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Am coming will advise soon.let me get to work first..



Ok first of all..why does most Nigerian ladies get the cognition that partners must take care of them.
This is totally wrong way of cognition..


OP from your words I can say your no longer in school.why not look for a minimal job and cater for your needs and cut those your friends .they are gold diggers...

Are u dating the guy cuz of money ?(ask urself dat)

I dnt believe in love but if u rily care for him. I will groom and support your man.you know he is just a struggling student..

Word of advice cut those friends before they sway your actions..
Word is enough for the wise..

How old are u puleasee? Is it u dating the guy or ur silly friends? Like someone said u need a job not a boyfrnd, infact just let the innocent guy concentrate & stop distracting him because ladies like u are the reason y some boys go into stealing. Y naw? A fellow student fah

How old are you? Op

Blessinzy:
good day nairalanders in the house..

please I need your ideas and opinion about what I am going through right now.

I am currently dating a guy ,who is also my first bf. he is still in school and dont have any means of income except the few amount the parent wil sent him.

and presently I am having financial challenges,
my gf and also some of my male friends told me to leave the guy I am dating cos he cant afford my needs and wants. I feel so bad and depressed. but I believed things wont continue like that.

please whats your own opinion ....

Girls like your girlfriends are from poor homes. Your mentality should never be wanting his money.
Aside the fact that you don't have a good family background, what are the needs that your family can't afford? You should be in school and be aspiring for great things in life.
The guy should be able to ring you, buy you a few things on special occasions or as a surprise package, take u out on a date and spend quality time with you. But if that is not enough, go into full time prostitution. A capable man will always man up. Your man is your blessing or your curse. Thanks.

It's not a crime

Why are you dating in the first place?
What's your reasons for going into the relationship?

guy in female acct......he even put his number in her profile

Blessinzy:
good day nairalanders in the house..

please I need your ideas and opinion about what I am going through right now.

I am currently dating a guy ,who is also my first bf. he is still in school and dont have any means of income except the few amount the parent wil sent him.

and presently I am having financial challenges,
my gf and also some of my male friends told me to leave the guy I am dating cos he cant afford my needs and wants. I feel so bad and depressed. but I believed things wont continue like that.

please whats your own opinion ....

babe do Wetin do ur mind. dnt let friends choose for u. as for me I wld find a guy dat wld jst b for moni while I still date d guy.

Must ur guy provide ur needs??




What's the role of ur parents??




Why not look for a job and take care of ur own needs


And go tell those ur friends that i said they are GOLD DIGGERS

Blessinzy:
good day nairalanders in the house..

please I need your ideas and opinion about what I am going through right now.

I am currently dating a guy ,who is also my first bf. he is still in school and dont have any means of income except the few amount the parent wil sent him.

and presently I am having financial challenges,
my gf and also some of my male friends told me to leave the guy I am dating cos he cant afford my needs and wants. I feel so bad and depressed. but I believed things wont continue like that.

please whats your own opinion ....

are u an orphan?if not dont date when u emotional quotient is low..please dont destroy that boys future..He is not ur father.if u need any finacial help ask ur biological father..pls keep ur self worth young lady.

Must ur guy provide ur needs??



What's the role of ur parents??



Why not look for a job and take care of ur own needs

And go tell those ur friends that i said they are GOLD DIGGERS

You have very bad friends. Learn to be self-reliant. Your parents are the only two people in this world who owe you shìt & are obligated to "afford your needs". How's that for size? Go get your own money & don't let your horrible friends influence you with their scavenging ways.

When you ran into the relationship, did you receive any alert that a monthly allowance have been activated? Did you perhaps get a congratulatory message on a new job? If no, then hustle and take care of yourself. Ladies like you are out there taking care of themselves single handedly without any interference from boyfriend or family.

The OP is a guy. Fake monika.

And this sh!T will make Frontpage.

who is dating the guy?



your friends?



or you?





if its you ,your heart should direct you

Blessinzy:
good day nairalanders in the house..

please I need your ideas and opinion about what I am going through right now.

I am currently dating a guy ,who is also my first bf. he is still in school and dont have any means of income except the few amount the parent wil sent him.

and presently I am having financial challenges,
my gf and also some of my male friends told me to leave the guy I am dating cos he cant afford my needs and wants. I feel so bad and depressed. but I believed things wont continue like that.

please whats your own opinion ....

bae he is not your father...you also need to get yourself a job and lastly...is he dating you or your friends...

