omonighoblessing:
been meaning to do it a long time ago.so just thought I can do it now.
BTW
do I have to explain to u?

omonighoblessing:

well my dear that isn't the problem.
the thing is that he is a chronic womanizer. tho he tried hiding it but I could notice .I only hoped he changed.
but I am glad I didn't end up with him.
I met one of his colleague that knows me tho dosent know I dated him.so when I told him I dated the guy.he was so disappointed in me.he said that guy is a "STRIKER""
imagine!!!
so meaning he strikes every where.
my dear am glad he left.I don't deserve such a person that specializes in"STRIKING " women.

BeastAmbition:



I wish you well though, and i hope you will meet an upright man that will know your worth and makes you happy.

Youngpo413:
na that type una dey like.... Bado guys hehehhe, take heart, that is if you haven't broken someone's heart before o..... But if you do, just know that it's karma..

omonighoblessing:
so what do u say about this?

Youngpo413:
na that type una dey like.... Bado guys hehehhe, take heart, that is if you haven't broken someone's heart before o..... But if you do, just know that it's karma..

Youngpo413:
cute couple... What else?

omonighoblessing:

hehehehee. ...anyway the only kind of striker I wan is the one that will strike to give me twins
I don't need a womanizing STRIKER.

omonighoblessing:
so I broke up with this guy after two years.before then I had noticed signs ...I saw all the warning signs and trust me I didn't ignore them.
by March last year I finally went back to sch knowing well that I just gave him the opportunity to be free....before then I noticed this babe he was always talking to.every time,in the morning ,in the night ,EVERY DAY!
her pictures were littered in his phone.both one where she is composed and those random pictures u take that might not be fine were just on his phone.I asked what's up n.a. who is this babe again.he said she is his colleague.true to it she was his colleague but they were unusually close.then he would say she is the one disturbing him.that he told her he already has a woman.but u see u he wasn't really stern,he wouldn't have given room for her to be close.
then there were nonchalant attitudes from him from him,thereafter excuses upon excuses.
hahahahahahahahahah
my dear make I laff small.
imagine telling me later that his parents said NO, that they went to somewhere and they juju said we won't be happy together,that there will be tragedy. hahahahahahahahahah.
thinking of it sef, will the devil ever say anything good before?
well.to the best of my knowledge sha.I believe he was using his parents as excuse cos he has even traveled all the way,an 8hr journey to my base to see if he can find any fault in me but he couldn't. no attachment boyfriend , no flitting arround, no single fault could he find.
so it downed on him that he can't use me as an excuse.then he used his parents. poor parents don't even know that their pikin dey lie with their name .
well well.finally he found the opportunity he was looking for.
meanwhile I forgot to say.he told me lets pray and fast so his parents mind can melt.
see me serious dey pray when that "goat" was busy galivanting .
later he blocked me on whatsapp cos I questioned why he was using that same babe as dp. he said do I know what she has done for him?..
huh!!! for God sake what the he'll has she done for u?
well.later he blocked me as I said then.
one faithful day,I just dey my own ooo.n.a. me find trouble.I just pinged him.saying ""it is well"".
meehnnnnnn.that was it ooooo.I couldn't believe what I got next.
he called me immediately and said shouting
""what is the meaning of it is well
?
no tell me
what do u mean by it is well.....
u know what
it is over!
I can't do this anymore.""
my people I was dumbfounded. I no believe my ear.2yrs like that
Jesus!!!.
any way.the next thing my causin told me she saw a lady pix on his dp. I smiled, the pix was an engagement pix.it captured him puting a ring on her finger and then hugging.
jezzzzz.
hahahahahahahhahaha my people make I laff small joor.
this is just two days after the breakup.
so he had been waiting for the breakup to to to the next stage.
hahahahahahhaaha
hmmmm
next thing I saw his pre wedding photos to the same lady he called his colleague.
men shaaaaaa!!!!!
the later I saw their court wedding photo.

u see just when I was about sending him a congratulatory message on whatsapp cos he later unblocked me.
I noticed again that he had blocked me again.
this time whatsapp,BBM,instagram. e remain Facebook.am expecting that one soon.

I think he is just too childish.
so this is to the men...
I know we have the good ones out there just as there are the bad ones ......
why all this.what is the meaning of the whole drama.
this is the last message I sent him sha

ishiamu:



I heard this stuff on cool Fm ph this morning are youu the one that gave it to them or you copied from them??

