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Myths And Facts About Dating by hyman9ja(m): 4:27pm On Jun 06, 2016
1. MYTH: The external matters more than the internal.

FACT: The external does matter, but not more than the internal.

Many people do get rejected due to their “look.” So how can this actually be a myth? Of course first impressions are important, and yes, people do reject the external sometimes before ever seeing the internal. However, there is more to this story.
How many divorced beautiful women or handsome men do you meet? Many, right? If external beauty mattered more than internal beauty, then good-looking people wouldn’t get divorced.


Beautiful people become ugly because of what they say or who they are. They are objectively beautiful on the outside...until they open up their mouths. Or until you see a roll of their eyes which shows their lack of patience or understanding.
Or how about the reverse? How many happily married people do you know who you consider to be not good-looking? This sounds like a funny thing to say, but if the physical appearance mattered more than inside, then only the best-looking people would be in relationships.
What matters more in a relationship? Looks, or the ability to resolve conflict, the desire to give, patience, respect, loyalty and love? I would go so far as to say that even when talking about the externals, the most important part, even more than the clothes and the looks, is the body language. A smile from someone “ugly” is more beautiful than a scowl from a “beauty.”
Both the internal and the external matter. Your job is to find someone whom you value both inside and out. But the inside absolutely matters more in a relationship.


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