I meet this lady in church some months ago and we became close friends . she knows I have a lady I have been dating for over 4 years and God help Me I plan on getting married next year. she also has a man who she claim to love deeply and we both understand our boundaries.

just recently we got too close and we nearly compromise each other so we decided to give space. its been 5 days since we spoke and its been hard for me. I have been missing her like crazy and worried about her. just this morning I got a text from her that she had to take a casual in the office because she has not been herself without me. and she seriously confused as to why she feels this way.

I need advice friends how do I deal with this.we both have strong feeling for each other yet we have our different vows

This is a fight you can never win alone. Tell your partner, if truly she is a wife material, she will know how to handle it, if she doesn't handle it well, then you have an option

Sin always appear sweet but the stigma may last for life. Did I read that you met her in the church. Don't build a foundation of polygamy or consolidate on the one built by your progenitors. That is a deep pit which has wide opened its mouth to swallow you, your goodies and your future. This is a potential stigma that may hurt and hunt you all the days of your life.

Run as fast as your legs could carry you. Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Remember your future family and your dignity. God bless you.

Emotions is more power than knowledge. The power of emotion is at work here. you have placed yourself in a very tight corner that I believe only you can severe yourself from. Apply wisdom

Op the lures of lust is so strong...


Heaven knows how much sinful thought you have committed in your heart


The bad news is that once you sleep with the said church friend your eyes becomes clear and hatred albeit disgust set in


If your girlfriend happens to be in your shoe will you be happen


Oga flee from temptation and give your self brain joor


You are in lust not in love... I hope you really love you girl also

If you don't have this sort of understanding with your current girlfriend... you better test this water... according to most girls overtaking is allowed...


you too check am... you understand this girl better than your present girl... girls will also say don't marry out of pity...


So bros... do the needful...

If you are to die at age 100, and you marry at age 30, the remaining 70 will be spent with your better half unless you opt for a divorce. Think am well before you marry ooo, besides what you are experiencing might be lust.

kekakuz:
I meet this lady in church some months ago and we became close friends . she knows I have a lady I have been dating for over 4 years and God help Me I plan on getting married next year. she also has a man who she claim to love deeply and we both understand our boundaries.

just recently we got too close and we nearly compromise each other so we decided to give space. its been 5 days since we spoke and its been hard for me. I have been missing her like crazy and worried about her. just this morning I got a text from her that she had to take a casual in the office because she has not been herself without me. and she seriously confused as to why she feels this way.

I need advice friends how do I deal with this.we both have strong feeling for each other yet we have our different vows

if I were you I would have sex with her




And if after the sex you still love her like mad then you 2 should dump your partners and get married




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kekakuz:
I meet this lady in church some months ago and we became close friends . she knows I have a lady I have been dating for over 4 years and God help Me I plan on getting married next year. she also has a man who she claim to love deeply and we both understand our boundaries.

just recently we got too close and we nearly compromise each other so we decided to give space. its been 5 days since we spoke and its been hard for me. I have been missing her like crazy and worried about her. just this morning I got a text from her that she had to take a casual in the office because she has not been herself without me. and she seriously confused as to why she feels this way.

I need advice friends how do I deal with this.we both have strong feeling for each other yet we have our different vows

Bro don't take offence to the following

you are not ready to be married you need to free your fiance while you still have the chance. why would you want to be with someone who has a man and is willing to compromise her relationship for some d!ck? how do you know she wouldn't do the same to you? (same goes for you too)

i do understand that your heart wants what it wants but you have to be able to control yourself and obviously you can't so please don't get married. you are emotionally cheating on your woman which is even worse than d!ck/pnssy business.

if you continue on this path, you will eventually find a way to justify hooking up with this woman and where would you go when things get bad? Cut the friendship off now and focus on your own woman and never look back

The Dangers of Premarital Sex

Are you in a long distance relationship??