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10 ways ladies Reject/Turn Down A Guy by amzee(m): 10:18pm On Jun 20, 2016
Knowing how to reject a guy is never easy.

There is no perfect way to turn down a guy, as each guy is different.

But here’s a list of 10 ways that girls use in getting their points across.

Rejecting a guy can be a sensitive matter. And it completely depends on the guy and how he’s pursuing you.

Some guys may be understanding enough to back away when a girl tell them she's not interested.
But some guys may need a firmer response to get the message across.Now all guys aren’t bad. You have to understand that a guy may be persistent only because he likes you a lot.

In some cases, the guy may be genuinely nice and may only want you to get to know him better.
And in some other cases, he may assume you’re playing hard to get and may pursue you with renewed vigor.

1-They tell him the truth

This is plain and simple. If a guy that you’re not particularly interested in asks you out, they tell him straight out that they are not interested in him. They don’t really appear rude at first unless the gut is persistent. They really don’t owe every guy who falls in love with them an explanation about why they are not interested in him, or why they want to reject him.

2-They'll tell him they’ld want to be friends

If a girl want to reject a guy, but is not sure she want to lose him,they will tell him they don’t want to go out with him right now, but would love to be friends instead. This is best used when they are not sure of theirself. They take a bit of time to figure it out, and depending
upon how things go, she can always change her mind!

3-She make it clear

If a guy she rejected asks her to go out with him. They will tell him clearly and firmly that there’s no way they could ever like him back. And also tell him that they are starting to get irritated with his behavior.
Many guys have an annoying habit of wanting to know the logical reason behind why they are being rejected. They want an explanation for it.

4-They will tell him they’ll dislike him

Some guys get scared of this one. When he persistently tries to ask a girl out, she'll tell him she's starting to get annoyed with his behavior. She may said she's starting to dislike him, and the more he asks her out, she’ll only end up hating him.

5-She pretend to be saddened by his proposal

If a guy’s rather persistent, but yet, quite kind and nice, she'll have a talk with him. Telling him that she is getting upset and saddened by his persistence. She'll tell him she's having a difficult time getting through the day because of his incessant proposals.

6-She avoid the guy[b/]


Now some guys may be nice, but their persistence can be really annoying. She try to avoid the guy, and make it obvious that she's avoiding him.

[b]7-She doesn’t speak to him alone


Guys like it when the girl they like has a conversation with them alone. It shows preferential treatment over other guys. She
avoid giving away any signs that could be taken positively. She avoid the guy, and even if you tell her that you wants to speak with her alone, she won’t give you a chance. They'll tell you they will only speak to you if your are not stalking them.

8-She becomes rude

She appear rude. She plays hot and cold. They shout at guys. Telling him they don't like him.
Some will say “I just wish you’d understand. I really don’t want to shout at you, but you’re making me helpless. Why don’t you get it?

#Being overly rude to a guy can at times make him vengeful and quite scary. You wouldn’t want
that, so showing him your softer side in the middle of all the shouting will actually make
him feel guilty instead!

9-She cut him off from her social circle

They call him up and tell him that they can’t stand his behavior anymore. They'll tell him that they just want to be friends and nothing more.

10-She ignore him

She ignore him completely. Walk past him, and don’t wave or even look at him. If you confront her,she'll be rude.
Some will say, both of you can be
friends only if you promise to look at her as a friend.

Sorry for the long essay.
I drop my pen here.
Feel free to add yours.

Tosyne2much, Wristbangle

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