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Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by eph12(m): 8:31am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:Such as? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 8:31am On Sep 01, 2016 |
Fkhalifa: How do you strive hard? Break it down for us if you don't mind so that others can learn from it. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 8:35am On Sep 01, 2016 |
eph12: Such as not putting ourselves in compromising situations. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 8:38am On Sep 01, 2016 |
obiaguna: Abstinence may be a myth if you don't add God to the equation. Abstinence is difficult if not possible without the grace of God. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Fkhalifa(m): 8:39am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:get busy, be in midst of people, have a hobby like money making,game, participating in religious activities etc that will distract you,if the urge gets too extreme, ease off so as to avoid joining tge several and rampant rape cases on ground. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by cliquevibes(m): 8:49am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:. Bro, chill..B.P is real play safe!!!! I meant it in a sarcastic way, everyone knws d spiritual implications of sex without ones spouse....which is y I run away 4rm it, no matter hw much u preach it 2 some peeps, deu wnt ever heed u but instead bash u... |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 8:56am On Sep 01, 2016 |
jezuzboi: Amen! This is a brilliant response to questions asked on this thread. You can go ahead to give us tips on how to be 'completely abstinent, refraining from alternate forms of sex' as you succinctly put it. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 9:04am On Sep 01, 2016 |
Fkhalifa: What do you mean by phrase 'ease off'? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 9:09am On Sep 01, 2016 |
cliquevibes: I got it. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by KingEbukasBlog(m): 9:16am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: Well said brother . |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by miketayo(m): 9:27am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: abstaining from sex doesnt mean u cant get ur hrt broken |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Ghost447(m): 9:28am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:End of discussion. Thanks |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by eph12(m): 9:34am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:I thought you were on about something new. Is this not part of the abstinence message? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:32am On Sep 01, 2016 |
KingEbukasBlog: Thanks. Remain blessed. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:34am On Sep 01, 2016 |
miketayo: True that. But it wouldn't be as bad as when sex has been involved. 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:35am On Sep 01, 2016 |
Ghost447: You are welcome. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by miketayo(m): 11:36am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: hmmm it all depends on the person's personality. some virgins gurls can be so emotional. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:36am On Sep 01, 2016 |
eph12: Yes it is. Give us more tips that will make abstinence easy to practise. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:39am On Sep 01, 2016 |
miketayo: They should rather thank God that they still got their chastity intact. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 11:40am On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: The ideal situation is that they both do Abstain from Sex Abstinence is better for developing a more intimate connection with a person |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 11:43am On Sep 01, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: Would it still be acceptable for ladies if the situation is not ideal? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by eph12(m): 12:44pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:There are no easy ways out of this. Sex is thrown at our faces at every turn. Self discipline is key. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 12:50pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:Not Ideal as per what ...you have to give instances i personally in my life would rather remain faithful cause Thats what God wants can you elaborate on what you see as not ideal ... |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 1:15pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: If follows that the situation that is not ideal would be when one or both partners do not abstain. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 1:20pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
eph12: Thanks for raising that point, but would self discipline be enough? Is that the message that we should preach? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 1:33pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: This is very common. However we are all different and some attain a higher level of spiritual wisdom before others. That person has to live with that and the insecurity that comes with that having sex recklessly is just evidence of lack of discipline and self control your job is to love them and still be faithful in the end we will all face judgement |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 2:29pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
solasoulmusic: How will you go about teaching this message of abstinence in this hook up culture? Is it enough to say that you don't abstain at your own risk? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 3:25pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:I don't go about teaching it I just live it simple I am not God so I can't change a person however I can stay away from anyone that does |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by jezuzboi(m): 4:16pm On Sep 01, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: Follow this link to see how I practically stayed clear from all forms of sex. https://www.nairaland.com/2175592/ogechi#31242557 |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by wirinet(m): 7:08am On Sep 02, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:What do you mean for me and my likes? My likes are honest with ourselves, we are not hypocrites like your likes. How many of your likes were virgins when you got married? How many of your types did not engage in pre-Marital sex before marriage? If virginity tests can be carried out for men prior to marriage, i am sure 99% of your likes would fail the test. As i said, it is impractical if not impossible for a man marrying at a ripe old age of 35 and above never to have engaged in premarital sex. Same for a lady marrying at 30 years and above. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 5:39pm On Sep 23, 2016 |
charix: What do you mean being close minded? How and why do you think I was close minded? |
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