I'm often questioned by men who tell me they are "nice guys" but feel ignored by women who, they say, "prefer to be treated like crap". While I don't agree that nice guys always finish last, I do understand that we women do make some damn silly dating decisions.

Most of the men I know are kind, polite and adorable in practically every way, yet, like many women, I have an illogical soft-spot for massive jerks. There is something about bad boys that we find incredibly appealing, even though we often regret the experience afterwards.

I'm so drawn to their powerful/sensitive/artistic (delete as applicable) natures that it allows me to rationalise away their abusive, selfish, sarcastic or psychopathic side, until it's too late. I don't know whether it's chemistry or foolishness on my part, but let me try to explain why we - or at least I - do it.

when a guy is predictable! he is no fun! stress isnt good but its needed at times you know, i once dated this guy, without calling him, i will know where he was, he was so predictable and boring, i broke up with him because of that, am not saying that good guys are of no good, all i am saying is that when a guy is nice always he becomes boring! sometimes a woman wants a man that acts like a man! rude annoying stubborn, if a 100 guys are toasting me, its the one that didnt toast me that i will like!

And just as euphoric. One thing that bad boys are not is boring. We are enraptured by their spontaneity, by the excitement and anticipation of being with them. At least until we get hurt, and that's the one thing that you can count on with a bad boy.
So why do women put up with it? I can only speak for me, but the reason we keep going back, for more belittling digs and more nights waiting for the phone to ring, is not because we like it. It's because many of us feel we don't deserve better.

Perhaps I've become accustomed to disappointment or to people withholding affection. Perhaps I'm addicted to the excitement that comes when the bad boy finally does pick up the phone. Perhaps I am most comfortable in chaotic emotional relationships, and bad boys are some sort of screwed-up safety blanket. Perhaps I am so used to being independent that I've become scared to let someone really be there for me, so I select emotionally unavailable people. Perhaps I invite this type of person into my life by putting on a tough exterior that says, "I don't need love, I don't need you, I don't need anyone."
Or perhaps I just haven't met the right "nice guy" yet?

@2BB4CB3E is the most interesting person i have met on nairaland, all his post are bad but am still drawn to him! dont get me wrong i dont want to date him or something but the guy is so interesting, he is the only reason why am online most times! many guys send pm to me, reply my post but 2BB4CB3E has never toasted me or commented about my ass, bad guys rock!!!!!!!!!!

Confused ladies just like bad boys.

In her mind now, she don make sense with this constellation of nonsense she's pulled together ^^ there oh. Walahi, oh need correct spanking!

If a guy is interesting and fun, girls will fall for him, whether he's good or bad.

curvysola:
I'm often questioned by men who tell me they are "nice guys" but feel ignored by women who, they say, "prefer to be treated like crap". While I don't agree that nice guys always finish last, I do understand that we women do make some damn silly dating decisions.

Most of the men I know are kind, polite and adorable in practically every way, yet, like many women, I have an illogical soft-spot for massive jerks. There is something about bad boys that we find incredibly appealing, even though we often regret the experience afterwards.

I'm so drawn to their powerful/sensitive/artistic (delete as applicable) natures that it allows me to rationalise away their abusive, selfish, sarcastic or psychopathic side, until it's too late. I don't know whether it's chemistry or foolishness on my part, but let me try to explain why we - or at least I - do it.

And just as euphoric. One thing that bad boys are not is boring. We are enraptured by their spontaneity, by the excitement and anticipation of being with them. At least until we get hurt, and that's the one thing that you can count on with a bad boy.
So why do women put up with it? I can only speak for me, but the reason we keep going back, for more belittling digs and more nights waiting for the phone to ring, is not because we like it. It's because many of us feel we don't deserve better.

Perhaps I've become accustomed to disappointment or to people withholding affection. Perhaps I'm addicted to the excitement that comes when the bad boy finally does pick up the phone. Perhaps I am most comfortable in chaotic emotional relationships, and bad boys are some sort of screwed-up safety blanket. Perhaps I am so used to being independent that I've become scared to let someone really be there for me, so I select emotionally unavailable people. Perhaps I invite this type of person into my life by putting on a tough exterior that says, "I don't need love, I don't need you, I don't need anyone."
Or perhaps I just haven't met the right "nice guy" yet?

@2BB4CB3E is the most interesting person i have met on nairaland, all his post are bad but am still drawn to him! dont get me wrong i dont want to date him or something but the guy is so interesting, he is the only reason why am online most times! many guys send pm to me, reply my post but 2BB4CB3E has never toasted me or commented about my ass, bad guys rock!!!!!!!!!!

so you are into bad guys too why?

Fuckgrats curvysola

Attention-seeking troll. Who gives a fvck if you reply PM or even noticed your penguin-shaped ass? WTF!

am a bad guy ...no bae keep coming

Yeba

Really? Interesting

defamation!!!!!!!

