So why r most guys not into armed robbery because they have no choice? battered philosophy for an irresponsible generation who can't take responsibility 4 their actions....

am nt supporting the females on this matter, am bin neutral here... am a university student so i knw what we gals face everyday... am nt saying married men shld give out their resources just lyk dt, am saying they shldnt suggest for young gals 2 sleep wit dem for moni.. try n be reasonable here, must everything be attributed to my gender ?

Ubiquitous of them can't just do without messing around even if they had it all; Like an alcoholic, can't get enough of men. So, don't tell me not to castigate. A bithc is a bithc.

In as much its not easy to stay away from the temptation of quick cash and luxury runs offers I strongly belief a girl who is contended, hardworking and disciplined can still survive and live without it. By the way runs is simply prostitution lets stop dignifying it by tagging it as runs.

Cutehector:
Nobody is forcing anyone to go into prostitution.. it's a choice. There are other honorable jobs out there for such ladies to engage in..

its easy 4 u to say... try bin a gal n then kom back n lets discuss...

eph12:
This is crap nau.

thanks much

Olalan:
In as much its not easy to stay away from the temptation of quick cash and luxury runs offers I strongly belief a girl who is contended, hardworking and disciplined can still survive and live without it. By the way runs is simply prostitution lets stop dignifying it by tagging it as runs.

thats exactly my point,, young gals shld be contend with the lil they have..

I smoked u out.... live within ur means...

CindyeMerAld:

am nt supporting the females on this matter, am bin neutral here... am a university student so i knw what we gals face everyday... am nt saying married men shld give out their resources just lyk dt, am saying they shldnt suggest for young gals 2 sleep wit dem for moni.. try n be reasonable here, must everything be attributed to my gender ?

CindyeMerAld:

thanks much

Tell your girls not run after things that are beyond their means or that of their dads. They won't die or decay if they don't live expensive lives.
You just sit down to think this nonsense and you thought you have made sense? Too bad.

ronald4lif:
But why make it seem as if men are the only ones who are to provide for their daughters? What about their mums?

fathers are the head of a family.. their work is 2 provide, mothers can always add the lil way they can

menstrualpad:
I smoked u out.... live within ur means...

i live within my means 4sure.. am satisfied with wah i ve..

eph12:

Tell your girls not run after things that are beyond their means or that of their dads. They won't die or decay if they don't live expensive lives.
You just sit down to think this nonsense and you thought you have made sense? Too bad.

u need psychological help...

CindyeMerAld:

thats exactly my point,, young gals shld be contend with the lil they have..

That's not your point please. Read what you posted again. Or maybe you missed out some parts because what you wrote there is justification for prostitution. Even blaming the dads so you can have fat account and wear the newest reigning designers in town. Mstcheww. Like as if that's what they live for.

so were u tot that when a man asks u 2 sleep with him 4 moni, you must comply?

CindyeMerAld:

i live within my means 4sure.. am satisfied with wah i ve..

eph12:

That's not your point please. Read what you posted again. Or maybe you missed out some parts because what you wrote there is justification for prostitution. Even blaming the dads so you can have fat account and wear the newest reigning designers in town. Mstcheww. Like as if that's what they live for.

u shld go back n read carefully cos it is there...am nt justifying the act , am just trying nt to crucify them

menstrualpad:
so were u tot that when a man asks u 2 sleep with him 4 moni, you must comply?

why wld a married man suggest dt to a gal in the first place, ur bin biased cos ur a guy

next time don't open this type of thread again...ok?

CindyeMerAld:

u shld go back n read carefully cos it is there...am nt justifying the act , am just trying nt to crucify them

CindyeMerAld:

why wld a married man suggest dt to a gal in the first place, ur bin biased cos ur a guy

You really are making a case for coded prostitutes, No?

because he can marry more than a wife....

CindyeMerAld:

why wld a married man suggest dt to a gal in the first place, ur bin biased cos ur a guy

menstrualpad:
battered philosophy for an irresponsible generation who can't take responsibility 4 their actions....

I suppose give you chilled cup of menstruation blood for this comment. Nailed it#

Please there is nothing hard in living a decent, prudent, contempt & satisfactory life. Your selfish desire for Wealth, fame & power is what has led many into the shameful lifestyle of runs/prostitution else y can't u make do with your hands by learning a trade or even selling little items in the hostel like recharge card, clothes or attachments to support yourself. Many i knew of were able to sponsor themselves in school this way without selling their body, so madam OP pls condemn this evil called prostitution in totality.

menstrualpad:
next time don't open this type of thread again...ok?

nxt time,u see this kindaa thread,just pass by, ok?