A lady who commands true and deep respect from guys is a lady who keeps her dignity.

These days, it appears many ladies throw caution to the wind and never think about their future. For unmarried people, sexual pleasure is much fun but some of the consequences are very negative.

I'm curiously following Deany's sex excapades in the college and he has mentioned about 6 females, most of which he has used in satisfying his sexual pleasure. After the match, he gists his friend(s).

Ladies, that's what we guys do, we gist about how much we 'hit' you and how good/bad you were. You come repeatedly and same thing happens. We gist again and the other friends begin to see you as a 'dawg'. Why do you have to do this to yourself?

As a matter of fact, what many people call relationship today is only a contractual agreement between two people to satisfy each other sexual and material needs.

A lady has been cohabiting with my flat mate for close to a year and they ain't dating. They satisfy each other sexually and the guy buys her stuffs. They have sex even when there are other people in room. The guy's got nothing to lose, only the lady's got her dignity and respect to lose.This same lady would get married in the nearest future and her hubby may happen to know my flat mate. That's when u see posts like 'my hubby is a friend to this guy I dated way back. Should I tell him or not?

Many of you think you are girl friends but what your so called bf's tell us is that your are just one of those 'sa re wa gba' (come get a quickie)

A NIGGA WHO TRULY LOVES YOU, RESPECTS YOU AND WANTS OTHERS TO RESPECT YOU WILL NEVER TELL HIS FRIENDS ABOUT WHAT GOES DOWN WHEN YOU TWO ARE ALONE!!!!

Ladies, it is up to you to know how to keep your dignity and if you don't want to, many guys are willing to help you destroy it.

cc iLegend
cc Deany

...person wey get ear, make him hear..soon we'll see comments like "thumbs up bro", "nice write up", "nice one" na who then dey yarn? ladies, men are wide awake!

*yawns* Story for the gods, back to reality please. Thank you