It's the physic law of attraction dat cos dis;
Like poles repel n unlike poles attract
In other words:
Bad boys attracts good women

It's the physic law of attraction;

Like poles repel n unlike poles attract

In other words:

Bad boys attract good women

Chrisrare:
If a guy is interesting and fun, girls will fall for him, whether he's good or bad.

its not just about fun! maturity too
most guys here just go about talking anyhow!

Egbeyin lon ye oloku ada

abbeyboy2o15:
so you are into bad guys too why?

naturally we are attracted to something thats different!

jhasper:
am a bad guy ...no bae keep coming

maybe its cause you go about toasting women here!

After u get heartbroken u say all boys r the same

curvysola:

naturally we are attracted to something thats different!

better because no matter how a mad dog wont change even with all is medication been used he would still be made one day .

abbeyboy2o15:
better because no matter how a mad dog wont change even with all is medication been used he would still be made one day .

people change jor

curvysola:


people change jor

like buhari change right in nigeria better dont change that way. I believe people change but it is difficult for some.

curvysola:
I'm often questioned by men who tell me they are "nice guys" but feel ignored by women who, they say, "prefer to be treated like crap". While I don't agree that nice guys always finish last, I do understand that we women do make some damn silly dating decisions.

Most of the men I know are kind, polite and adorable in practically every way, yet, like many women, I have an illogical soft-spot for massive jerks. There is something about bad boys that we find incredibly appealing, even though we often regret the experience afterwards.

I'm so drawn to their powerful/sensitive/artistic (delete as applicable) natures that it allows me to rationalise away their abusive, selfish, sarcastic or psychopathic side, until it's too late. I don't know whether it's chemistry or foolishness on my part, but let me try to explain why we - or at least I - do it.

And just as euphoric. One thing that bad boys are not is boring. We are enraptured by their spontaneity, by the excitement and anticipation of being with them. At least until we get hurt, and that's the one thing that you can count on with a bad boy.
So why do women put up with it? I can only speak for me, but the reason we keep going back, for more belittling digs and more nights waiting for the phone to ring, is not because we like it. It's because many of us feel we don't deserve better.

Perhaps I've become accustomed to disappointment or to people withholding affection. Perhaps I'm addicted to the excitement that comes when the bad boy finally does pick up the phone. Perhaps I am most comfortable in chaotic emotional relationships, and bad boys are some sort of screwed-up safety blanket. Perhaps I am so used to being independent that I've become scared to let someone really be there for me, so I select emotionally unavailable people. Perhaps I invite this type of person into my life by putting on a tough exterior that says, "I don't need love, I don't need you, I don't need anyone."
Or perhaps I just haven't met the right "nice guy" yet?

@2BB4CB3E is the most interesting person i have met on nairaland, all his post are bad but am still drawn to him! dont get me wrong i dont want to date him or something but the guy is so interesting, he is the only reason why am online most times! many guys send pm to me, reply my post but 2BB4CB3E has never toasted me or commented about my ass, bad guys rock!!!!!!!!!!

Its not the amount or kind of thread that shows a guy is bad...

Am a good-bad guy... If I wanted u curvysola, I know where to hit earlier before now and u'll be dabing2mydick already... I just don't wanna be the topic of nairaland when that happens cos I have watched u closely, u can't keep a secret... ((no offence))

Dab2mydick:
Its not the amount or kind of thread that shows a guy is bad...

Am a good-bad guy... If I wanted u curvysola, I know where to hit earlier before now and u'll be dabing2mydick already... I just don't wanna be the topic of nairaland when that happens cos I have watched u closely, u can't keep a secret... ((no offence))

most girls cant keep secret no her only they are parrot if you keep a secret in there hand it is like opening your account book to an hacker.

Dab2mydick:
Its not the amount or kind of thread that shows a guy is bad...

Am a good-bad guy... If I wanted u curvysola, I know where to hit earlier before now and u'll be dabing2mydick already... I just don't wanna be the topic of nairaland when that happens cos I have watched u closely, u can't keep a secret... ((no offence))

very childish statements

Josh890:
It's the physic law of attraction dat cos dis;

Like poles repel n unlike poles attract

In other words:

Bad boys attracts good women

On point.

curvysola:

very childish statements

how is basic fact childish statement you people dont like hearing the truth we have many things to talk about her.

Moral lesson
We all should endeavour to be bad boys so that confused girls will find us interesting
Wow Wow Wow

So whatever you did on you DP was intentional

I knew right frm time that she crushin on 2BB4CB3E whn she started attacking him, whn that didnt work she changed antics...asked him to sent her pm.


Dont complain if you continue gettin hurt or heartbroken. You made ur choice @curvesola.

for una mind now, op is a lady ko?

Noisemaker

SmellingAnus:
Fuckgrats curvysola

bro yo moniker is gross