olusolami:

help me ask am, what is he feeling like.

i dated an igbo guy once and it was a big disaster. i have made many bad choices and dating him was the biggest one and i cringe each time i remember it.
first he started seeing old people in his dreams, i do not know whether that is a pattern they all just developed.
then he started seeing juju in his dreams, at the end, he said HIS MUM said we were not good for each other after practically rendering me boyfriendless for a year, cos if i talk to a guy, i would get beaten. he was over protective and insanely jealous.

at times he would hit me and will hail himself saying UKU NANA, HEAVY ARTILERRY,O TA blah blah blah, ota chewing gum. he had fun being Mr Macho and i took all his bullshit and at the end i get punched in the face, so girls if you are dating an igbo guy, keep your fingers crossed and wait for the OLD WOMAN IN THE DREAM TO COME VISITING, truthfully.YES they are thE worst

EDO/YORUBA:

@olusolami . Wow . Sorry for your experience. Absolutely despise and detest any man raising hands on their woman. What I certainly know is that igbo guys aren't the best at talking to a lady nicely and respectfully or knowing the nice things to say to a gal. . But then Il say its not good to generalise. I mean im sure there are some good igbo guys out there.

olusolami:

help me ask am, what is he feeling like.

i dated an igbo guy once and it was a big disaster. i have made many bad choices and dating him was the biggest one and i cringe each time i remember it.
first he started seeing old people in his dreams, i do not know whether that is a pattern they all just developed.
then he started seeing juju in his dreams, at the end, he said HIS MUM said we were not good for each other after practically rendering me boyfriendless for a year, cos if i talk to a guy, i would get beaten. he was over protective and insanely jealous.

at times he would hit me and will hail himself saying UKU NANA, HEAVY ARTILERRY,O TA blah blah blah, ota chewing gum. he had fun being Mr Macho and i took all his bullshit and at the end i get punched in the face, so girls if you are dating an igbo guy, keep your fingers crossed and wait for the OLD WOMAN IN THE DREAM TO COME VISITING, truthfully.YES  they are thE worst

EDO/YORUBA:

@ TheSeeker. Whao Dude Seems like my comment offended you a bit. I sincerely apologise. Didnt mean no harm. In re-phrasing my statement. I should have said." THE FEW IGBO GUYS IM CLOSE TO, ARE'NT THE BEST AT TALKING TO LADIES"

Im the least tribalistic person ever. and im infact married to an IGBO GAL.

All we,r saying is that statistically igbo gals date yoruba guy, much more than yoruba gals date igbo guys.

Rgds

That's more like it. Offended? No, I don't think I was. I just expected a more logical statement -- or an exact but true assertion But it's OK though.

EDO/YORUBA:

Heavy artillery , lol, maybe the guy nah village warrior, lol

ROFLMAO I'm trying to picture what state and/or position she was when he was saying those things? Was she laying on the floor and the hewas kicking her like Iranian police did those protesters?

jassie:

Igbo boys. . . Well I know they like spending for their babe sha. . . As for love and respect. . . Holler @ Yoruba boys. . .
The reason they pay a high bride price is because their father in laws believe that's the only way she'd be worth something to a man, but of course, they are wrong!
I know so many igbo girls who have sworn not to marry an igbo guy mostly because of family issues. . . Most igbo men have family issues that aren't too obvious until they are married and or the husband dies. . . They like claiming their 'sons' property, their younger ones depend too much on their 'rich brothers' and if the man doesn't meet up to expectations when married, the wife becomes the enemy cos they'd believe she's turning him away from the family. . .
That my peepz is the bitter truth. . . Some of them are really nice though. . . But the family factor sucks!

jassie:

Igbo boys. . . Well I know they like spending for their babe sha. . . As for love and respect. . . Holler @ Yoruba boys. . .
The reason they pay a high bride price is because their father in laws believe that's the only way she'd be worth something to a man, but of course, they are wrong!
I know so many igbo girls who have sworn not to marry an igbo guy mostly because of family issues. . . Most igbo men have family issues that aren't too obvious until they are married and or the husband dies. . . They like claiming their 'sons' property, their younger ones depend too much on their 'rich brothers' and if the man doesn't meet up to expectations when married, the wife becomes the enemy cos they'd believe she's turning him away from the family. . .
That my peepz is the bitter truth. . . Some of them are really nice though. . . But the family factor sucks!

Mr blazer:

sorry to say this my yoruba brothers and sisters but the yoruba ladies easily fall for the igbo guys. Does this mean that your fellow YORUBAS cannot show love and care for you? No offence pls.Thanks

~Sauron~:

The topic should be Yoruba boys love Igbo babes.

TheSeeker:

Just look at all your wrong facts! Look at the holes. I'll break it down for you.

Do you know how many Yoruba family kill their family members all in the name of claiming properties? I know this much about Yorubaland and if you want to dispute that fact I'm ready to take it on with you. Can you tell me those issues Igbo me have in their families? Maybe you're not familiar with Yoruba culture or at best didn't live near your people to know all these. There's always a stern warning in Yoruba land and that is: Don't front when it comes to inheritance because right there, many people get their deaths, so what are you saying?

Igbo men's younger siblings look up to them (the rich ones) and Yoruba don't do that? Tell me what's wrong in a younger sibling looking up to their elder for some sort of assistance? Stop being tribal, it's bad for your image.

You said his family will think because he doesn't meet up with their expectations, then his wife will be blamed? I can only point out the fact to you. In Yoruba land, the most common cause of polygamy is family pressure and that's because they think they're not getting what they expected; and they subsequently think a marriage with another woman will phase the first wife out. Again I say: Stop trying to be ignorant.

Hey I didn't comment because I wanted to argue. I am Yoruba (pure breed) but I'm not a tribalist. . . Just seeing things from the general perspective. . . Sorry if you don't like blunt people. . . The fact is a Yoruba babe looking for a guy to spend might go for a Igbo spare part dealer to get some dough, but that's it! Love is something else. . . Yoruba babes on Igbo guys? Well not the classy ones. . .

chiogo:

yup, that's more like it.

olusolami:

help me ask am, what is he feeling like.

i dated an igbo guy once and it was a big disaster. i have made many bad choices and dating him was the biggest one and i cringe each time i remember it.
first he started seeing old people in his dreams, i do not know whether that is a pattern they all just developed.
then he started seeing juju in his dreams, at the end, he said HIS MUM said we were not good for each other after practically rendering me boyfriendless for a year, cos if i talk to a guy, i would get beaten. he was over protective and insanely jealous.

at times he would hit me and will hail himself saying UKU NANA, HEAVY ARTILERRY,O TA blah blah blah, ota chewing gum. he had fun being Mr Macho and i took all his bullshit and at the end i get punched in the face, so girls if you are dating an igbo guy, keep your fingers crossed and wait for the OLD WOMAN IN THE DREAM TO COME VISITING, truthfully.YES they are thE worst

~Sauron~:

More like what?

chiogo:

what you wrote. I was cosigning with your post. 
Now that I have to explain myself, 

Secretz:

Been there, done that . . . . . big misconception . . . .