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12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Onyejemechimere(m): 12:13pm On Nov 21, 2017
Dear women, you are often told just what to do so you can be the perfect wife.

Yet at the same time, there’s hardly any pressure on the boy child to show you that he is capable of being the ultimate man for you. The pressure is mostly on you but what about him? Is he cut out to be the man of your dreams?

Sometimes, you insist on the wrong guy to be the one yet there is so much more for you.

Here are signs that the man you’re with is not a husband material:




1. You two don’t share the same beliefs or values.

A value and belief system can split you apart. When you get someone who doesn’t believe in God, for example, you will struggle most of the time or compromise your own beliefs. I mean what do you do when you get kids?

2. He doesn’t take care of you and your needs.

It doesn’t mean he becomes your sponsor but a man should feel the need to protect and provide for you in whatever capacity. You should never feel alone if you have a real husband material.

3. Your friends and family don’t like him.

This is such a big sign, if your friends and family don’t like him then chances are he has proven to be the biggest douche of all times.

4. You have caught him in lies a few times.

Unless you want to be married someone who keeps you in paranoia and suspense then don’t hold your breath for this guy.

5. He goes out too much and can’t imagine chilling.

Men always tell women that they can’t be wifed since they go out too much. Well, this applies to men as well, if a man goes out too much you’re more likely to spend most weekends alone while he is busy gallivanting.

6. He doesn’t like being confronted with serious issues.

If he avoids serious conversations then surely why are you even together? He clearly doesn’t take you seriously and that is not someone that you can confide in.

7. He is overly confident in himself so he always treats you like you’ll be there forever.

These egotistical pricks that act like you’re already married need to remember he still needs to work on keeping you. If he doesn’t do this, imagine when you’re married?


8. He always cheats on you.

Once a cheat always a cheat till death do you part.

9. You feel like you have settled for less.

When you settle it means you think you can’t get any better. So whatever he throws your way you’re ready to digest it. That’s not someone you should invest in.

10. He’s a chauvinist and thinks you should do all the work even in the relationship.

A relationship is a two-way street so no one should have to carry the burden of a whole relationship alone.

11. He shows no sign of real commitment.

He just wants to keep you there for his own convenience and nothing more. He acts like a kid and you accommodate his game. This is not a husband material in any way.

12. Any other signs you know about? I leave this number for you!





https://omgvoice.com/relationships/signs-man-not-husband-material?country=GH

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by medexico(m): 12:16pm On Nov 21, 2017
....... and vise versa, especially number 2

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Nobody: 12:33pm On Nov 21, 2017
No doubt...

IamJ is truly a husband material grin kiss



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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by teresafaith: 12:34pm On Nov 21, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
No doubt...
IamJ is truly a husband material grin kiss


Hmm

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by bizzy500: 12:51pm On Nov 21, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
No doubt...
IamJ is truly a husband material grin kiss


undecidedchai!

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by lalanice(f): 12:53pm On Nov 21, 2017
right!
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by NwaAmaikpe: 1:25pm On Nov 21, 2017
shocked


Sadly, a man with all these traits and characteristics will get to marry any girl of his choice if he is rich.

To women,
Money is what makes you husband-material, nothing else!

I can't thank God enough for making me 100% husband-material.

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by midehi2(f): 1:26pm On Nov 21, 2017
With all these listed, not a relationship material not to say "husband material"


who wan get heart attack undecided

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by UbanmeUdie: 1:26pm On Nov 21, 2017
shocked
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Ayodejioak(m): 1:26pm On Nov 21, 2017
angry
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Jaytecq(m): 1:27pm On Nov 21, 2017
ok
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by LuvU2: 1:27pm On Nov 21, 2017
Lol 1 and 3 is enough to call it off

1 is explanatory.

3 Personal happiness is a sought of myth. Even if real, only shortlived. Real Happiness must be felt, shared by your relatives, and friends. There is no joy in being happy alone except we are deluded.

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Donald3d(m): 1:27pm On Nov 21, 2017
taaaah
No 3 is not entirely true ,I am still "trying " to "win " some of her family members heart not because I am a douche but na tribalism cause am. I would have mentioned the tribe make I no go start e-tribal war

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by ShitHead(m): 1:27pm On Nov 21, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
No doubt...

IamJ is truly a husband material grin kiss





Lesbian Material

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by jaheymezz(m): 1:28pm On Nov 21, 2017
Na so all those girls go they comment they go......lemme buy one plot of land for this place..... I think this is Lekki phase one..... incase you wanna buy Holla at your boy...... I'll come closer
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by DemonHunTER: 1:28pm On Nov 21, 2017
...........

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by asawanathegreat(m): 1:29pm On Nov 21, 2017
Thank u minister of information

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Nobody: 1:29pm On Nov 21, 2017
Number one is the most important... Values, beliefs, ideology, identical or similar perspectives to life issues...

All that is what makes a peaceful and calm union...anything else....na by force...undecided

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Ngene44: 1:29pm On Nov 21, 2017
Na all this write ups the break homes and relationships. OP are you married? which experience do you have in marriage?

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by free2ryhme: 1:29pm On Nov 21, 2017
Onyejemechimere:
Dear women, you are often told just what to do so you can be the perfect wife.

Yet at the same time, there’s hardly any pressure on the boy child to show you that he is capable of being the ultimate man for you. The pressure is mostly on you but what about him? Is he cut out to be the man of your dreams?

Sometimes, you insist on the wrong guy to be the one yet there is so much more for you.

Here are signs that the man you’re with is not a husband material:




1. You two don’t share the same beliefs or values.

A value and belief system can split you apart. When you get someone who doesn’t believe in God, for example, you will struggle most of the time or compromise your own beliefs. I mean what do you do when you get kids?

