There are certain signs that plainly points out to a
lady, if the Man you’re dating is the right person
for you or not. There are general qualities that
make a man much more appealing, desirable as a
husband and more successful as a life partner.
Today, i want to show you, the top best six
qualities you should look for in a man before ever
deciding to marry him. Ensure he has the
qualities before you decided to settled down,
except you want a divorce in the nearest future.
This article will stand as a pinpoint and compass,
to show you the right way.

1. HE SHARES IMPORTANT CORE VALUE WITH YOU.
Values are those ‘rules of life’ that inherently
guide the way you live your life. They’re deeply
rooted in personal beliefs that are fundamental to
who you are. They’re also very difficult to change.
Connecting on a spiritual, emotional and value
level with a man you wish to marry is a key
indicator for long-term marital success. When you
and your partner know that you are on the “same
page,” you’ll feel more confident that he’s truly
the man you want to marry.
When you both think ahead into the marriage and
know you can respect each other’s perspective on
important marital issues (such as family
dynamics, child rearing, finance, in-laws, roles
and responsibilities), you know you’re making the
right choice.

2. HE'S EMOTIONALLY MATURE.
A responsible, emotionally intelligent man who
can control his impulses shows true maturity. As
such, he likely has the capacity to deal with the
change, disappointment, stress and conflict that
life (and marriage) invariably bring.
A well-grounded man with a sense of balance can
confront life and face ups (and especially downs)
in a constructive way while remaining a resilient,
supportive and engaging partner. Look for a man
who can respond to a challenging issue
responsibly, rather than react to it impulsively.

3. HE APPRECIATE YOU AND ACCEPTS YOUR SHORTCOMINGS.
The old saying “Happy wife, happy life!” is true
and valid (and, it goes both ways, too … “happy
spouse” equals “happy house”).
Appreciation goes a long way when creating a
happy relationship. In fact, feeling appreciated is a
primary quality of happy life. If you don’t feel
appreciated or loved by your man, you’re
paddling into dangerous waters. But when he
openly demonstrates his respect and appreciation
for you (with his words and actions), you know
you’ll live a happy life with your man.
That said, while he appreciate your qualities
(good cook, caring, social, engaged, supportive
etc.), he should also accept your shortcoming
(little messy, not so organized, talking a bit too
much, not being on time etc.). He must deeply
recognize and accept that no one is perfect
(including him). His overall view of you should be
positive.

4. HE MANAGES CONFLICT WELL.
Arguments, disagreements, and conflict are not
only unavoidable parts of any relationship, but
also are necessary ingredients to forming a
strong, lasting intimacy.
Many couples communicate in a destructive way
that leads to frustration, anger, and disconnection.
Many other couples avoid having meaningful
discussions at all to avoid fighting. But, healthy
communication is the basis of any successful
relationship.
One of the most important factors that helps
couples thrive is their ability to deal with different
conflicts, manage difficult emotions (such
disappointment, frustration and anger), de-
escalate arguments, and disagree with respect.
A man who shares his thoughts and feelings with
you without reservation; a man who talks things
out with you; a man who discuss difficult subjects
with you and can disagree yet still come to some
kind a resolution is a man who has healthy
communication skills and will make a great
husband.

5. HE IS TRUSTWORTHY.
Trust is another key foundation of an intimate
relationship. Yet, it’s important to understand that
being trustworthy is a proactive role that requires
a conscious effort, affirmed continuously by
decision and actions.
When your man does what he is says; when your
partner does not lie; when your spouse acts
assertively and, most importantly, he’s consistent
with these positive qualities, then you know that
your man is dependable and he will become a
husband you can trust.

6. HE MAKES YOUR RELATIONSHIP A PRIORITY.
A frequent complaint I hear from women in my
counseling practice is: “I don’t think he cares
about me or the relationship.” Or, “He stays at
work long hours or he prefers to spend time with
his friends rather than with me.”
Often, couples find themselves dealing with the
daily routine and necessities of life only to find
they’re living parallel lives separated by a wide
rift. They feel totally disconnected from each
other.
To avoid this, couples must create positive shared
experiences in order to still face the mundane,
create nice memories and have something to look
forward to.
Any man you someday marry should realize that
relationships requires a commitment and constant
effort/investment. It’s important for a man not to
neglect his woman. He can show interest in her
life, plan a date nights, and create common
interests and shared activities. When your man
acts in that manner, you know you have the right
partner.

Edited from
http://toplovedatingtips.com/husband-material/

Husband?? Wonder.. Why I will decide to love with one woman all my life??
The best I can do is one baby mama.. . Pay ur bills treat u good.. . But she must be loyal and faithful.. . Even tho she knows I have many side chicks....
Am too cute and focused to be held by a woman

And if she doesn't have these 10 qualities, she's not a wife material

What if you show her all these qualities and she turns owt to be acting opposite nko

Husband material ko, husband yard ni

good luck finding such man n if u do wud u b Gud enof for him
cos such a man is not in the Bible