Pdizzle:
Nas once said "I'll be the first man to admit that a fat ass caught my attention, but never made me faithful. A pretty face got me to commit, but never changed me. It was that funny girl with that beautiful personality, million dollar smile and a heart of gold that left me in tears begging for a second chance. I never viewed women the same after her. She left my heart convinced that love is more about chemistry than biology." Every relationship is a teacher.
I think you should take that picture down.

ishiamu:



I heard this stuff on cool Fm ph this morning are youu the one that gave it to them or you copied from them??

omonighoblessing:

really....
u see its happening every where.
my dear am not the one on d radio.
and this is my own experience.

omonighoblessing:
so I broke up with this guy after two years.before then I had noticed signs ...I saw all the warning signs and trust me I didn't ignore them.
by March last year I finally went back to sch knowing well that I just gave him the opportunity to be free....before then I noticed this babe he was always talking to.every time,in the morning ,in the night ,EVERY DAY!
her pictures were littered in his phone.both one where she is composed and those random pictures u take that might not be fine were just on his phone.I asked what's up n.a. who is this babe again.he said she is his colleague.true to it she was his colleague but they were unusually close.then he would say she is the one disturbing him.that he told her he already has a woman.but u see u he wasn't really stern,he wouldn't have given room for her to be close.
then there were nonchalant attitudes from him from him,thereafter excuses upon excuses.
hahahahahahahahahah
my dear make I laff small.
imagine telling me later that his parents said NO, that they went to somewhere and they juju said we won't be happy together,that there will be tragedy. hahahahahahahahahah.
thinking of it sef, will the devil ever say anything good before?
well.to the best of my knowledge sha.I believe he was using his parents as excuse cos he has even traveled all the way,an 8hr journey to my base to see if he can find any fault in me but he couldn't. no attachment boyfriend , no flitting arround, no single fault could he find.
so it downed on him that he can't use me as an excuse.then he used his parents. poor parents don't even know that their pikin dey lie with their name .
well well.finally he found the opportunity he was looking for.
meanwhile I forgot to say.he told me lets pray and fast so his parents mind can melt.
see me serious dey pray when that "goat" was busy galivanting .
later he blocked me on whatsapp cos I questioned why he was using that same babe as dp. he said do I know what she has done for him?..
huh!!! for God sake what the he'll has she done for u?
well.later he blocked me as I said then.
one faithful day,I just dey my own ooo.n.a. me find trouble.I just pinged him.saying ""it is well"".
meehnnnnnn.that was it ooooo.I couldn't believe what I got next.
he called me immediately and said shouting
""what is the meaning of it is well
?
no tell me
what do u mean by it is well.....
u know what
it is over!
I can't do this anymore.""
my people I was dumbfounded. I no believe my ear.2yrs like that
Jesus!!!.
any way.the next thing my causin told me she saw a lady pix on his dp. I smiled, the pix was an engagement pix.it captured him puting a ring on her finger and then hugging.
jezzzzz.
hahahahahahahhahaha my people make I laff small joor.
this is just two days after the breakup.
so he had been waiting for the breakup to to to the next stage.
hahahahahahhaaha
hmmmm
next thing I saw his pre wedding photos to the same lady he called his colleague.
men shaaaaaa!!!!!
the later I saw their court wedding photo.

u see just when I was about sending him a congratulatory message on whatsapp cos he later unblocked me.
I noticed again that he had blocked me again.
this time whatsapp,BBM,instagram. e remain Facebook.am expecting that one soon.

I think he is just too childish.
so this is to the men...
I know we have the good ones out there just as there are the bad ones ......
why all this.what is the meaning of the whole drama.
this is the last message I sent him sha

summary puleaseeeeeeee

BeastAmbition:



There are a thousand and one things the OP is not telling us, a guy of marriageable age won't just move on from a two years relationship like that to settle down with another lady. is either the OP is just his sexmate or sidebabe right from time, but she was too drunk in love to see.


