I am married now though but I can't just get Blessing (that is her name) out of my system no matter how hard I try.
The relationship was one of the best that I have ever had - and I had many!
She was everything one would ever want in a woman - just name it, she got it.

I can't still say what went into me; we were really looking forward to getting married even though we did not make any of such promises to each other but within our hearts we just knew that that was all we wanted.

I left the East for the North and everythinhg changed!

The last time I spoke with her she told me that she had forgiven me, but will i ever forgive myself?
At the slightest provocation by my wife she (Blessing) comes to mind!


I love my wife and all that but Blessing was in a class of her own:
so simple,
so kind,
so understanding,
so loving,
so caring and affectionate!

There was this understanding silence that we shared that nothing can ever equal!
Just the two of us; sitting or laying down, not touching or doing anything but lost in our seperate worlds but still being together!

I am not asking for any kind of help as I know that everything was my fault and all but i just wanted to be heard.

I've heard, not like there's any help anyway.

julian_H:

I am married now though but I can't just get Blessing (that is her name) out of my system no matter how hard I try.
The relationship was one of the best that I have ever had - and I had many!
She was everything one would ever want in a woman - just name it, she got it.

I can't still say what went into me; we were really looking forward to getting married even though we did not make any of such promises to each other but within our hearts we just knew that that was all we wanted.

I left the East for the North and everythinhg changed!

The last time I spoke with her she told me that she had forgiven me, but will i ever forgive myself?
At the slightest provocation by my wife she (Blessing) comes to mind!


I love my wife and all that but Blessing was in a class of her own:
so simple,
so kind,
so understanding,
so loving,
so caring and affectionate!

There was this understanding silence that we shared that nothing can ever equal!
Just the two of us; sitting or laying down, not touching or doing anything but lost in our seperate worlds but still being together!

I am not asking for any kind of help as I know that everything was my fault and all but i just wanted to be heard.

What actually went wrong. What was the silly thing u did that put an end to the 1daful relationship u had with Blessing. share it in detail as it can serve as a lesson to other guyz.

point of this story?

tpia@:

point of this story?

Never let your blessing GO !!!

follypimpi:


Never let your blessing GO !!!

lmao! Good answer.

NLers

I hear you but there is no point crying over split milk, try and make the best of what you have, Blessing is gone forever accept it and move on, all the best

A mistake you made yourself. . .so deal with it. . .

You never know what you have till its gone. . .

marry in haste as they say

What the hell did u do that ended ur relationship with Blessing?

follypimpi:


Never let your blessing GO !!!

LOL!!

@ OP
Yu kan 'as well count yur Blessingzzz' n name dem both. . .if yu knw woh ah mean!

@poster
I guess we have all luvd and lost.
And each time you reminisce It takes you to a place where you wonder what could have been. . . .
The remedy is to move on from that and let your current wife be everything to you.
. . .i guess. . .

I understand y u wish u culd turn back the hands of time, many people go to their various places of worship to ask 4 blessing but you had urs but let it go??

Lets find Prof DUMBLEDORE Mayb he can giv u a time turner:-D

Thanks to you all forum members.

I hear una and loud and clear too!

I have come to terms with it but it is just that whenever i think of it
i just wonder why i should do that!

I am not one to live in the past though for i believe and strongly too that one must move on
and i dey try.

Una doe

@poster

I feel u, but not much and u kwn y?

U had every opportunity of making her yours but u let it go

Sad we never can turn the hand of time, so make good due with what u got left.

Wish most of us could learn to appreciate what we have as at time we have it.

julian_H:

I am married now though but I can't just get Blessing (that is her name) out of my system no matter how hard I try.
The relationship was one of the best that I have ever had - and I had many!
She was everything one would ever want in a woman - just name it, she got it.

I can't still say what went into me; we were really looking forward to getting married even though we did not make any of such promises to each other but within our hearts we just knew that that was all we wanted.

I left the East for the North and everythinhg changed!

The last time I spoke with her she told me that she had forgiven me, but will i ever forgive myself?
At the slightest provocation by my wife she (Blessing) comes to mind!


I love my wife and all that but Blessing was in a class of her own:
so simple,
so kind,
so understanding,
so loving,
so caring and affectionate!

There was this understanding silence that we shared that nothing can ever equal!
Just the two of us; sitting or laying down, not touching or doing anything but lost in our seperate worlds but still being together!

I am not asking for any kind of help as I know that everything was my fault and all but i just wanted to be heard.

This is sooo sad!! The funny thing is that things like this happen everyday. Why cant you guys just relax when you see a girl that truly loves you. I guess most of your pain comes from your guilt. Blessing will get over you cos there's not much she could have done . . she did her best already!

But you, you'll spend the rest of you life wondering . . . what if?

I feel bad for you though, but I cant help saying you should have known better!!

I hope you’re not looking for a reason to cheat on your wife; because with this thread, everyone would know that an extramarital affair is on the way.

Since you’re married now, concentrate on your wife and she alone forget about any other relationship you must have had with any other girl in the past, and show her (your wife)love and care because that was the vow you made before God and the whole congregation on your wedding day.

crazykid:

I hope you’re not looking for a reason to cheat on your wife; because with this thread, everyone would know that an extramarital affair is on the way.

Extramarital affair with who? Blessing? She go pour am hot water na!

Don't be so positive; one can't really truse women these days.

You are (all really) a wonderful people, thanks for all your inputs.

One must move on irrespective of the blunders that was committed in the past.

Blessing I cant get anymore (and this) i know.

It is just that I cant help but (just) wonder why we let something slip through our fingers.

A posters said that I should not be too positive as she might end up being something else after marriage (poster's sentence paraphrased). I have not really seen it that what but now that one have pointed it out, I can't help but see that possibility.

Thank you all once. You are (all really) a wonderful people and i appreciate you in no small measure.

Catch you tomorrow!