Dear Bunmi,

I don't know how to love.

I just clocked 30 and I feel I am lagging out in love. I don't know how to fall in love. Though I have had couple of relationships in school during my service year and presently still in a relationship of five years of which I don't feel attractions nor longing towards her.

I felt maybe because it is a long distance relationship and we only see once in a while, but, we just kept it there.

Sometimes I feel it's because I didn't grow with my mum I tend to steer clear of having close female friends as I tend to be easily attached but I feel something is really wrong.

I am okay in almost everything but talking about relationships or love, I know there is definitely something wrong.

Please, I am really confused, what should I do?

Olamie
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Aspergers Syndrome. Gay. Maybe just hasn't found someone with whom he truly connected. Lots of possible reasons.

Needs further investigation to determine the true cause.

Hhmmm

Some men are really born heartless... He cud be one of them

I tink Bunmi have answered dis.