Why NOT?


When we devote time in training the maids on
how to cook well, how to clean the house and on
good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters
untrained.
We overwork the maids and they adjust with
equanimity because they need us to survive.
The maids turn out to manage the indignation and
insolence we and our children subject them to. All
these make the maids better wives who can
manage even the angriest of men.


Our precious daughters are pampered through
nursery and primary schools. They speak the
English we want and know all the cartoon slangs
by heart. We beat the maids blue black if they
ever ask our girls to help out in domestic duties.
They see kitchen things as maids' things.
The girls move from boarding schools to the
university, do their NYSC, Masters and get a job.
Of course, they are ripe for marriage and you wish
that to happen soon.


From one relationship to another, the same story.
The guys would parade and dump them. They are
only good in bed, outings, clubs and red carpet
functions.
The boys de-commit when they notice that the
possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are
very domestically untrained. The rich guys can
manage as they would mitigate the handicap by
hiring a domestic help. Not all guys can afford this
for a start.



The upcoming and very sensitive guys who would
make good husbands, fathers and leaders would
not manage these parents' inflicted shortcomings.
They would settle for well trained ones. They
know the value and the pride in hosting friends at
home to delicious delicacies prepared by a wife.
My friends love eating the food my wife makes.
My wife's proficiency in culinary matters and the
joy she exudes in cooking different dishes for me
has made me to stop eating outside. I tell people
that as a titled man, that I'm forbidden to eat
outside but I know the truth- no food can taste
any better than my wife's. I'm also convinced that
my addiction is not juju-inspired. It would have
expired by now. We are married for 16 years+.
Not all your maids would remain your servants for
ever. Some of them would finally do part-time
studies and like a train, get to their God ordained
destinations sooner or later.



Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained
wife materials from afar and dump the daughters
of the bourgeois like hot iron. Long time
happiness in at stake. No explanation is given.
Sometimes, the sack message is made through a
social medium.
Let your daughters learn what you teach your
maids to make them compete for the few
available good men if marriage is important to
them. There are few guys who believe that
marriage is for better for worse.
Don't be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it
is. You love; you loved; and you used to love. You
can also hate who you used to love. Therefore,
some men are immune to pre-marital love
blindness.

In practice, love can't cover the stench of bad
early formation of our daughters.
Right now, educated former maids are now
cornering better men on offer because they
possess the requisite or set skills the highly
perceptible and ready husband materials need.
Mothers please take note
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Very well said

I swear this is a must read for women out there... and if u 're not trained, try train yourself and stop the it's my parent's fault excuses

That's because they are maids and they know their place. They make a living out of it, its their job, and they know that the only job they are capable of. They wouldn't want to make any mistake that will cost them their job, and they are likely to take any bullshit from their boss because they are getting paid. When you marry them, their character is likely to change because they are not a maid anymore.
When we devote time in training the maids on
how to cook well, how to clean the house and on
good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters
untrained.
We overwork the maids and they adjust with
equanimity because they need us to survive.
The maids turn out to manage the indignation and
insolence we and our children subject them to. All
these make the maids better wives who can
manage even the angriest of men.

Are you sure he's not eating more than just food from your wife?
My friends love eating the food my wife makes.

theEYe21:
Are you sure he's not eating more than just food from your wife?
My friends love eating the food my wife makes.

Lol, however I doubt that sha. How are you doing jare?

I dey o! How work?

dafman10:


Lol, however I doubt that sha. How are you doing jare?