2. He doesn’t take care of you and your needs.

It doesn’t mean he becomes your sponsor but a man should feel the need to protect and provide for you in whatever capacity. You should never feel alone if you have a real husband material.

3. Your friends and family don’t like him.

This is such a big sign, if your friends and family don’t like him then chances are he has proven to be the biggest douche of all times.

4. You have caught him in lies a few times.

Unless you want to be married someone who keeps you in paranoia and suspense then don’t hold your breath for this guy.

5. He goes out too much and can’t imagine chilling.

Men always tell women that they can’t be wifed since they go out too much. Well, this applies to men as well, if a man goes out too much you’re more likely to spend most weekends alone while he is busy gallivanting.

6. He doesn’t like being confronted with serious issues.

If he avoids serious conversations then surely why are you even together? He clearly doesn’t take you seriously and that is not someone that you can confide in.

7. He is overly confident in himself so he always treats you like you’ll be there forever.

These egotistical pricks that act like you’re already married need to remember he still needs to work on keeping you. If he doesn’t do this, imagine when you’re married?


8. He always cheats on you.

Once a cheat always a cheat till death do you part.

9. You feel like you have settled for less.

When you settle it means you think you can’t get any better. So whatever he throws your way you’re ready to digest it. That’s not someone you should invest in.

10. He’s a chauvinist and thinks you should do all the work even in the relationship.

A relationship is a two-way street so no one should have to carry the burden of a whole relationship alone.

11. He shows no sign of real commitment.

He just wants to keep you there for his own convenience and nothing more. He acts like a kid and you accommodate his game. This is not a husband material in any way.

12. Any other signs you know about? I leave this number for you!





https://omgvoice.com/relationships/signs-man-not-husband-material?country=GH

you sef no get all of them
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Headlesschicken(m): 1:30pm On Nov 21, 2017
grin If he doesn't like sleeping wiv d fan on,cos i heard that men whom can't sleep wiv d fan on,make terrible husbands....Smh...

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Gabrielolusesan(m): 1:30pm On Nov 21, 2017
Ladies are never contented.
They are just like Oliver Twist

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by free2ryhme: 1:30pm On Nov 21, 2017
Onyejemechimere:
Dear women, you are often told just what to do so you can be the perfect wife.

Yet at the same time, there’s hardly any pressure on the boy child to show you that he is capable of being the ultimate man for you. The pressure is mostly on you but what about him? Is he cut out to be the man of your dreams?

Sometimes, you insist on the wrong guy to be the one yet there is so much more for you.

Here are signs that the man you’re with is not a husband material:




1. You two don’t share the same beliefs or values.

A value and belief system can split you apart. When you get someone who doesn’t believe in God, for example, you will struggle most of the time or compromise your own beliefs. I mean what do you do when you get kids?

2. He doesn’t take care of you and your needs.

It doesn’t mean he becomes your sponsor but a man should feel the need to protect and provide for you in whatever capacity. You should never feel alone if you have a real husband material.

3. Your friends and family don’t like him.

This is such a big sign, if your friends and family don’t like him then chances are he has proven to be the biggest douche of all times.

4. You have caught him in lies a few times.

Unless you want to be married someone who keeps you in paranoia and suspense then don’t hold your breath for this guy.

5. He goes out too much and can’t imagine chilling.

Men always tell women that they can’t be wifed since they go out too much. Well, this applies to men as well, if a man goes out too much you’re more likely to spend most weekends alone while he is busy gallivanting.

6. He doesn’t like being confronted with serious issues.

If he avoids serious conversations then surely why are you even together? He clearly doesn’t take you seriously and that is not someone that you can confide in.

7. He is overly confident in himself so he always treats you like you’ll be there forever.

These egotistical pricks that act like you’re already married need to remember he still needs to work on keeping you. If he doesn’t do this, imagine when you’re married?


8. He always cheats on you.

Once a cheat always a cheat till death do you part.

9. You feel like you have settled for less.

When you settle it means you think you can’t get any better. So whatever he throws your way you’re ready to digest it. That’s not someone you should invest in.

10. He’s a chauvinist and thinks you should do all the work even in the relationship.

A relationship is a two-way street so no one should have to carry the burden of a whole relationship alone.

11. He shows no sign of real commitment.

He just wants to keep you there for his own convenience and nothing more. He acts like a kid and you accommodate his game. This is not a husband material in any way.

12. Any other signs you know about? I leave this number for you!





https://omgvoice.com/relationships/signs-man-not-husband-material?country=GH

Guy you way no pure
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Nobody: 1:30pm On Nov 21, 2017
Lalasticlala is a husband material shocked

Lines 1-12...tested negative shocked

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Mznaett: 1:30pm On Nov 21, 2017
Make I book space this topic go sweet die grin grin


No. 11 hmm lipsrsealed
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by ayokellany: 1:31pm On Nov 21, 2017
IamKashyBaby:
No doubt...

IamJ is truly a husband material grin kiss




It won't be long before it clear for your eye.

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by MhizzAJ(f): 1:32pm On Nov 21, 2017
Okay
Here to read comments
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Nobody: 1:32pm On Nov 21, 2017
ops pls how many yards should a husband material be to pass dis test?

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by FRANKOSKI(m): 1:32pm On Nov 21, 2017
MY FRIENDS OPINION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHOEVER I WANT TO MARRY.

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Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by danchuzzy(m): 1:33pm On Nov 21, 2017
Wtf is husband material?
Re: 12 Signs The Man You Are With Is Not Husband Material by Oyindidi(f): 1:33pm On Nov 21, 2017
Dey there dey wait for wife/husband material wey no dey exist

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