Great guys of NL,please i need your advice on this issue that has been bothering my mind, I have a girl friend that i'm dating we have been together almost going to 2yrs and some months,i love her so much, But i'm about changing mind to continue the relationship due to somethings i have been noticing almost going to 4months i noticed that her health is not balance,if she is sick today she will be ok the following day, it has been happening to her often complaining about headache,i tried all i could to show her how much i loved her, I met her as a virgin and presently she is still a virgin,my fear is that should i continue with this relationship with her?I'm scared because i don't want to experience this kind of situation when i finally settled down,

Presently she is in the hospital,but she is ok for now, Please guys i need your advice,i don't want to break her heart because she loves me so much as well,

Thanks,

MAY I ASK.
DID U NOTICE DIS 2YRS BACK WHEN U GUYS MEET? IF NO THEN U HAVE TO STAY BY HER NOW OR NEVER
IF TRULLY U MEAN WHAT U JUST SAID '' I LOVE HER'' ITS TIME TO SHOW IT

How are u sure shes a virgin.women cant b trusted u knw

vicshownero:

How are u sure shes a virgin.women cant b trusted u knw

They told you guys not to mention anything like virgin, you want 2 run away now that she is having a problem

I didn't fall inlove with her because she is a virgin,But i'm sure she is still a virgin, I have always been supportive to her in every aspect she needed my help, But the sickness issue is really bothering my mind.

Leave her and move on with your life.

Life is too important to stay unhappy because u're trying to keep a relationship.

@poster
why are you asking this to other people?
make up your mind. If you cannot take it, back off! Do you think she would leave you too if you have health issues?

@poster you are so immature.Cuz of sickness you thinking of breaking up.A poor girl is in the hospital you behind a f@cking computer posting shit bout leaving.Before i answer you how old are you?You think relationship come easy sorry boy grow some balls.And pray for her health kiddo.

@poster you are so immature.Cuz of sickness you thinking of breaking up.A poor girl is in the hospital you behind a f@cking computer posting shit bout leaving.Before i answer you how old are you?You think relationship come easy sorry boy grow some balls.And pray for her health kiddo.

when you say you love someone
hat do you actually mean
this is an opportunity you have to show it
or else leave her alone so what someone worthy could be by her side
i guess you have seen your life path to the end and you are very sure you may not be sick ever
i pray you meet your kind, those who chicken out on you when the going gets tough
for you to even conceive such thought shows you are immature and need to grow up

Thanks everybody for your advice,it is not that i'm being childish but this is about future that is why i'm having a second thought, Once again thanks everybody for the advice now i have good courage,

pc guru:

@poster you are so immature.Cuz of sickness you thinking of breaking up.A poor girl is in the hospital you behind a f@cking computer posting shit bout leaving.Before i answer you how old are you?You think relationship come easy sorry boy grow some balls.And pray for her health kiddo.

See you do believe in love and its principles, you definitely understand what it is and isn't. You just haven't met the one with purity in her heart yet that sees it the same way you do and who you can trust, who can hold your heart in her hands and she will be gentle with it. Don't worry with time she will come along and you will be really happy together. It will happen when you least expect it so don't be so cynical and when she knocks remember to leave the door unlocked.

@ poster If she is sick she is sick, she is the one you love right.  Why is there an issue here Am confused.

So you are thinking of leaving her because she is always sick? so what if the table was turn around, i bet then the guys here will be shouting n wailing then. oga oo

I am a doctor bring her over.

follypimpi:

I am a doctor bring her over.

@ Poster. No mind dis Yeye boy ooo .  This Nucca dey smoke weed.

Bring her over to me. I be your man. Dr Evangelist

seriously when is ASUU callin off this strike

190:

seriously when is ASUU callin off this strike

LOL

What is she getting sick from.

The relationship you have with her is not an hit and run one


You are courting her


The relationship is intended to lead into Marriage which is for better for worse, in sickness and in health


So what is the problem here

My question is. . . for the whole two years you dated her, is it just now that you're just noticing that she falls sick frequently

Finally, if you really love her as you claim, I would suggest that you take her for medical check up, so you can know what her problem is before taking the next step.

Ok forget all those rude replies and listen to me. I wont claim to know what you are going through but i understand we are all different and different things can make different people fear. What someone finds easy i dont automatically expect you to find easy. Now I understand her ill health has been of great concern to you and I notice you have clearly stated that this came to your attention about 4 months ago. Being in the health related field, my first and foremost advice to you (which should be rather obvious) is to find out what is really wrong with her. What do the doctors say and you must be strong and prepared to take anything in. At least once you know, you are able to make a decision. Cause from the way you are talking, i am picking up the idea that you (or both of you) don't know why her health has trodden downhill so suddenly and strangely. It could be anything so just keep your mind open and heart receptive. Support her in any way you can for now and encourage her it is for the best of both of you. Once you know whats really going on, you can plan the way forward as I have already said. Hope this helps you.

what is being a virgin got to do with her ill state, ridiculous dude. anyways if the sickness just started recently i think its just that u guys have not found out what is wrong with her take her for an overall test, and be paitent

LOL

The guy's doubting his love because the girl's sick!

I wonder if people know the meaning of the word love sef!

I'm saying a big thanks to everyone of you,to both people who condemned me about this issue, thank you @Ani Lee,@Yumi ,@pc guru @busy_body thanks to you all, She has gone for Test at the hospital,her sickness is Typhoid, @Ani lee being in the health field i'm sure you will reason with me why i'm worried,the Typhoid sickness keep coming and going that is why i'm worried,i have been meditating about this issue on my mind before i finally came to NL to make a thread, You guys are great and your words are encouraging and wonderful,Now i'm loving her more and more,

CrazyMan:

My question is. . . for the whole two years you dated her, is it just now that you're just noticing that she falls sick frequently

Finally, if you really love her as you claim, I would suggest that you take her for medical check up, so you can know what her problem is before taking the next step.

I noticed about her sickness almost going to 4months ago and i tried to be there for her,but within the 4months the sickness have been ON and OFF on her, Her sickness status is TYPHOID,this is really bothering my mind.

I do not know whether this is a sign for you to backoff, but I can tell you dat this is a sign dat u do not truly love her.

Maybe she's an Sickler!!!

maybe she has aids

Her sickness status is TYPHOID,this is really bothering my mind.

Typhoid no dey kill nah, its almost normal to have typhoid in naija esp. when u dnt eat @home
just use Amoxil to send it packing, _{dnt think u shud be bothered by TYPHOID wen AIDS,  Flu; swine and bird, Cancer, Sickle cell are all lurking in the shadows}

Kids like you should stay away from relationships.

ask for her genotype.
she cld be one of those peeps who get easily infected.
which ever away just find a way to tackle the problem
if you think u can't cope,leave her(but on a friendly note)

BlueDiva:

Kids like you should stay away from relationships.

U got dat ryt sis