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See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 7:22pm On Aug 19, 2016
Friend zone is one position every guy has
experienced in one time of his romantic
life or other. (Even me).



You might be wondering the reasons why
ladies friend zoned you or why women
sees you as just a friend.


Friend zone is definitely a cage any guy
would wish not to be place in, especially by
the girl of his dreams. But sadly enough we
eventually get friend zoned when we
approach our dream girl in the wrong way.


Don't worry because we will be covering all
the strong reasons and more.


This is how this post is structured;


1. Signs that you've been Friend zoned.
2. Reasons why you were Friend zoned.
3. Major strategy of getting out of the
Friend and appearing as a boyfriend
material.

There are many signs that you have been
Friend zoned but I'll dish out the two
major signs.

• When your dream girl tells you all her
problems. It may seem right but a girl who
is attracted to you romantically will hide
some of her problems from you so far you
guys are not yet dating.

• When your dream girl discuss the guy she
wants with you. If the girl you are attracted
to keeps talking about a guy she wants or
like with you, then its 85 percent possible
that you've been locked up in the friend
zone part of her life.

Why was I Friend Zoned?

You are handsome, tall and all that but gets
friend zoned by your dream lover.

This signifies that being in the friend zone
doesn't dispute the fact that you are not
handsome but only shows that you are not
a boyfriend material to your dream girl.

The reasons includes:

<B> Revealing Too Much</b>
Ladies, psychologically get attracted to guys
who they cannot really predict what their
next line of action will be.

These unpredictable guys, according to
them is seen to be filled with life and fun to
be with.

When you reveal too much of yourself to
the girl you are attracted to without
expressing what you feel right from the
start, she tends to get to know you as a
friend and nothing other than that.

With time, it gets boring and finally you get
caged under the friendship cage. It hurts, I
Know.

You Are A Nice Guy
You probably know who the Nice Guys are?
Now, are you one of them?

You are a Nice guy when you are ALWAYS,
- Sacrificing your last for her
- You call and text her every moment like
you are needy
- You would do anything for her just to
make her happy (You lack decision)
- You respect all her wishes (Ladies don't
always want their wishes respected, they
like Guys that are daring).

How many of the above mentioned points
are you guilty of? You would be lying to
your self if you say none, but if you are
guilty, then congratulation, you have seen
how to make amend.

Being Nice isn't bad but the controversy is
that ladies tend to get attracted to Guys
who don't bend to their wishes at all time.

These are the bad guys, even if Ladies
know that they are likely to get hurt by
associating with these bad guys.
They still love them and find them to be
romantic and fun.

For you to keep off that Friend zone sh*t.
You better stop being too nice. Ladies hate
it.

You Act More Like A Friend
It's true that relationships should be built
on the basis of friendship.

It might surprise you that ladies are set of
creation with many controversial
characteristics.

You can keep your relationship with your
dream girl on average to maintain your
attraction or risk losing your worth when
you become too attached to her, thinking
she will figure out your feelings from your
action.

Ladies share everything with their friends
and that's not a good sign if you wish to be
the man for her.

So wake up and get off that zone.

Not Her Type
When we analyze Ladies (Women) we
consider their uniqueness and differences.

The need of a young teenager approaching
20 or a career lady of 29 and a widow or
divorced woman of 40 all differs.

A young teenager who loves to party won't
want a bookworm as a match. A career
lady who has the ambition of settling down
won't want a guy who clubs all night as a
match.

The same goes for a widow or divorced
woman of 40, as a widow will be grieving
for her lost one as need someone who will
matched her beloved one.

A divorced woman won't want a man who
is anything like her former husband who
probably abused her.

Make a check on the lady you are crushing
on, if you fall within her type, else you can't
escape her friend zone if you don't match.

Mama's Boy
Men or guys are guilty of this Mama's boy
thing.

They tend to love their mum or put their
mother's wish ahead of theirs.

Ladies find men who make decisions
themselves attractive and more capable to
manage the outcome of their decisions.

This doesn't imply that you should not pay
held to advice of your mother, but be
capable of taking decisions yourself.

Extra??
Check www.relationshipinary..com/2016/08/reasons-ladies-friend-zone-you.html



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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by SweetieConstie(f): 7:24pm On Aug 19, 2016
grin True talk, OP...
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 7:28pm On Aug 19, 2016
Chai grin
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 7:34pm On Aug 19, 2016
SweetieConstie:
grin True talk, OP...

