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Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by PrincessAnna: 8:37am On Aug 26, 2016 |
lolaluv1:Its about the ill treatment not the age. Believe me, she exaggerated her story. I still feel this lady hate the guy. Besides pregnant women get irritated without course 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 8:41am On Aug 26, 2016 |
cococandy:i know say na this kind thread you dey like ! |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by misscall247: 8:42am On Aug 26, 2016 |
bigtt76:u wicked ooo u wnt to destroy op marriage wit dat evil advice? |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by samsof1: 8:42am On Aug 26, 2016 |
When you are leaving with your brother's wife those not mean you should turn her to your slave, do your best and leave the rest it wil soon be your turn.it was when my husband younger brother got married that realized what he did because he wife pack to their house because she can not bear what his junior bother was doing to her. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by richard16(m): 8:47am On Aug 26, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:just listen 2 ur self... Dis hw people selfishly tink only abot der self, wu knws 2mrw....do u knw wat dis guy wil be 2mrw?? Do u knw if he will be de one 2 help ur own children wen dey grow Sometimes tink twice...my dad once said de treatment his uncle gave 2 him, He never knew he will be de one training up all his children in skul nw....Op Apply caution,call him lyk a brother nd talk 2 him......only came 2 read comment till i saw dis one dat irritates me |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by HaneefahRN(f): 8:48am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Iefosa: But she is the maid and slave right? If what she said was true then how does, asking a grown sensible adult to wash his plate after downing the food you cooked mean slavery or asking him to fetch his own water to bath rather than take the water you fetched make him maid? If he was living in the hostel he will not wash his plates or fetch his bath water abi. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by terungwamzer(m): 8:48am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Pidggin: Are you a sexist, abi you be behavioral scientist? The OP did not say the guy may be a sexual predator, so hw are you coming to that conclusion? |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by bigtt76(f): 8:49am On Aug 26, 2016 |
No dear but the issue get k-leg naaa! The boy not hubby's relative yet he has so much courage and confidence in staying in the house without doing anything ....haba so much meets the eyes jaaaare! misscall247: |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by misscall247: 8:50am On Aug 26, 2016 |
yyauq:no contact |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by butanep(m): 8:51am On Aug 26, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: So if he is the man brother, the wife should persuade him to send the guy out. How ladies think... people really said your brain is synonymous to a fish. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by fadahero: 9:00am On Aug 26, 2016 |
let's face the truth, the boy is just a lazy scumbag... ow can u be living in a rent free house,free food etc and nt help out in one way or another.... its even inappropriate, unless u have a house help. its either his upbringing made him that way or he thinks he can do anything he wants coz he's an undergraduate..... trust me most guys get lyk DAT after admission. My advice is to let him know ure older and its your house.... Be the boss naturally... u don't have to be harsh, don't always wash his plates, it gives him the right to think ure his subordinate....m guessing datz y he went back to sleep confident DAT ull wash it... also send him on errands... its not lyk he has another job except goto sckl and come back home... or is he always busy with sckl work, assignments and stuffs? |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by UIA04(f): 9:03am On Aug 26, 2016 |
donbenedict: First I read your one sided critism up there because you are obviously a man who would relish in such excesses as the boy being complained about so it's OK to be on his side and blame the poor housewife. Do you think it's everyone that can afford a maid, please think before commenting next time |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by donbenedict(m): 9:06am On Aug 26, 2016 |
UIA04:madam pls my comment wasn't anywhere near being biased. It's just a fact. If she wants solution then she should heed to my advice. Truth is he will not change |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by babaireti(m): 9:14am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Learn to tolerate one another,this guy is just a guest and he will soon leave |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by UIA04(f): 9:14am On Aug 26, 2016 |
donbenedict: Go back and read through all the comments of the topic and see how tight the corner the woman is in. It's not as easy as you painted it. The boy isn't even a relative, just someone they are helping o |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by butanep(m): 9:16am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Alexgeneration: Don't mind them. If the guy is the wife's brother now, she won't complain. It's obvious the guy is from the man side. I am not in support of the guy but you do things due to someone behaviour and attitude. If the guy start with plate now, very soon he will turn to house help. You don't give some women space sometimes because they will grossly abuse it. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Koboland(f): 9:17am On Aug 26, 2016 |
na lie You wan staff the boy |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:18am On Aug 26, 2016 |
But she is the maid and slave right? If what she said was true then how does, asking a grown sensible adult to wash his plate after downing the food you cooked mean slavery or asking him to fetch his own water to bath rather than take the water you fetched make him maid? If he was living in the hostel he will not wash his plates or fetch his bath water abi.[/quote] See babe! I have been through this kind of life style, as a guyman I don't like it all Have you ever wondered why her hubby doesn't say anything about the iss when she reports to him? My dear you don't know why. But I do! See ehn, if it comes from his mind to do it, fine! If it doesnt free the guy! What I know is that, this guy used to do all of these, it got to a point it was now seen as a duty by the woman. See ehn what ever you do in this life, always treat people nicely, situations and circumstances might be giving them tough times now, no one knows tomorrow. I'm an example of this horrible experience . When I talk to her on video at times and see her laughing uncontrollably, calling me hubby, I hope you're still a good boy, I will just smile, I still remember all she did to me when I was with them, but now NA, na Me the whole family come dey look up to. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by SleekyPosh(m): 9:20am On Aug 26, 2016 |
favexx: Ode!..U are not even happy that I mentioned a nairaland jambite like U..See ur Head like Crocodile head |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by butanep(m): 9:23am On Aug 26, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: It's so obvious you aren't married. You talk like a kid |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by lolaluv1(f): 9:24am On Aug 26, 2016 |
PrincessAnna: How do you know she exaggerated? You are biased I believe due to your own experience.... |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by prettyslimme(f): 9:25am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Alexgeneration:if d guy was also her bro am very sure he was not sit bk and watch his preg elder sister sweep,fetch water and do tedious work wtout assisting. courtesy Demand he help in a little way he can.if he was living alone won't he do most of dis tins. and am very sure d op will not be here seeking advice if the boy was her family cos he won't gv her any reason to. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:28am On Aug 26, 2016 |
butanep: |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by bigiyaro(m): 9:29am On Aug 26, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:privacy my foot. in Africa and naija in particular, wen u r going into marriage, jst adjust your mind that you are marrying the entire family, ur hubby or wife is someone's child and if you think becos u married them, the family ties n bonds should be severed, u have another thing coming. Do you know if the boy's father brot up the husband? |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:30am On Aug 26, 2016 |
richard16:it's good to be selfish sometimes and I don't give a fvck what that boy will be tomorrow |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by butanep(m): 9:30am On Aug 26, 2016 |
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Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:31am On Aug 26, 2016 |
satowind:wickedness is good, wicked people live longer |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by 4reala(m): 9:32am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Rossy99:this work is meant for ur husband to do. If he refuses to do it, d next tym he eats and refuses to wash d dish, dnt wash d plate and dnt serve him d nxt meal, if he inquires abt his meal, tell him to go and wash d plate he used in eating so dat u can use it to serve him his meal |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:33am On Aug 26, 2016 |
ibehKachukwu:need a shoulder to lean on? Really? I don't do such, it's not in my nature |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:34am On Aug 26, 2016 |
misscall247:Nobody does |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:37am On Aug 26, 2016 |
tolugar:my brother or sister will never try such if they do I will chase them out, no shaking |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by CORRECTMAN78(m): 9:37am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Rossy99: Who is he to ur hubby, and hw old is he? |
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