africhika:

i know a LOT of high maintenance ladies and gals. ladies who get their nails done twice a week. their hair done every week. guys who can't go 2 hours without spraying moisturizer on their hair. who always have to wear the latest sneakers. i went to a university that is known all around the state for its flashy, over-dressed female students. i always wondered if its worth it: wearing stilettos to lectures everyday, changing your weave every 2 days.

do high maintainence folks get more dates over those who are more, shall i say simple? are they more attractive? me, i can't stand high-maintainence, "metro-sexual" guys who look in the mirror more than i do.
what do ya'll think?

davidylan:

when you're loaded they are the ones you want to shoot for.

davidylan:

high maintenance girls get more dates because they take more time to look good. they also attract the best dates.

Face it guys, we only complain of high maintenance chics when the pocket is dry, when you're loaded they are the ones you want to shoot for.

I can't imagine some major top shot having an average Jane, plain looking girl for a girlfriend. . . .except if two of them had been together before any of them became top shot. Same thing for girls. . . . you role with your league, or something like that.

I feel your hot legs in your profile picture.

do you mind if ?

davidylan:

err my people . . . stillwater is not single.  

davidylan:

high maintenance girls get more dates because they take more time to look good. they also attract the best dates.

Face it guys, we only complain of high maintenance chics when the pocket is dry, when you're loaded they are the ones you want to shoot for.

   quote from Davidylan: 
« #35 on: Today at 06:53:24 PM »

high maintenance girls get more dates because they take more time to look good. they also attract the best dates.

Face it guys, we only complain of high maintenance chics when the pocket is dry, when you're loaded they are the ones you want to shoot for.

africhika:


    oh, well.

  quote by spikedcylinder: « #36 on: Today at 06:57:50 PM »

Exactly.
I can't imagine some major top shot having an average Jane, plain looking girl for a girlfriend. . . .except if two of them had been together before any of them became top shot. Same thing for girls. . . . you role with your league, or something like that.

  quote by Banom: « #32 on: Today at 06:48:56 PM »


@ Poster,
There is always a paradox in such social situation,
the more beautiful,handsome sophisticated or so called high class a person is , the  more he is likely to be isolated,
this happens for several reasons,
Sophisticated people normally appear pompous ,and pomposity in a social settings a times can elicit envy and ill will,
secondly, most people will be threatened by the sophisticated exterior and will prefer to admire it from afar, 

I talk from personal experience, when i was in  the university, a times i used to be frustrated inside me, on how people used to admire me then, a girl will admire me but was just too scared to make a bold step towards that, me i will just be confused, even when i try to go close and signal my own interest, she will still be scared, they wouldn't know i was admiring them also,
The truth is that appearing  too sophisticated in a social environment makes other  people around you look inferior and it reduces their confidence of self worth.
Being flamboyant a times brings the opposite of what many people expect.  .

africhika:

^^ but are they, these high class divas,  more attractive than more simple types? i thought people go for simplicity. the less is more thing, you know.

deji2009:

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africhika:

^^ but are they, these high class divas,  more attractive than more simple types? i thought people go for simplicity. the less is more thing, you know.