've been wondering why a guy who barely could afford a decent three square meals a day woul wanna get married..

Yeh yeh! I know some1 would wanna yap about love(lust for most).

Just hold it... Now tell me would you want your lil sister you love somuch to get married to a broke dude.
In conclusion,if you're a guy who can't, afford a good accomodation,feed well,clothe himself properly.please do YOURSELF the FAVOUR of sparing YOURSELF the PAIN of having a rebellious wiffy,inlaws,friends,foes and simblins.oyo will be your case if her parents are rich and cocky.

Because love is blind

That's why igbo men gets up to 50 before marrying. It's not all about the money dude.

Same reason why jobless girls get married...

I beg not to differ with you op..i whole heartedly concur with you on this one.

firstking01:
I beg not to differ with you op..i whole heartedly concur with you on this one.

before i would get angry with anyone who favours "marriage for the rich"
but haven seen somethings,i had to just rest my mindset.

Not that u most hit the #1 million....but just be comfortable,,well above the average.

lamideee:

what have you to say

ghostmist:
Same reason why jobless girls get married...

she mustn't be a workaholic before she gets married...guys are meant at all time to be the bread winner while the women(wife)serves it.

Going a lil bit religious eve only came when adam was done naming the animals.

i'm by no means supporting GOLD DIGGERs(gold digging wiffys).

so he should go around committing adultery and smashing other people's wives ba?

Y u no jst say cos dem broke make dem no dey kpanachuku...

Op the tin self they wonder me, but at times I blame those girls who will willing accept marriage proposal from a dude, they them self know is forking broke n both of them would end up bringing innocent children into dis world to suffer of hunger n starvation

human love is as fake as FAKE and only a cloud,which dies a natural death the moment couples live together for 1wk.except something extra ordinary binds them together,something which is love Himself.that can only be GOD.

lative:
so he should go around committing adultery and smashing other people's wives ba?

well!!! That's his biz.since he isn't married yet,he is actually fornicating if he does that.as a christian i wouldn't indulge myself in fornication neither will encourage any1 to, so as to keep myself from being defiled,and offer acceptable prayers to God for a change of story

pacretus:
she mustn't be a workaholic before she gets married...guys are meant at all time to be the bread winner while the women(wife)serves it.

Going a lil bit religious eve only came when adam was done naming the animals.

Bro stop living in the past. That was over 6million yrs ago.

Hillzy:
Op the tin self they wonder me, but at times I blame those girls who will willing accept marriage proposal from a dude, they them self know is forking broke n both of them would end up bringing innocent children into dis world to suffer of hunger n starvation

yaa! U're right,,but now here is where the problem lies..
1:pressure from her parents(sometimes HIS parents also)to get married.

2:peer pressure...her friends trying to talk her into it.

3:Age....she already gets worried when she's just 25...by 29 thats injury time,anything goes.

ministeriallist:

Bro stop living in the past. That was over 6million yrs ago.

lol..what do we have here...kilkiki.

But men are still getting married to women.

BTW,,is just 10,000 years ago,the 1st adam existed.not 6million.

I wonder too oo

mizzbouqui:
I wonder too oo

or lemme say

girls shouldn't be broke as well.

pacretus:
or lemme say

girls shouldn't be broke as well.

I'm not broke and I can never be broke, I'm not dependent
I dunno about other ladies
Guys should just make sure they have something doing before getting married, even if I can get him a job, he must have the job before we get married
Why should I even date a jobless man talkless of marrying him

u are broke don't mean u will be for ever, u may be poor and get married and tins starts going well for u, apart from women being sex machines they are also destiny helpers

its not good for a man(whether broke or rich) to be alone

mizzbouqui:

I'm not broke and I can never be broke, I'm not dependent
I dunno about other ladies
Guys should just make sure they have something doing before getting married, even if I can get him a job, he must have the job before we get married
Why should I even date a jobless man talkless of marrying him

but hope you know there's a big "jerico"between being jobless,lazy and broke...he can be jobless and still live comfortable.

Currently i've got no job( never lost one).but still comfortable.though the economy is biting harder.

mizzbouqui:

I'm not broke and I can never be broke, I'm not dependent
I dunno about other ladies
Guys should just make sure they have something doing before getting married, even if I can get him a job, he must have the job before we get married
Why should I even date a jobless man talkless of marrying him

what about the ladies should they be idle and indolent that bad mentality get a job no matter how, both sides are meant to compliment eachother, for me i cant date or even marry a lady that doesnt have a job no matter how small it is, stop the thought of dependency . It is give and take not take take always.

pacretus:
but hope you know there's a big "jerico"between being jobless,lazy and broke...he can be jobless and still live comfortable.

Currently i've got no job( never lost one).but still comfortable.though the economy is biting harder.

Hmm hmm, you are telling me you have no source of income and you are living comfortably
I'm not talking about faith here oo

DESNAT:
its not good for a man(whether broke or rich) to be alone

i dey feel u bro.

Ee no good sha

Dont date or marry a broke lady tell her to get a job no matter how small it is very helpful in the long run.

abbeyboy2o15:
what about the ladies should they be idle and indolent that bad mentality get a job no matter how, both sides are meant to compliment eachother, for me i cant date or even marry a lady that doesnt have a job no matter how small it is, stop the thought of dependency . It is give and take not take take always.

Hey bros, did I tell you I don't have a job. How can I be independent if I don't have a source of income
A lady should also have a job, there are so many jobs out there apart from white collar jobs