You want your boyfriend who is a student to be your sole provider when you are not an orphan, you must be out of your senses.

BrideOfDracula:
You have very bad friends. Learn to be self-reliant. Your parents are the only two people in this world who owe you shìt & are obligated to "afford your needs". How's that for size? Go get your own money & don't let your horrible friends influence you with their scavenging ways.

person go fear name na

Blessinzy:
good day nairalanders in the house..

please I need your ideas and opinion about what I am going through right now.

I am currently dating a guy ,who is also my first bf. he is still in school and dont have any means of income except the few amount the parent wil sent him.

and presently I am having financial challenges,
my gf and also some of my male friends told me to leave the guy I am dating cos he cant afford my needs and wants. I feel so bad and depressed. but I believed things wont continue like that.

please whats your own opinion ....

watz d need of u listenin to tlks frm ur gfrd n male frds wen u blive tins wunt b like dat foreva.. My dear since u blive, continue wt him. Dnt 4get, no condition is permanent.

Blessinzy:
good day nairalanders in the house..

please I need your ideas and opinion about what I am going through right now.

I am currently dating a guy ,who is also my first bf. he is still in school and dont have any means of income except the few amount the parent wil sent him.

and presently I am having financial challenges,
my gf and also some of my male friends told me to leave the guy I am dating cos he cant afford my needs and wants. I feel so bad and depressed. but I believed things wont continue like that.

please whats your own opinion ....

watz d need of u listenin to tlks frm ur gfrd n male frds wen u blive tins wunt b like dat foreva.. My dear since u blive, continue wt him. Dnt 4get, no condition is permanent.[quote author=Blessinzy post=46554122]good day nairalanders in the house..

the young man is not your father........ if u need money ask your father or ur uncle
stop behaving like vickydera
if u have sense stick with d guy

This is why i don't want to have a girlfriend!...

thanks everyone that gave their opinion about this issue....

@apelex:thanks

@obiorathesubtle:thanks

@mjshexy:am 22, I am also a student

@nigerdelta:am 22

@slumthugchimee: I put my number there in. Incase my friends want to get assess to me.

@playbrain: thanks

but I must confess alot of people here could not comprehend what I wrote. maybe that's y they are giving unnecessary comments.

please thanks everyone .if I no it all, I wont ask.

wilybebsy:
Must ur guy provide ur needs??



What's the role of ur parents??



Why not look for a job and take care of ur own needs

And go tell those ur friends that i said they are GOLD DIGGERS

Abeg help me ask o!

PushPlay:

Abeg help me ask o!

Broda i tire 4 dis girls aswr

You no get papa and mama?

Blessinzy:
thanks everyone that gave their opinion about this issue....

@apelex:thanks

@obiorathesubtle:thanks

@mjshexy:am 22, I am also a student

@nigerdelta:am 22

@slumthugchimee: I put my number there in. Incase my friends want to get assess to me.

@playbrain: thanks

but I must confess alot of people here could not comprehend what I wrote. maybe that's y they are giving unnecessary comments.

please thanks everyone .if I no it all, I wont ask.

Wasn't really bashing u but just to tell u not to allow friends choose 4u or push u around, if u truly love d guy as u claim, u should be there 4 him, encourage him & support him & not turning d guy to your ATM. He is also a student like u who depends on his parents too, less i forget u don't have friends oh, pls do away with those clowns. All da best

Blessinzy:
good day nairalanders in the house..

please I need your ideas and opinion about what I am going through right now.

I am currently dating a guy ,who is also my first bf. he is still in school and dont have any means of income except the few amount the parent wil sent him.

and presently I am having financial challenges,
my gf and also some of my male friends told me to leave the guy I am dating cos he cant afford my needs and wants. I feel so bad and depressed. but I believed things wont continue like that.

please whats your own opinion ....

eyah sorry ..take heart.


If i talk now..them go say ireneony don start again.

If na money make u begin date am in the first place, leave am. But if the case no be so, then chillax with am.

It's not him you need to break up with, it's your friends you need to break up with especially when the guy is hardworking and has vision of where he is going to and also respects and includes you in his future plans...