I personally believe the man married the better well cultured fish.... karma my ass

omonighoblessing:
so I broke up with this guy after two years.before then I had noticed signs ...I saw all the warning signs and trust me I didn't ignore them.
by March last year I finally went back to sch knowing well that I just gave him the opportunity to be free....before then I noticed this babe he was always talking to.every time,in the morning ,in the night ,EVERY DAY!
her pictures were littered in his phone.both one where she is composed and those random pictures u take that might not be fine were just on his phone.I asked what's up n.a. who is this babe again.he said she is his colleague.true to it she was his colleague but they were unusually close.then he would say she is the one disturbing him.that he told her he already has a woman.but u see u he wasn't really stern,he wouldn't have given room for her to be close.
then there were nonchalant attitudes from him from him,thereafter excuses upon excuses.
hahahahahahahahahah
my dear make I laff small.
imagine telling me later that his parents said NO, that they went to somewhere and they juju said we won't be happy together,that there will be tragedy. hahahahahahahahahah.
thinking of it sef, will the devil ever say anything good before?
well.to the best of my knowledge sha.I believe he was using his parents as excuse cos he has even traveled all the way,an 8hr journey to my base to see if he can find any fault in me but he couldn't. no attachment boyfriend , no flitting arround, no single fault could he find.
so it downed on him that he can't use me as an excuse.then he used his parents. poor parents don't even know that their pikin dey lie with their name .
well well.finally he found the opportunity he was looking for.
meanwhile I forgot to say.he told me lets pray and fast so his parents mind can melt.
see me serious dey pray when that "goat" was busy galivanting .
later he blocked me on whatsapp cos I questioned why he was using that same babe as dp. he said do I know what she has done for him?..
huh!!! for God sake what the he'll has she done for u?
well.later he blocked me as I said then.
one faithful day,I just dey my own ooo.n.a. me find trouble.I just pinged him.saying ""it is well"".
meehnnnnnn.that was it ooooo.I couldn't believe what I got next.
he called me immediately and said shouting
""what is the meaning of it is well
?
no tell me
what do u mean by it is well.....
u know what
it is over!
I can't do this anymore.""
my people I was dumbfounded. I no believe my ear.2yrs like that
Jesus!!!.
any way.the next thing my causin told me she saw a lady pix on his dp. I smiled, the pix was an engagement pix.it captured him puting a ring on her finger and then hugging.
jezzzzz.
hahahahahahahhahaha my people make I laff small joor.
this is just two days after the breakup.
so he had been waiting for the breakup to to to the next stage.
hahahahahahhaaha
hmmmm
next thing I saw his pre wedding photos to the same lady he called his colleague.
men shaaaaaa!!!!!
the later I saw their court wedding photo.

u see just when I was about sending him a congratulatory message on whatsapp cos he later unblocked me.
I noticed again that he had blocked me again.
this time whatsapp,BBM,instagram. e remain Facebook.am expecting that one soon.

I think he is just too childish.
so this is to the men..
I know we have the good ones out there just as there are the bad ones ......
why all this.what is the meaning of the whole drama.
this is the last message I sent him sha

ishiamu:


it was stated like this as you wrote it there, and people whr calling and making contributions that's why am surprised seeing it here too

mrjojo:
Most of this OAP are on here,i can't count the amount of time have read a story on NL and hear it verbatim on radio too, Dandy of raypower ibadan is a regular culprit.
Guys pls for the sake of your future daughters, if you know a relationship is not heading anywhere, pls for God sake, don't waste a lady's time abeg, in 6months you should know exactly where a relationship is headed.
I know of a lady who is currently mentally challenged, because, a guy she is been dating for 5yr dumped her and got married to another lady within 2weeks of doing so.. Guys abeg fear God

adeaks:
Blessing I hope this one too is not a Yoruba guy

Fkforyou:


I like your mindset bro....you know, it's kind of funny when someone that has been dumped starts to play "I'm the most perfect person card".... they have this false sense of pride that the next person he/she is going to date is not better than them. ( Deep down they know the dumper has moved on to better things... lol)

Also, most times, after they have been dumped they begin to play the victim card and going all spiritual up and down, telling those who care to listen that didn't deserve the treatment and as shallow as people are, they tend to believe them.

If you look closely, they have one or two character flaw but they'll rather blame the dumper than work on themselves.... they'll be screaming karma up and down to console them selves... lol.

omonighoblessing:

God bless u!!!!
thank u.
meanwhile, am not an OAP
this is my story.

mrjojo:
yes I know, am just saying those OAP come on here most times to scavenge for stories like yours.

omonighoblessing:

oh ok
.......
thanks tho

mrjojo:
uwc sis,someone much better is around the corner. Good luck

omonighoblessing:

then it should be a co incidence. as am not resident in port Harcourt.
meanwhile these things happen everyday.
I pray God help us

ishiamu:


maybe they stole it from ya post cos it was said by this time you also posted it...

omonighoblessing:
u have a point there. lol let them continue

permanentgrace:

So have you met a new dude who is gonna keep you?