Breaking up with someone whom you ve spent or given so much for, is usually not a sweet experience for many. And for those who feel pained or used, you see them talking bad or ill of their ex boyfriend or girlfriend. Making it look as if the other person is a terrible person. Such is common with girls mostly. Immediately a girl breaks up with a guy, she start telling anyone who cares to listen bad things about the guy. Like castigating him for his bad character (which she didnt notice until after the break up), some of the bad things he indulges in or how uneducated or backward her ex is. She usually say all these with so much bitterness and with the intention of tarnishing her ex boyfriend image before others. But is such action right? Does it make any sense at all. Why voice such out or expose your ex' secrets and flaws cos you two are no longer together. Habits you were able to overlook or tolerate while dating him is now something you destaste so much... When you are hurt, going on a revenge mission would only worsen your pain. Just let go and move on...thats the best way to heal your pain

Personally I think it depends on how they broke up. Some people can only get over their pain/ loved one by talking, while others keep mute.

He/she can talk about whatever it is that made them break up. Not adding lies to it and also not saying things that were meant to be a secret between them.

Generally, most women are fond of exposing their secrets even within themselves when they have a little scuffle...


It's just a bitchy attitude... & any nigga that's seen doing such is tagged a bïtch àss nigga.

Yes. It means she wishes to repeat the experience.

So there are girls that talk good of their exes? Just hearing this for the first time. I've never met any such girl before sha.

As far as I know, if a girl isn't painting her ex evil, it's because she isn't talking about him at all. I dunno if it's right, but I know it's the norm.