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10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Adeyinka1758(m): 12:35am On Jun 23, 2016 |
Lots of marriages fail these days as a result of the unrealistic goals and expectations that couples set before marriage. Many people venture into marriage for the wrong reasons; some cannot even say why they are in it. Ladies most times are to be blamed here; they always seem to have certain standards the men are expected to meet before they agree to marry them. They keep chasing vague things and pay little or no attention to important matters. Many women get married because of the pressure placed on them by their family members or the society. Some of them feel the need to get married because their mates are doing it and they want the man they would end up with to fit some fictional characters in their heads. These wrong choices or criteria often make them fall into the wrong hands and ruin their chances of being happy. Find below some of the weird things ladies check in men before marrying them: 1. Height This is the first thing a woman is likely to say when you ask her about the things she desires in a man. Every woman wants men that are tall. No one wants a short man. Some women would even say they cannot date men that are taller than they. Thus, when they meet men who are tall and have one or two traits that fit their vague qualities, they tune in and fall in love with them. 2. Well-furnished apartment Ladies do not want to settle for less now when they are planning for marriage. Every woman wants a man who is successful and has different properties to show with it. Men who have their own houses are presumed to be better than men who don’t. These houses have to be furnished to taste and classy for the women to fit into them. If a man does not have this or something close enough, some women would not agree to marry them. 3. Wealth Every woman wants a man that can see to her financial needs. Money is important to a lot of women out there and they would not settle down with men who are struggling financially. Men who cannot meet their needs may not even make the list of suitors they would be considering. It does not matter whether the man has some hidden demons as long as he has enough money in his account. 4. Cars Now, it would amaze you to discover that some ladies would not date men who do not have a car. As soon as you approach them on with your ‘leggedbenz’ and they do not see you holding a car key, it is a no-no. Some ladies love comfort and would not trade anything for it. Before you stand a chance to talk to them at all, your appearance has to speak a ton about you. Some ladies simply love it when they meet guys who are romantic; they love men who would read lines of poems to them and make them feel like princesses. They enjoy the attention they get from men like these and would immediately fall for their gentle and romantic gestures. As far as some of these women are concerned, the men’s ability to show love and care while being romantic is more than enough. 6. Citizenship As soon as some ladies get to know the guys asking them out are not Nigerians or they have dual citizenship, love happens. Ladies love the concept of marrying foreigners or men who would give them the fair chance of stepping outside the shores of this country. You would be shocked to discover that some ladies would be willing to marry some men as soon as they know they have passports to other countries. 7. Presence of six packs Women certainly love men who are physically fit; they believe guys that are well-built are manly and would be able to perform better than men who are not. The presence of six packs would make some of the ladies melt and get wet on the spot. They would always choose a man with a firm body over a man with a pot belly. 8. Sexual performance Women no doubt love men whose strength in bed can be likened to that of a stallion; they love men who can drive them to different peaks of desire when it comes to sexual activities. Knowing fully well that many women end up cheating in marriage as a result of sex, they would rather go for men who would make them go wild with desire and leave their bodies limp after being satisfied. 9. Occupation Many ladies want to get married to men who have good jobs. They will always ask about the men’s place of work within the first few minutes they meet and would use the details to map out their plans about them. Men who work in oil and gas companies are seen as better suitors as compared to those who teach. In the same light, bankers are preferred to mechanics. Women love the idea of being known with men who have good jobs in the society. 10. Talent and fame Some ladies want to marry men who are talented and famous. It is highly ridiculous finding women who are ready to spend the rest of their lives with certain men because of the talents the men have and how famous they have become. Therefore, it is not strange when you see some women who have dreams of getting married to some artistes and public figures they do not know personally. As long as they have talents they like, then getting married to them is no big deal. Cc_ Dominique, Rocktation, Farano |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by LadyG16(f): 12:38am On Jun 23, 2016 |
Not so true |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by natnoble(m): 12:38am On Jun 23, 2016 |
let them creat that kind of men n marry. |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Airtimex(m): 1:04am On Jun 23, 2016 |
very true, tiny brain everywhere |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by halfricanadian(f): 1:15am On Jun 23, 2016 |
Na wa o So these are wat i will consider for husband life partner? God forbid in a million times |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Xclusivegrin007(m): 1:17am On Jun 23, 2016 |
If na tosyn2much post this now, i for bilivit |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by EazyJ(f): 1:50am On Jun 23, 2016 |
95% true 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by inception101(m): 4:49am On Jun 23, 2016 |
La copy la paste! Citizenship kwa |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Nobody: 4:53am On Jun 23, 2016 |
True, I have Bítches flocking over me because I run track so that covers my 6 packs and talent...5 ft 11 ain't bad. Drive a Chevy and a stud in bed. And proudly American...GOD ONLY ME JUst a job and an apartment now |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by foolinlove(f): 4:58am On Jun 23, 2016 |
What trash. This isn't true at all! |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Countrygirl(f): 5:03am On Jun 23, 2016 |
8 & 9 is not bad to me. Atleast a man should have a reliable source of income before getting married.........do u want me to wish for a 'one minute man' |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by khristals(m): 7:38am On Jun 23, 2016 |
they consider up to 10 things?.. the mind of a woman has alotta messed up shi I going on in it! for guys its just 2; •do I love her? •can I live with her excesses?.. dassor |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Adeyinka1758(m): 8:17am On Jun 23, 2016 |
Xclusivegrin007:Cc_ tosyn2much... Lol |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Nobody: 8:55am On Jun 23, 2016 |
EazyJ:Uh na go wait tire. Especially now NAIJA bad... How have u ladies prepared yourselves for MARRIAGE.. ? MOST LADIES ladies are now prepared to remain as SIDE-CHICKS which is even better for the men. Why do Ladies, still feel they can CHOOSE from different MEN after all they always say " ALL MEN ARE THE SAME ".... So why choose now..? Ain't ladies confused.. ? |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Headlesschicken(m): 10:16am On Jun 23, 2016 |
u just putted up a lotta crap here,yuh tryna make d ladies look bad,seems u woke up in IBIZA b4 writing dis sh*t,no matured lady dat x rdy 4marriage,still looks up 2all doze standards now,some wld not even mind marrying a blind man,so lng as d understanding x dia... |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by sashabree(f): 11:21am On Jun 23, 2016 |
K |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Look Out For In Men Before They Marry Them... by Nobody: 11:56am On Jun 23, 2016 |
Make them carry clay mould the man of their choice.chikena |
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