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Poll: Would You?Yes: 62% (49 votes)No. Never!: 37% (29 votes) This poll has ended |
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Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by ammamat(f): 12:47pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
WELL myself on the other hand, I would not be able to live with myself if I were married and let another man lay in my bed and touch my body. How about u guys |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by AniLee(f): 1:53pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
well I have three rules to forgiveness 1. Forgive: they offended you out of ignorance and because God says so. Give them a second chance cause everyone wants to feel they can be trusted once again, can be loved one more time, can be forgiven for where they fell short. 2. Forgive: they offended you out of rebellion and just forgive again cause God says so. they made the mistake out of selfishness and other reasons other than ignorance. One can't repeat the same mistake twice and say they didnt know the second time. 3. Forgive and move on. I was loving to forgive you the first time, a fool to forgive you the second time. I am a wise man to forgive you for adultery the third time and this time am truly forgiving and forgetting. Forgetting you. Personally I feel fouling the marriage bed is just way out of order. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by whitelexi(m): 2:04pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
5yrs ago, it'll be one chance and one chance alone for anything at all. . . I wouldn't expect anymore than one chance for myself either. But today, i've learnt to give a 2nd chance, but only a 2nd! ^^^That apart, i will not even forgive once if there's anything remotely close to adultery on the plate! You can do all u want to do before marriage, but after that everything changes. It is another case if it was a rape case, perhaps by robbers or the sort, but aside that, talk to the hand |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by agathamari(f): 3:22pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
there are twotypes of apologies. when you confess of yourself without proding (im sorry i did it) when you apologise after it bein discovered (im sorry i got caugth) if she apologised to you without you saying anything then yes she should be forgiven because obviously she cares for you and is truelysorry for doing so. if she hid it and you confrunted her and then she apologised then no dont forgive her because if she loved you she would have told you before you asked her about it. if you had to confrunt her several times then hell no |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by iice(f): 3:26pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
agathamari: Or she's just being selfish and trying to ease her guilt |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Secretz(f): 4:15pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
Anyone can apologise and confess over and over again, from guilt, selfishness, pretending etc, it's all circumstancial, decisions normally depend on the circumstances around it all. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by agathamari(f): 6:03pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
iice: if she feels guilt then she knows what she did was wong. those who feel no guilt see nothing wrong with what they have done then therefor dont apologise on thier own see exmple number 2 |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by iice(f): 6:25pm On Sep 25, 2009 |
agathamari: Yes. . .the apology is alleviate their guilt first not necessarily to apologize first. The apology is just the means to satisfy oneself |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by AniLee(f): 9:34am On Sep 26, 2009 |
whitelexi: Hehehe,,,,, amen my bru |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Igwe9(m): 11:39am On Sep 26, 2009 |
whitelexi: I like that word brother, ''talk to the hand''. . . aww! for me, i dont pray for it, should it happen, you are on your own. its better i dont get to know |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by hickybrax(f): 11:46am On Sep 26, 2009 |
would you forgive a husband that confesses Adultery |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Nobody: 1:48pm On Sep 26, 2009 |
hickybrax:Once a cheater always a cheater. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Atreus(f): 2:07pm On Sep 26, 2009 |
No. If she commits adultery,then it's bye-bye. No excuses,no bloody second chance. If she cheats,she'll be out of my life,and she'd better hope and pray i don't cut her out of our child/childrens(if we have any)'s life/lives. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Kunbee: 10:07pm On Sep 26, 2009 |
Ebonyeyes: Not always the case |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Nobody: 10:18am On Sep 29, 2009 |
Yes I support. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by popsonbabs(m): 2:05pm On Sep 29, 2009 |
Yes i will if yes confesses before i know. I like sincerity. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Feelitx(m): 7:02pm On Sep 29, 2009 |
Adultery is just not acceptable. I don't forgive betrayal. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by posakosa(m): 7:51pm On Sep 29, 2009 |
If the Wife wasn't caught, why the heck would she confess ?! To what ?!! Such stupidity, you only confess if u're caught. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Chiori(m): 9:39am On Dec 27, 2011 |
I would forgive her, because it is clear what she wants is better lovemaking. At least that is better than her confessing to lesbianism. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Nobody: 10:05am On Dec 27, 2011 |
For the self righteous here who dont give a second chance,thats idiocy in all its sanctimony. God almighty gives us even unimaginable chances to turn away from our sins. The adultery woman in the bible and its lessons,i bet christ demostrated that we forgive cos at a point in the near future,we might be susceptible to such act wether cause of pressure,welfare,coercise,or otherwise. No cheating partner programmed to cheat just dat it is circumstantial(when really apology is intended). |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Orikinla(m): 10:23am On Dec 27, 2011 |
Yes. Once someone confesses and asks for forgiveness, I will be glad to forgive. But if you don't confess and refuse to repent, I will get rid of you before you get rid of me. Unrepentant unfaithful people can kill you to hide their misdeeds and continue with their evils. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Nobody: 12:12pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
Never! |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by fred2265: 12:14pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
I like to think I would be able to, but it would depend on the circumstances. A one-off lapse I would be able to forgive, but not a long standing affair. [img]http://s01.flagcounter.com/count/7uR/bg=FFFFFF/txt=FFFFFF/border=FFFFFF/columns=1/maxflags=1/viewers=3/labels=0/pageviews=0[/img][img]http://s10.flagcounter.com/count/oH/bg=FFFFFF/txt=FFFFFF/border=FFFFFF/columns=1/maxflags=1/viewers=3/labels=0/pageviews=0[/img][img]http://2.s01.flagcounter.com/count/7uR/bg=FFFFFF/txt=FFFFFF/border=FFFFFF/columns=1/maxflags=1/viewers=3/labels=0/pageviews=0[/img] |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by jevic(m): 12:22pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
[color=#000099][/color] If she willingly confesses of her sin, I will forgive her. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by ektbear: 12:23pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
No. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by pato405(m): 12:23pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
Orikinla: A word of GOOD advice for those who care to listen. it's a RED FLAG. RUN RUN RUN!!!!! |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Afam4eva(m): 12:24pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
I can't even marry someone that's not a virgin. At least it will be difficult to do so. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by pato405(m): 12:25pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
there's NO such word as 'second chance' to a cheating wyf! D-I-V-O-R-C-E fast!!!!!! |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
I will forgive on the condition that she brings me her best for a ssex session she must witness |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by pato405(m): 12:26pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
afam4eva: bros, I don find virgin , so tey i don tire to find. there are very few if at all there are any. |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by Afam4eva(m): 12:27pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
pato405: How you take they find your own. You dey ask them? |
Re: Would You Forgive A Wife That Confesses Adultary? by pato405(m): 12:28pm On Dec 27, 2011 |
afam4eva: you go bite me if I ask you? |
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