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Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by johnson232: 7:08pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
TheArchangel:is op not part of the family? if sth bad should happen, don't u know op will be the one to bear the burden? & u call yourself the archangel? lol |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 10:27pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Richy4: The thought of facing my mom and telling her she is cheating is really somehow. Even at this moment, she is still outside and communicating with That man even after my dad told her to stop. I think I have to close my eyes to all her doings till i go back to school. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Richy4(m): 10:32pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Jackpal: Maybe u can use yourself as an example.. Tell her how u will feel if a girl u truly love does what she was doing right now to your dad... see what her reaction would be...She might ask what was she doing? then u tell her she knows... running to school will not solve it... |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
@ jackpal ... it seems you're more close to your mother and have little or no relationship with your father hence he decided to make you a witness to the impending trouble.... order wise why should he involve you in such a delicate matter. a 20yrs old child is still under the guardians of their parents in most cases not to talk of involving you into their sexual life .. I strongly believe you have no role to play in this case... your father should have looked for an elder who is close to your mummy instead. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Richy4(m): 10:56pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
carmag: he is 20 and he would have been out of his parent's house 2 yrs ago and become independent in real world... They move out at 18yrs....It's just that situation in nigeria made it look like a 20year old got nothing to say...or offer to the society.... He is not a child...at 20 he can be admitted in an adult prison...He can caste a vote etc. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 12:44am On Jul 10, 2016 |
Richy4: of course, he is matured @ 18, but he is not psychologically matured to mediate in his parents sexual life that role, his father aught to have contacted an elder closed to his wife whom she respects instead of their child who is still under their care. it seems this guy always take sides with the mother hence his father wants to prove him a point if it was an easy task for him he would've wade into the matter without seeking for advice on nl.. get my point 1 Like |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by cococandy(f): 7:13am On Jul 10, 2016 |
TheArchangel:seconded |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 8:24am On Jul 10, 2016 |
Thanks all for your different advice. Dad has asked mom to leave the house by 12pm today or he would call everybody to let them know what has happened. On the other hand, i told mom to call the man she was speaking to and let him come and beg my dad. Because, she said she just met the man and he is trying to ask her out and he kept calling and sending messages according to her. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by SWITANN(f): 9:41am On Jul 10, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy: true talk bro. already emailed u. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by SWITANN(f): 9:44am On Jul 10, 2016 |
Jackpal: are there no elders in ur family or something or family members that can help in d matter. cos dis matter is too much for u to handle, just invite an elderly figure in ur family dat ur dad would listen to. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by tempex88(m): 5:59pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Ur dad is a nice and great man. Sit ur mom down and talk to her. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by visijo(m): 5:59pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
cheat am back na.. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by chibexin(m): 6:00pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
put it into prayer...the devil is at work
and no matter what she does always know she's your mother |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by AntiWailer: 6:01pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Wat is ur conzign? |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 6:01pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Jackpal: Well, I think that you should have been long gone from the home at this age |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Trapnews: 6:01pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Hoes everywhere.... they still exhibit the trait after 20 years. Women!!! 4 Likes |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by missKiffy(f): 6:03pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
TheArchangel:Why can't he involve him, afterall he's not a kid anymore, and like he said his dad needed a witness so that if he end up divorcing her, his reasons would be known. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by iswallker(m): 6:03pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
BiafraBushBoy: The bolded though.... |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
carmag: Even though you used the word mostly, but you're cuddling bad behaviour. A 20 year old turned into an adult two years earlier. Two of my Daughter entered college at 18 and live on campus, I came to the USA when I turned 18, I have two family members who entered the US Marines at 18. You lot need to start being matured already. 1 Like |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Certifiedboss: 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
TheArchangel: He's an adult . The dad already knew he's aware of what's going on so no need covering it. If the dad was the mischievous person the mom won't have handled it that way . Instead she would have used it as an opportunity to turn the kids against their dad |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by feldspar90(m): 6:05pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Are you cheating as well? |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Afroconnect: 6:06pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Too bad ur dad made a LovePeddler a house-wife,whores can't change. 3 Likes |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Dindondin(m): 6:07pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
TheArchangel:He's not too young. He ll be a husband one day. The only thing that may be wrong is for him to be rebuking his mum rudely. As for the mum, she's like someone that's tired of her marriage. If not, she won't walk in the valley of adultery. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by herkeem99(m): 6:08pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Try to talk some real sense and reality into her. Man it up bro. I believe you can do this, you're not a kid |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Women Shaaa! God save us from these cheating women, wey t.oto dey over scratch!! 1 Like |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Chiderad(m): 6:10pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Ejemehn: God bless you for this wise counsel of yours. May your oil never run dry in Jesus name. 2 Likes |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by JoseRaji(m): 6:12pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
TheArchangel:this is a very common parenting error... to think that an 19 year old is too young. he should man up. look for a suitable time (maybe late at night) to talk sense into his mum. then talk to dad too... they'll respect him in he long run. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by yankison(m): 6:13pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ASHAWO |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Dolazee(f): 6:14pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Oga ooo |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Dolazee(f): 6:15pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
austinosita: |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by zeusdgrt(m): 6:15pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
elektra: Seriously you talking out of the topic.Advice the kid or do not comment if u gat no advice to give |
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