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Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by aprokomania(m): 6:16pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
TheArchangel:you are very wise. I can't say the same for the boys dad |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by saintdennis(m): 6:18pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Guy if u not in school then go and learn a craft. If you're still in school then stil try to learn a craft. If I was your dad what will be going through my mind is whether the 3 of you are even my children. Sorry but I can only give u financial advise. Those who sabi marriage matter go drop their own. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by jamal1010: 6:18pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Approach ur mum in a way it would make her very scared of you more than she is of ur dad, in that way she won't do any f*#$?@g to annoy you! |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Lionhearted: 6:18pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Follow the advice given by ejemehn, presVa & richy4. Do it now. Because if anything happen you will only blame yourself in the future that you failed to act. A 20years old is an adult bro. 1 Like |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by fpeter(f): 6:18pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
It's called midlife crisis. Talk to your father, let him compliment her more. Take her out often. Shop for her. Make her feel wanted and loved again. He should create time for dates with her. They should go out more to the movies and malls. I'm sure she's way younger than your father and some evil men out there are beginning to tell her sweet nonsense that your father is obviously not telling her. He should make her feel beautiful again. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by profmallory(m): 6:19pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
We all apologise when we get caught, so yes she would do it again. Sex is a strong force and the thing would hardly leave her however I believe you can do a lot to help your parents marriage by insisting on them seeing a marriage counsellor and going for deliverance.. Your mum might still be sexually active while your dad might not, its hard to balance such. However a marriage counsellor would help to shed light on the matter. Jackpal: |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Buikechukwu35(m): 6:24pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Concord story |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 6:24pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Dolazee: Na wetin? Why u wan take eye carry Nairaland? U be winch? |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Dolazee(f): 6:26pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
austinosita:yes |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by teacherbim(f): 6:27pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Try and talk to her in private with respect,show her that u Love her but let her know that you'll never forgive her if such thing happens again.wishing you the best! |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Obas101(m): 6:28pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Why are you still suspecting when you have already claimed that she is cheating |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by fpeter(f): 6:29pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
yankison: Grow up! That's someone's mother you're calling such despicable name. Sometimes it is better not to comment if you have nothing good to say. How do you think the poor guy would feel, reading such from you? The way you comment on issues goes a long way to show how incapable you are of handling complex problems. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 6:29pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Dolazee: Ahhhhh! Mo'gbe! Abeg nor vex.......na joke I dey o! |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by IbilibiOgada: 6:29pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
OP what do you mean by what will you do? Your father has handled the situation as a man, without bringing in a third party, but you are here, on cyberspace exposing your family's dirty secret. Please allow your father handle it. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by elektra(f): 6:30pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
zeusdgrt: And this your post is all about the topic abi? Why did you post this when your comment is not advice for the kid? You sef, do not post if it is not advice for the kid. 1 Like |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by lekejob(m): 6:30pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Ahmed0336: how can one decrypt whatsapp |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by babadee1(m): 6:30pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Since your dad is already aware of the possible cheating issue, what else do you want to do? You're not the one who married her. The most you could have done was to inform him but he already knows so let him handle his wife. 1 Like |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Dolazee(f): 6:30pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
austinosita:Otidaran leni |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Tlodb(f): 6:32pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
My dear I strongly believe that something is wrong somewere, is either the devil is fighting with ur family or is trying to manipulate her to fall.pls pray for her, during the pray, let her be present. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 6:33pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Dolazee: Iya'agba ema binu! Omode lo nshe mi |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Dolazee(f): 6:34pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
austinosita:washe etutu agba |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by crookes(m): 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
I feel ur pain and pls it's better u try and let her know the bad effect it will cause her and know that if she is deep into it,she will even insult u but pls don't fret...a friend faced the same thing and my family too faced the dame thing and my mum usually denies sex or contact with them... To cut the long story short, my mother is now H.I.V positive and my dad is negative...so try and save ur family pls.. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by pek(m): 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
1. Wrong title. 2. There is nothing you can do again. Your dad, who is head of the family, have handled the matter the way he wants. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by vincentjk(m): 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
am reading this with tears in the eyes.. My mum is also cheating (highly cheating) but as a less concern man my dad is he doesn't even know |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 6:37pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Dolazee: Mo ti gba! Maa shey |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by KevinDein: 6:38pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
fpeter:why can't he just divorce her and save himself all these stress |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by AuroraB(f): 6:39pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Marvel1206:And if he doesn't do the above and they end up divorced? It's OP's fault, right? Bia, OP, seems she's enjoying the mid-life crisis. Let her be! When yo Dad done booting her freaking ass off, she'll realize the man she's been prancing about got no time for her. Ana agwa onye nti ike na oso esule |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by omofabulous(f): 6:39pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Just pray for unity and love in your family I sense is wearing out, pray more for your mum so that she wouldn't fall astray and lose her marriage |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by mayour16(m): 6:39pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Hmmm...Agony of the first child. Truth is forget your age at this moment.You have a strong role to play.Your dad called you in cuz he believes what he can't handle you will handle it or perhaps that you are mostly around your mum. Pls pray,its needed then sit your mum down and beg her to tell you the truth. The truth might blow your mind away but please be strong.After that talk to your mum.Make her promise you she ain't gonna do any silly thing any more.Most importantly,try as much as possible not to let your younger ones know.God help you o... little advice tho...No matter what happens,try not to judge or take sides. |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Dolazee(f): 6:39pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
austinosita:Eboe tii GBA |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by poweredcom(m): 6:41pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Your mom just got smashed and she is lying to ur dad. Lmfao hahaha she just. Got dicked down Haaa she is tired of ur dad d...k lol wish I was d one hammering her damm women n lies |
Re: I Suspect My Mom Is Cheating, Help Me!! by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Dolazee: Eshey ma |
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