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Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by Tomaxzyn1(m): 5:45pm On Jul 09, 2016
Let the chase begin AGAIN.

The key here is to recognize his behavior early. Even a few
days of him being quiet around you and showing no sex
drive(if the relationship wasn't platonic) could be the tell-tale signs of him getting bored. Talk to
him about your concerns and if he says, “I’m fine,” but
continues with his stand-offish actions, it’s time to get to
work!

And the way you do that is — by withdrawing your
affection and attention towards him!
What? Yes. (Don’t doubt me here — remember, I am a man!)
Unfortunately, most women do the exact opposite. They get
worried and start nagging, which sends him further into his
"man cave" where he'll try to date the 18-year-old University babe.. He will build contempt for you the
more you lean and try to hold on.
But, if you give him a sense of separation and time to miss
you, he'll get anxious and start thinking he might lose you.
So, what you need to do, ladies, is go into what I call
Man Mode.

This is where you start acting like him. Withdraw from him.
Run, don’t walk, to your outside social life ... you know, the
one you kept because you never gave up your hobbies and
passions, (remember?). Now, you're giving him the space he
needs to re-access his life. This should send him running
back, when he’s ready.

Why? Because you just eased his ball and chain fears. You
made him feel like he was single again, and put the thrill of
the hunt (getting you back) back into play, as if he was
chasing that hot 18-year-old!

Is this advice shocking to you? Yes, I know it’s sad, men
really are this way. I make no excuses for my gender; I never
have, so I won’t start now.

But try this technique and I promise you that, if he loves
you, he will be happy, content with his mini-van, and in your
arms again
. If he does not love you, you will know it early so you don’t
waste endless years with this man.

This becomes a win/win.
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by SweetieConstie(f): 6:31pm On Jul 09, 2016
Hmmm... Nice one! smiley

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Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by abbeyboy2o15(m): 6:34pm On Jul 09, 2016
Me am looking for hibiscus76 help me to find her please my people.
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jul 09, 2016
Tomaxzyn1:
Let the chase begin AGAIN.

The key here is to recognize his behavior early. Even a few
days of him being quiet around you and showing no sex
drive(if the relationship wasn't platonic) could be the tell-tale signs of him getting bored. Talk to
him about your concerns and if he says, “I’m fine,” but
continues with his stand-offish actions, it’s time to get to
work!

And the way you do that is — by withdrawing your
affection and attention towards him!
What? Yes. (Don’t doubt me here — remember, I am a man!)
Unfortunately, most women do the exact opposite. They get
worried and start nagging, which sends him further into his
"man cave" where he'll try to date the 18-year-old University babe.. He will build contempt for you the
more you lean and try to hold on.
But, if you give him a sense of separation and time to miss
you, he'll get anxious and start thinking he might lose you.
So, what you need to do, ladies, is go into what I call
Man Mode.

This is where you start acting like him. Withdraw from him.
Run, don’t walk, to your outside social life ... you know, the
one you kept because you never gave up your hobbies and
passions, (remember?). Now, you're giving him the space he
needs to re-access his life. This should send him running
back, when he’s ready.

Why? Because you just eased his ball and chain fears. You
made him feel like he was single again, and put the thrill of
the hunt (getting you back) back into play, as if he was
chasing that hot 18-year-old!

Is this advice shocking to you? Yes, I know it’s sad, men
really are this way. I make no excuses for my gender; I never
have, so I won’t start now.

But try this technique and I promise you that, if he loves
you, he will be happy, content with his mini-van, and in your
arms again
. If he does not love you, you will know it early so you don’t
waste endless years with this man.

This becomes a win/win.

Sorry my man, Ladies are not wired like that.

Once you capture a ladies heart, that is the end. Unless the lady never fell in love in the first place.

Ladies even fall more in love with guys that don't show them love.
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by sorextee(m): 6:45pm On Jul 09, 2016
Someone shld pls summarize.. Feeling too lazy to read it all
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by Nobody: 6:46pm On Jul 09, 2016
SweetieConstie:
Hmmm... Nice one! smiley

Jst checked u out, U look sweet kiss
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by SweetieConstie(f): 6:51pm On Jul 09, 2016
truthsayer007:

Jst checked u out, U look sweet kiss

Thanks!
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by Nobody: 6:54pm On Jul 09, 2016
SweetieConstie:



Thanks!
Ur welc
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by Luizkid(m): 6:57pm On Jul 09, 2016
trust me if u giv him one inch gap, he's on the next babe on his to-do list, not totally forgetting about u though (but it's a big possibility)... from xperienc
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by ariyebaba(m): 7:01pm On Jul 09, 2016
@ OP, no time for all this drama/comedy.
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by NevetsIbot(m): 7:01pm On Jul 09, 2016
gimme an inch space and I'll move on... And yet again... Why would I act cold in the first place. Nothing.... Well... Except if she gives me cold shoulders
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by 2dice01: 7:02pm On Jul 09, 2016
SweetieConstie:
Hmmm... Nice one! smiley
try dis what a hausa man...bae you gone cheesy
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by SweetieConstie(f): 7:11pm On Jul 09, 2016
2dice01:
try dis what a hausa man...bae you gone cheesy


Lol...gringrin
Re: Ladies! Why U Shud Ignore Ur Guy More Often by 2dice01: 7:25pm On Jul 09, 2016
SweetieConstie:


Lol...gringrin
you name na sweet...hope yours on get sugar tongue

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