[quote author=urbanmsg post=48295060][/quote]

2 months!
Then that's a totally different ball game altogether
Please follow your heart
Also put your kid into consideration
Your kid has been robbed of a fathers love for 5 years while another kid is enjoying his fathers love
Some men can be really wicked
OP do what you know is best for you and your son.
No one has the right to judge you.

[quote author=urbanmsg post=48326434][/quote]

Ok I applaud you for waiting so long, sometimes things situation happens beyond anyone's control when you go abroad. Trying to get a worked authorization, finding oyinbo that will marry you for papers and working difficult jobs Just to get by before everything is ready. If you still love him then wait. If the love is gone move on. Even if you end it, end it on a friendly note, because your kid still need him to file papers for him.

Am very impressed with all the advice given to you. Just use your head, and don't let a man make a fool of you,or use you all in the name of marriage. My sister,how long can you endure ill attitude because of what your families, and friends would say.