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This discussion will be grouped under various topics .

I will be adding them as we proceed.


Meanwhile , the first topic talks about the Ideal man versus the man with potentials .









Stay tuned.

I need comments from the ladies to start .

I know i already have the man of my dreams

peawizzy:
I know i already have the man of my dreams

Big question is, are you having him for keeps?

PushPlay:

Big question is, are you having him for keeps?

DEFINITELY

peawizzy:
DEFINITELY

Kindly share your secret.

The ideal man for every woman is the tall, dark and handsome TDH kind of guy who also has a great job, nice apartment, drives a nice car, dresses well, educated, well traveled and charming. The list is endless but just asit is virtually impossible to find a man who has all these features or more without having his own downside, the best one can settle with is the man with potentials.

This is the category a lot of us fall into, or would like to be classified as.

Now how do you recognize a guy who truly has the "potentials" to become an ideal man because in truly, the ideal man is scarce and the few ones available have a lot of ladies who are in a stiff competition to win his affection or he simply is not available because he spends most of his time pursuing his career, traveling or even pursuing his hobbies. Romance and relationships usually take the back seat for these kind of men.

So here are some tips to help you spot the man with potentials.

He is Hardworking.
He is smart/intelligent.
He is talented.
He is brilliant.
He is ambitious.

Above are some pointers that will tell you if a guy isn't just an average Joe. A man who has one or more of these attributes is sure on his way to become a highly successful individual and more likely to become the ideal man of your dreams all things being equal and with a little bit of luck on his side.

Now that we're done with spotting the man of your dreams, the next step is getting his attention or better still, making him to notice you.




Your comments, questions and suggestions are welcome.

Hey Mamacita!

Every guy in the house would agree with me that the first thing that gets his attention in a lady is her style or dress sense.
For every occasion, there is always a dress code. From dinner wears to the Little black dress for night outs, short or mini skirts for clubbing to knee high boots and even distress Jeans for the adventure in the park.

Every girl must have at least a couple of these outfits to be used as the occasion arises and not to be left out is the body perfect bikini wear.
I mean every guy likes an endowed lady in bikini. No girl has ever gone wrong with that.

Another thing to be taken into consideration is your hairstyle. Are you the kind of lady who uses attachments or weave-on?

Most guys wouldn't have a problem with some artificial hair as long as it suits you perfectly and it hasn't expired on your head. I mean some ladies fix their hair and leave it on for up to 3 months until they start looking like they've been bewitched by the old lady in their village. No, that's not the way to go.


I've been opportune to get acquainted with nice looking, tall and slim ladies but then i let them slide just because their hair wasn't looking tidy.

You can imagine if most guys were like me, then that spells bad market for such ladies.

On to the next one.

More comments before i continue.