I fell in love with a girl who just call it quit with her guy of 11 years relationship, although she vowed not to return to her former love. she accused him of being a cheat and a liar and that the guy can never change. but the problem is, this guy use to call her to say he is sorry often, i mean like twice daily. this guy is her first love and she even talk about him often whenever she is with me. i don't want her to dump me before i take my leave. what should i do, i'm confused.

you don't want her to dump you first, you mean?

pls dont fall for the girl yet. She may wake up one day and return to the guy. Most ladies cant get over their first love easily. If the guy is still begging her, dont put all your heart in her yet. You can just be friends until you are sure she want to be with you.

A point of caution, stop discussing her ex with her. You are taking her backward.

By the way, if you are in her ex shoe, how will you feel? Show understanding. But get your act together.

olanajim:

pls dont fall for the girl yet. She may wake up one day and return to the guy. Most ladies cant get over their first love easily. If the guy is still begging her, dont put all your heart in her yet. You can just be friends until you are sure she want to be with you.

A point of caution, stop discussing her ex with her. You are taking her backward.

By the way, if you are in her ex shoe, how will you feel? Show understanding. But get your act together.

Pin down. Dis oughta do. Excellent advice.[b][/b]