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Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by LaExpert: 3:24pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Icecomrade: These 'complaints' are usually heard when one party has been abstinent and the other has been exposed. You'll hardly hear all these from an abstinent pair. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by jmoore(m): 3:26pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Yes, very possible. Sex is not food!!!!!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Laredojohn(m): 3:26pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
I have always thought of this too,but to be sincere its realistic for those who have the grace too,i know some peeps will come and quote scriptures etc, but to be realistic even those who preach it must have fallen before(though not all) ,but whosoever has kissed, had lust by mere looking at a woman , masturbated , or done any sexual act thats not even penetration is a good as having sex , we truly have those who can abstain and i salute them because it takes the grace of God too, i once spoke with a lady friend, she told me she was abstaining from sex till marriage , but when we spoke further she said she only kisses , i was like , u fink a guy will just always be interested in kissing u always and will not wanna go further someday ..anyways it takes the grace of God . |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:26pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
braithwaite: Does science say sexually transmitted disease is a good thing? braithwaite: If abstinence is important why can't they get married before having sex? braithwaite: Can't the so called variations be explored after marriage? What's the rush? braithwaite: And if you can't abstain before marriage would there be any wahala? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by holluphemydavid(m): 3:27pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Ur contributions is needed here Torlah232 |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by jmoore(m): 3:29pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Seun:Taaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!! [img]http://media./media/zWuh7jYoiq74s/giphy.gif[/img] |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by realmindz: 3:30pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Jamean:now tell us, ve u? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by atirolu(m): 3:31pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
No test market Will lead to fight btw seller and buyer |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Klare(f): 3:32pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: Very possible deaerie |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Icecomrade: 3:32pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
LaExpert: What would tame the complaints among abstinent pair? Low libido caused by abstinence or lack of sexual exposure? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by chukz999(m): 3:33pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
[color=#990000][/color] Though In Our Modern Society Sexulal Immorality Is The Order Of The Day.... But I Still Believe That Abstenance Is A Realistic Message |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 3:33pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:34pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Adesiji77: Good point. It is not just good to go against the flow it is also good to turn the tide. 1 Like 1 Share
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Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by DTRUMPER: 3:34pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen: SAME advantages LESBIANS have for going into the devilish act |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by DTRUMPER: 3:37pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Seun: ONE MILLION DOLLARS FOR THAT GOOD COMMENT |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by joseph1832(m): 3:40pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:Did I say that? Ask me a clear cut question and I'll answer you. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:40pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
eph12: What about those who say they believe in God but still cut corners. 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by miketayo(m): 3:40pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen: first 2 r correct but the last isnt |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:41pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Klare: How? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by LaExpert: 3:41pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Icecomrade: Virtually everything in the quoted post has a solution, from low libido to weak erektion to quick expulsion. Low libido is more of a psychological issue besides, there are ways to increase libido. If I hit the gym with a first time gym user, I won't enjoy my workout session simply because I'll need to teach the newbie how to use the equipments... and he'll get better with time. If we're both newbies, we'll enjoy the session as our trainer will easily put us through. 2 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by clogogo(m): 3:42pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen: Disadvantages No sexual experience No Sexual awareness of your partner that leads to infidelity most time. Aka Sexual lapido E.t.c |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Anjelus(m): 3:43pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:First, let me correct this erroneous notion, sex is the least reason for marriage, is just the icing of the cake, the primary reason for marriage is companionship and it is because of the misplaced priority that we now have marriages fallen apart without remorse. Any marriage built on sex is already standing on a faulty foundation hence the reason for extra marital affairs. With abstinence, you are in a good frame of mind to start a relationship with your head rather than your emotions. You able to look at the pros and cons of your partner and decide whether it aligns with your goals and values, otherwise, you are at liberty to move on without any emotional attachments that come with a sexual relationship. This apart, the most important reason is that ITS A SIN BEFORE GOD!!! 3 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Icecomrade: 3:45pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
LaExpert: You tend not to understand the last post you quoted. My question is on sexual crave. That's why I asked you if its is sexual exposure that causes high libido against abstinence resulting to low libido |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by kennydotkom(m): 3:45pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU: Yes it is possible , only if the lady in question refuse the guy that has consecience wit joint agreement never to engage in premrital sex. But it will take a self control people to obey. This. because its not easy. We hv to face reality. 1 Like |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by eph12(m): 3:47pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
OLAADEGBU:They do so knowing fully well the repercussion. And they have most likely made their peace with it. Do you know there is difference between saying you believe something and actually acting like you really believe. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 3:47pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
joseph1832: You said for the fact that a partner (fiance) would begin to cheat with someone else as to the reason why you advocate for pre-marital sex. Correct me if am wrong. What will you advise your daughter if she asks you this (OP) question? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by LaExpert: 3:56pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Icecomrade: Your question was not clear enough then. Sexual exposure does not always translate to high libido and abstinence does not also always translate to low libido. Like I said, Libido is more of a psychological issue. If your question is still not answered, kindly rephrase simply and ask directly. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:00pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Anjelus: Why do we have this misplaced priority? How do we go about being abstinent without falling foul? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:01pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
kennydotkom: What is the reality? |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by goldeno10boy: 4:01pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
lilyqueen:and zero number of children born out of wedlock (bastards) There is no body that will be happy with his/her parents for making him/her a bastard 2 Likes |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by Nobody: 4:01pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
Honestly it's really between you and the God you serve. I have found that keeping yourself for that one person really helps build a sexual bond. Occasionally temptation seeps in but it's best to wait because men start to treat you differently once sex is involved and the center of the relationship yes he can get it anywhere but everyone has a unique touch a unique way in which they make love like a fingerprint once you have a match if you like turn to rabbit you won't be able to deny it. |
Re: "Is Abstinence Before Marriage A Realistic Message?" by OLAADEGBU(m): 4:03pm On Aug 18, 2016 |
eph12: Does this mean that abstinence is not a realistic message? |
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