MY BF HAS IMPREGNATED A NON NIGERIAN  AND TOLD ME IT WAS A MISTAKE AND HE WAS SO DESPERATE TO AV A CHILD, DOU HE MET HER BF ME BUH IT WAS PROVED SHE GOT PREGNANT 1MONTH BEFORE OUR RELATIONSHIP, HE KINDA LOVES ME N I DO SAME, AND  HE SAID HE ONLY WANTED HER TO GIVE HIM A CHILD, NOT KNOWING HE'S GONNA FIND LOVE THIS SOON!!!!! SO NOW HE'S SAYING ITS JUS A CHILD FROM HER AND I'LL BE HE'S WIFE!!!!!! DO YWU GUYS FEEL ITS OK IF I CONTINUE OR ITS A SCAM? PLZ BE SERIOUZ HERE, I NEED GUD ADVICES****THANKS**** [color=#770077][/color]

Sorry sweetie, i know its hard, but right now there is nothing u can do about the situation other than to think it through. You got to make up ur mind if you really can live through it; otherwise, there is no better time to back out than this moment.

op
as a 2nd wife?

@mmm 1st wife he said , @ mcloe thanx bro

lipzyy wetin dey u na , i tot u respond sharply to tins , i am beginning 2 c traces of maga in u o , so u want dey do partime gal abi , ur call my dia ur cal o

ose jare idowuogbo, juz confuse ni, since she's not our 9ja product he said me n him will retire home as husbby n wifey, while she goes her own way n start herlife its jus crasy really

^babe dont dull , hes to promising to beliv .but he might b for real but she beared d first fruit , shes here to stay

lipsexyme:

MY BF HAS IMPREGNATED A NON NIGERIAN  AND TOLD ME IT WAS A MISTAKE AND HE WAS SO DESPERATE TO AV A CHILD, DOU HE MET HER BF ME BUH IT WAS PROVED SHE GOT PREGNANT 1MONTH BEFORE OUR RELATIONSHIP, HE KINDA LOVES ME N I DO SAME, AND  HE SAID HE ONLY WANTED HER TO GIVE HIM A CHILD, NOT KNOWING HE'S GONNA FIND LOVE THIS SOON!!!!! SO NOW HE'S SAYING ITS JUS A CHILD FROM HER AND I'LL BE HE'S WIFE!!!!!! DO YWU GUYS FEEL ITS OK IF I CONTINUE OR ITS A SCAM? PLZ BE SERIOUZ HERE, I NEED GUD ADVICES****THANKS**** [/color]

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@poster
FIRST you should have some damn respect for yourself and your fellow women. how can ou dismiss this woman like she doesnt exist SIMPLY because she aint Nigerian?! did you for ONE minute think of the kid involved?! what kind of senseless woman are you?!

SECOND if he was so desperate to have a kid then it was NOT a mistake then!

THIRD the fact that he is quick to dismiss and pretend like this child is "nothing" shows the kind of low life he is. what do YOU think will happen when he is also tired of YOU?! if he want to be with you, FINE but he MUST act right. failure to do so will just show you (and the whole world) what kind of sorry dumbass you are in love with.

LAST BUT NOT LEAST do you think that "retiring" at the other side of the world will make A KID suddenly disappear?! wake up

lipsexyme:

@[size=23pt] [color=#770077]2blunt did u say intrest u[/size]?

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@poster
i am only being VERY honest with you. why dont you put yourself in this other woman (or kid)´s shoes and think about how you would like your ex to deal with the issue?!

focus on what´s IMPORTANT in this matter because it aint you and your r/ship.

If u fall for this then u will keep falling and maybe one day he would tell u that the baby needs to be fed by his mother and that means anoda woman in ur married life.think about it if u take it ull keep taking it.I know notin we say here matters ur mind has been made u are just looking 2 justify ur reason 2 fall, cos u can't leave him. okaoooo sha know say if she born boy na she him parents go recognise

If he's doing it for the benefit of the both of you, i.e perhaps for citizenship purpose, you may want to believe him to an extent but if it is just "because he needed a son desperately", that would be the dumbest excuse i have ever heard in ages. So don't fall for it.

So he met a woman that he came to know, trust, and most likely profess love to. He thinks she is faithful to him, and that she would make a great mother to his child. He purposefully attempts to impregnate her because he was desperate to have a kid.

She gets pregnant, and he immediately runs away to look for another relationship, leaving the woman that he intentionally impregnated behind.

Now he wants you to believe that he is a great and wonderful man.

Sigh. Listen to the wise words of MRbrownJAY.

is he goin to take d kid? So its goin to b black parents and a half black kid? Dnt put urself in a mess, just back out wyl u still can

thank you all for the wonderful advices i really do appreciate all and i'll no wat to do. tnkx all

^abeg u don dump am , al dis ur apology no fry me dodo mehn

^hehehe ma worri , oko gidi bo lana
on a ril tho u dont nid it , am bin serious.
bobo yen gben e maga walai

yea i do ustd dear ose n i'll definately no wat 2do, u no i jus need very little tyme 2get him off tnx sweety

lipsexyme:

yea i do ustd dear ose n i'll definately no wat 2do, u no i jus need very little tyme 2get him off tnx sweety

i can help take u away from him, if only u will allow me, Hmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!

Things happen. That's life. If you guys love each other, then go on and be his wife.

@2blunt looooolz tot u said u dont put ur d*** in smtin lyk mine or so?
@ delicious thankx man, actually we do luv each other and i kinda beliv in wat he's said, am jus confuse here!!!!

^You are welcome.

Well i won't say i know what you are going through -cause I've never been in that spot. But why not just trust your heart, give him the benefit of doubt.

lipsexyme:

@2blunt looooolz tot u said u dont put your d*** in smtin lyk mine or so?
@ delicious thankx man, actually we do luv each other and i kinda beliv in wat he's said, am jus confuse here!!!!

hey gal, dat was just 2 make u angry, dont tell me u still hold it against me,

But really, how can some ladies be this dumb??

Women are moved by what they hear and men are moved by what they see;

that is why men lie and women wear lipstick

kokoye:

But really, how can some ladies be this dumb??

Women are moved by what they hear and men are moved by what they see;

that is why men lie and women wear lipstick

OK I'LL HAVE TO THINK ABT IT

@KOKEYE BUT I DONT WEAR LIPSTICK

kokoye:

But really, how can some ladies be this dumb??

Women are moved by what they hear and men are moved by what they see;

that is why men lie and women wear lipstick

Not always true my friend, women would always prefer to go with a deaf and dumb guy driving a Rolls Royce phantom than fukk with a Chris Okotie on a bike. You see the power of eyesight?