Was once a victim tho sad sad
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by SweetieConstie(f): 7:37pm On Aug 19, 2016
NuelChesby:


Was once a victim tho sad sad


Lol... Sorry about that... crygrin
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by cruzita(f): 7:50pm On Aug 19, 2016
I no dey like long sermon for evening mass
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 8:29pm On Aug 19, 2016
cruzita:
I no dey like long sermon for evening mass

tongue tongue
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Royle2014(m): 8:45pm On Aug 19, 2016
Spot on! U hit d nail on d head bro
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 10:30pm On Aug 19, 2016
Royle2014:
Spot on! U hit d nail on d head bro

I'm glad, you saw the points frm my angle.. No more Friend zone for you cheesy
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by donMIG(m): 11:20pm On Aug 19, 2016
Shez gat a guy already n he can boast of his culinary skills while u can't even make eba... Omo a friend zone catch u my guy

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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Lexxyburg(m): 11:23pm On Aug 19, 2016
Friend zone is one position every guy has
experienced in one time of his romantic
life or other.


Not every guy bro. I don't have any female friends. It's either we're dating, fvcking or just saying Hi when we see on the street and I waka pass afterwards.
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 8:37am On Aug 20, 2016
Lexxyburg:
Friend zone is one position every guy has
experienced in one time of his romantic
life or other.


Not every guy bro. I don't have any female friends. It's either we're dating, fvcking or just saying Hi when we see on the street and I waka pass afterwards.

I See cool
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Deejay777(m): 10:11am On Aug 20, 2016
True talk op,it seems u re a veteran @friendzone community.Dz thread is FP worthy.
Well let me use dz oportunity 2 celebrate dz man

Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Nobody: 10:52am On Aug 20, 2016
SweetieConstie:
grin True talk, OP...
True talk right?...so dat's wat u guys do to us abi?

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Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 2:52pm On Aug 20, 2016
Deejay777:
True talk op,it seems u re a veteran @friendzone community.Dz thread is FP worthy.
Well let me use dz oportunity 2 celebrate dz man

undecided undecided
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 2:55pm On Aug 20, 2016
STEVE1996:
True talk right?...so dat's wat u guys do to us abi?
what women do to guys are many. My brother grin grin
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Deejay1000(m): 3:03pm On Aug 20, 2016
bleep this shit I've been friendzoned twice now .... the thing is am a nice guy who wanna find love and am also caring ... the first time I confessed to feeling to her she neither told me yes or no ... she didn't say any... @ op am tired mehn how can I free my self from this friend zone stuff ... edakun nairalanders epp me

@iLegend and the other badoski in the house epp a brother here biko
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by SweetieConstie(f): 3:04pm On Aug 20, 2016
STEVE1996:
True talk right?...so dat's wat u guys do to us abi?



Lol....
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 6:52pm On Aug 20, 2016
Deejay1000:
bleep this shit I've been friendzoned twice now .... the thing is am a nice guy who wanna find love and am also caring ... the first time I confessed to feeling to her she neither told me yes or no ... she didn't say any... @ op am tired mehn how can I free my self from this friend zone stuff ... edakun nairalanders epp me

@iLegend and the other badoski in the house epp a brother here biko

On a serious note? Then stop being the nice guy.. Try to be unpredictable and cocky with your talks but keep it on a moderate note tho
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by DaviiiD(m): 6:53pm On Aug 20, 2016
Deejay777:
True talk op,it seems u re a veteran @friendzone community.Dz thread is FP worthy.
Well let me use dz oportunity 2 celebrate dz man
cheesy
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by jashar(f): 7:24pm On Aug 20, 2016
undecided
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 8:28pm On Aug 20, 2016
jashar:
undecided
Hope I didn't disappoint you ma'm? grin
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Deejay1000(m): 8:56pm On Aug 20, 2016
NuelChesby:


On a serious note? Then stop being the nice guy.. Try to be unpredictable and cocky with your talks but keep it on a moderate note tho

thanks man
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by NuelChesby: 9:17pm On Aug 20, 2016
Re: See Now, 7 Strong Reasons Why Ladies Friend Zone You by Deejay1000(m): 9:54am On Aug 21, 2016

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