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Re: Am Looking For My Father by turawafett(f): 11:40pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
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Re: Am Looking For My Father by andyanders: 11:44pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Your pix not there and your father's [ix not posted too. Since you have nothing about him to post as pix, post your own maybe he will get to recognize you and get across to you. 1 Like |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by Utchgirl(f): 11:50pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Sonofpius....i knw wht u r passing tru. Sorry 4 ur predicament. Is it possible 4 u 2 check d Bumadi towns. I mean both in Delta and Bayelsa. Ask questions and see if u can see anybody dt knws dis towns.Take d direction 4rm such person and giv it a trial.Ask questions if u reach. Give ur dad's name as Pius uguni and tel dem u r nt sure of d surname . U neva can tel,Luck might be on ur side . I wish u d best. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by semasir: 11:55pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Different people, different tales... That's what life has to offer. Better luck bro |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by emajoe: 11:59pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
allanphash7: Bros, I love your sharp thinking that suits our searching friend. Hope he finds the father though only the first stanza will be applicable to the lad. DUBE's lyrics are like: Chorus: Daddy wherever you are, Remember me; And what ever you do, I Love You. Daddy wherever you are, Remember me; And what ever you do, I Love You. Daddy you went to the city, many years ago, You promise to come back and take care of me, Many years have gone by now, Still no trace of you, daddy yea, Chorus: Mother had heart attack, many years ago, When she heard that you were married again, I was the only one left in the family, And the woman you married to, was not good enough! Chorus: till fades WISH YOU GET LUCKY BOY. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by missyadorable(f): 12:05am On Jul 11, 2016 |
Hey boy,your "daddy" has moved on Definitely has another family with kids elsewhere You should make a name for yourself,let him come looking for you instead of going upandan looking for somebody who doesn't even give a F... about you. Make money! And you won't need a father again!!hat's the answer!! 3 Likes |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by StepTwo: 12:06am On Jul 11, 2016 |
sonofpius: my Bro, i feel for you greatly, am sorry about what you have been passing through. i will advice you visit the two Bumadi towns with the information you've got. if no help then maybe you should contact the Customs divisional headquatres if there's any in the south south or south eastern regions where he has worked or the Abuja office. i wish i could help out from the Headquatres in Abuja, but for security reasons i will not get anything from them. goodluck bro. God be with you. 1 Like |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by StepTwo: 12:09am On Jul 11, 2016 |
missyadorable: you could be wrong about his dad you know, there are many reasons possible the man, it appears the man hasnt come. dont discourage him. |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by baby124: 12:16am On Jul 11, 2016 |
How will your aunts and grandmum have no idea who your father is. This is a mess your mother should have tidied up because no one knows tomorrow. Especially because you were born out of wedlock. She should also have given your your father's surname and not his first name as surname. This would have made your claim a bit more viable just in case he is no longer alive. I will advise you to visit the NPA headquarters in Abuja and trace him from there. They should have up to date records of employee transfers and promotions. It is disgusting that up until now a country like Nigeria does not have computerized records of employees. And we are supposed to believe ghost worker issue has been eliminated. Please whatever information you are given, be cautious and don't visit any house or town alone. Meet people in public places and be very careful. Also keep in mind that he may no longer be alive, and if his family is alive they may not accept you. Don't take anything too personally on this journey you are attempting to make. Just be very careful. Despite not knowing your father, you can live a good and full life. Have a family of your own, and decide to be a good father and be present in the lives of your kids. I wish you the very best. 4 Likes |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by ikp120(m): 12:36am On Jul 11, 2016 |
What of your birth certificate? |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by makeupgal: 12:39am On Jul 11, 2016 |
op are you ijaw? good to know u have something to work with. if u have d resources go to both bumadi (bomadi as I know it in delta state) u can visit the traditional head of these places and tell them your story. if they have any info, they will let u know. it is well |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by player007(m): 12:56am On Jul 11, 2016 |
Do you have any picture of him? that would go a long way in helping you find him. |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by zeenab(f): 12:59am On Jul 11, 2016 |
I admire your courage and at the same time feel your pain. But bro pictures need to be involve to ease your search. Since no pics of your dad. Attach some pics of you when you were 7years and below and some pics of your mom too, may be your dad might just see them and recognise you. May God help you in your search for daddy 3 Likes |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by OLUJOSHINS(m): 2:14am On Jul 11, 2016 |
