Most (if not all) Nigerian ladies were brought up with the mentality that any finance related issue is presumed to be the sole responsibility of a man, therefore, this ideology often makes them employ use all sorts of tactics and gimmicks to collect the last Kobo in a man's pocket, and failure to successfully explore the guy's pocket renders him a bad person.

Though, I know that virtually every lady will feign innocent of. these traits and you will begin to wonder if the guilty ones are only from another planet

Without wasting time, I present to you the disgraceful behaviours exhibited by Nigerian ladies when guy proves too hard to be scammed.

1. They label You a "Stingy" Person

One common trait Nigerian ladies share in common is that when they format you by asking for financial assistance to pay their school fees, house rent, fixing of hair, etc, failure to get money out of your pocket labels you a "stingy" person. Many of them will go broadcasting to her friends that you're very stingy and worthless you are

2. They Delete and Block From Their Friends List

This disgraceful habit is also very common on social media. When a lady requests for recharge card or data subscription and you fail to fulfill her desires, such a lady is most likely to start giving monosyllabic replies after which she will stop chatting with you. In some cases, she may even find a way to delete and block since she finds you unprofitable.

3. They become very Arrogant

Another way ladies behave when every effort to collect money from a guy seems too difficult, they become very arrogant and aggressive that you will begin to wonder what led to such awkward behaviour. They will look for every possible opportunity to embarrass and ridicule you. Some of them will resort to telling it straight to your face that they don't ever want to see you again

4. They Ignore You in Public

Just because they ask for money for irrelevant things and you fail to give them, they will start ignoring you when they see you afterwards. This reminds me when a lady begged me for N100 and I told her I have never in my life a lady ordinary N50 let alone N100. The next time passed by when she was in the midst of hour friends, she was shaking her head in contempt as if I embezzled the nation's budget.

5. They Flaunt Themselves when Flocking with a Rich Guy

When they are in the midst of well to do guys who can foot their bills, they try every possible means to make you see them just to make you look like, what you can't do, others can

6. They Become incessantly Cold to You

Another thing they do when you seem to be very smart is that they start acting moody and cold just like someone who recently conducted HIV test and he's afraid he won't test positive

7. They Quit the Relationship

Since we are in a society where financial pressure is usually mounted on men, sometimes, a lady may ask you to prove your love to her by paying her school fee, house rent, shopping, etc. Failure to do makes her lose interest in you and will look for every opportunity to pick a quarrel so as to end the relationship. This is such a disgraceful attitude displayed by ladies.

8. They Stop Picking Your calls

Since every effort to get a Naira out of your pocket seems too difficult for them, they will quickly conclude you're not in any way romantic, hence, they stop calling nor pick your calls

9. They Deny You Sex

Failure to get money from you triggers them to deny you kitty-cat not minding if you will die of konji that day. Since you are unwilling to give out money, they will give you 500 reasons as to why it's morally wrong to engage in premarital sex and will give Biblical references. I can relate to this very well

10. They Discourage other Girls from Dating You

If a lady declares her interest in you, they will try to poison her mind by discouraging her from dating giving lame excuses. They will make false allegation against the guy saying you're a cultist, irresponsible, flirt, 419, and that your joystick is too small to satisfy a lady. This is to discourage the lady from dating you

I drop my pen at this point

Feel free to add yours

Cc
Lalasticlala

Original Writer: Tosyne2much

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Source: http://tosyne2much..com/2016/07/10-disgraceful-behaviours-exhibited-by.html

K9blunt:
While I dont fancy a lady demanding too much from men she is in a relationship with, but if a guy can't foot some of his woman's bills, then what good is having him around at all?

Countrygirl:
Tosyne, now i know you are truly stingy

falconey:


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skarlett:
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demarc001:
Make I comment like some people, "as na Tosyn dis tin dey head to FP"

Everyday no be Christmas you know?