sonofpius: Finding Ur Dad is extremely important BUT pls try to move on with Ur life ooooooo Move on in the sense that U should try to establish Urself. it will be disappointing to Ur Dad if (when U eventually meet Him again) U turn out to be a burden 1 Like |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by valdovas(m): 2:49am On Jul 11, 2016 |
Why did the man not search for you all these years, I dislike when people give birth without having the commitment to always be there for their children. Op don't need to feel guilty for not searching for him since, afterall he was a child. Na the papa way born am supposed find am. 1 Like |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by omonighoblessing(f): 2:50am On Jul 11, 2016 |
I would say you go to the customs and if u can get the last place he serviced.that would be a plus. they must have data /statistics about their employees U might get a lead there. ....meanwhile This exact topic came to my mind this evening tho surprised to see it @ fp even more. Good luck bro. |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by AngelAhnie(f): 4:28am On Jul 11, 2016 |
sonofpius:I'll advice you go to bomadi, I mean both the one in bayelsa and delta state. I pray you find him soon and if you don't life goes on, don't bother yourself over a man who careless to look for you. I wonder why a woman will have a baby with a man she knows nothing about. |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by idu1(m): 5:58am On Jul 11, 2016 |
This is simple. Go to custom HQ abj or lagos. They must have one document you can use to trace him dead or alive. |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by ayibatari99(m): 6:04am On Jul 11, 2016 |
sonofpius:My brother, i suggest you should try googling your father's first name. I tried googling the syntax ( Pius Nigeria Customs Service) for you and i saw several Facebook and Linkedin accounts of Nigeria customs officers having your father's first name. Don't be surprise if you find him among the pops up in the search window. You can as well get in contact with few of them to see if they can in anyway be of help. I saw Nigeria customs Service official website and Facebook account, it's also a good avenue to explore, you may likely meet some sympathizers that can assist you. I gave you this idea because it seems your case isn't a dis-owned issue, as such i have the feelings he will welcome you to his domain, if he's still alive. You should search with different words combination, I am pretty much sure you will find info. regarding him. Nigeria Customs Service is a small community compared to other Uniform service men, in one way or the other someone most have worked with him. 2 Likes |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by sonofpius: 6:39am On Jul 11, 2016 |
ayibatari99:Thanks |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by sonofpius: 6:41am On Jul 11, 2016 |
AngelAhnie: Bumadi is a big place... especially the one in Delta state....it wasn't like ma mum didn't know anything abt him....she knew few things abt him but refused to tell me maybe because I was too young or she wanted me to feel less concerned about him |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by sonofpius: 6:47am On Jul 11, 2016 |
EgunMogaji:Yea...I said I felt like...I didn't say he betrayed me, cos I knew a lil about how concerned he was about me when ma mum was still alive.....I just blame ma mums (ma only family now) for everything |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by sonofpius: 6:55am On Jul 11, 2016 |
missyadorable: Thanks for your opinion....but money is not everything.....if it was, I wouldn't b writing this...I have a lil that can see me tru this phase of life.... 1 Like |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by sonofpius: 6:57am On Jul 11, 2016 |
baby124: Thanks |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by sonofpius: 7:00am On Jul 11, 2016 |
OLUJOSHINS: Lolz...thanks buh I wouldn't be a burden to him...God has blessed me in his own ways. .. 1 Like |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by kekeolu(f): 7:05am On Jul 11, 2016 |
Really pathetic. Why don't you try the community he is from but then you have to do this discreetly. |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by sonofpius: 7:07am On Jul 11, 2016 |
ikp120: It would be with ma mum...like I said, ma mum got married to another man in Delta state before I even knew anything....though even when she was alive, I didn't spend much time with her...cos I always preferred port Harcourt to Delta...and ma Aunts or granny treated me like an egg...ma mum no dey tolerated nonsenses... |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by sonofpius: 7:10am On Jul 11, 2016 |
makeupgal: Yea....am Ijaw...and am thinking about that too....thanks |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by pjamas(m): 7:25am On Jul 11, 2016 |
You are looking for your father Well, my father ran away back in 1998 when I was born, and I got to meet him. Last year July.... Since then, I've not seen any man as irresponsible as him again.... He doesn't even care about me.... Me myself doesn't give any shit about him again... He doesn't want to see me seff... Always coming up with one lie or the other.....to cover up... Yo go find your pman oh... Just pray!!!!!! Me I wish I never met mine sef! Airforce1 abeg, weiting be the name of tha your producer 1 Like |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by blueblood1(m): 7:29am On Jul 11, 2016 |
By their posts, you shall know backward people. Dude needs help , Ure busy analysing the past. Smh for u.... @op. Best bet is to trace him through NCS like someone suggested, and also engage the media. Wish you the very best. histemple: |
Re: Am Looking For My Father by Airforce1(m): 7:35am On Jul 11, 2016 |
pjamas: lalah and kpiano |
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