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Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:39am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Obynolee:yes ke |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:40am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Obynolee:God forbid bad tin, I rebuke you and your type in the name of Jesus! |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:43am On Aug 26, 2016 |
FreeWorld23:please don't pity him, he's in good hands 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 26, 2016 |
pragmatistm:wickedness is good wicked people prosper more |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:49am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Taryur3:I can never be a house wife 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:49am On Aug 26, 2016 |
sorom4:wickedness is good |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by ajimuby: 9:53am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Rossy99:Though I don't support his habit...buh you Ave been doing your work before he came y can't you just continue...Wat if he is ur son...maybe he went and stay with someone den you see him washing plate sweeping and fetching water how will you feel 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:53am On Aug 26, 2016 |
barcaboi:I've never stayed with an extended relative and I don't expect one to stay with me |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:54am On Aug 26, 2016 |
sagitariusbaby:good for her, I am not your mother |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:57am On Aug 26, 2016 |
farouk0403:is he the only soul to help in the world? |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:58am On Aug 26, 2016 |
banzuz:good luck to your life |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by barcaboi(m): 9:59am On Aug 26, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:staying with you for a while wldnt do any harm.....my mum boarded different people while I was growing up and till date I enjoy the benefits even tho then we had lil issue.....ur kids enjoy the benefits in future and even if dey don't; God repays u.....all in all, na patience and tolerance |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 9:59am On Aug 26, 2016 |
banzuz:you are irrelevant |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by CashVessel(m): 10:00am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Rossy99: Write down some rules and guidelines along with his chores and discuss them with your husband before dishing them to him in your husband's presence. If he is not comfortable with them under your roof, he can leave. Feeding an extra mouth these days is big work. If he is wise he'll know your saving him a lot of money housing and feeding him. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 10:01am On Aug 26, 2016 |
BrutusOj:you should be afraid, infact start running |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 10:04am On Aug 26, 2016 |
barcaboi:no be me ;DDworry about your life while I worry about mine |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by obajoey(m): 10:09am On Aug 26, 2016 |
See as them turn this place to war zone, o ga oo. Nairaland is somehow a place to learn how to avoid bad wives to be. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 10:14am On Aug 26, 2016 |
bigiyaro:my mentality is different from yours, so stick with yours I will stick with mine African or naija mentality stinks. I can make whatever decisions I want |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 10:15am On Aug 26, 2016 |
butanep:that's a good thing |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by cindyrocks(f): 10:38am On Aug 26, 2016 |
LOL. Thank you. banttieman: |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by cindyrocks(f): 10:38am On Aug 26, 2016 |
donbenedict: |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by IZUKWU(m): 10:50am On Aug 26, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn:women . that how you will pursue all your husbands relative from his house. if it is your own brother ,you will not be saying this. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by ibehKachukwu: 10:57am On Aug 26, 2016 |
CrazyQuinn: Oh really? I have seen the one man army. Can we talk so u gimmi ur secret cos I ve tried but failed |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by thelish(f): 10:59am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Once a topic gets to FP, just do away with the advice u get.
Kids all over the place |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Nobody: 11:06am On Aug 26, 2016 |
ibehKachukwu:hahaha pride and ego is the secret |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by missjane: 11:14am On Aug 26, 2016 |
That boy isn't acting that way because he saw you..@Op. I guess that's the way he was brought up..with a mother that does everything for him.. there are two ways to this. Either remove your focus from him and get a househelp to help with chores.. focus on the boys good sides.. I'm sure he has some.. atimes it's good to have companion at home Incase of emergencies..pls don't allow this side of him cost you something greater..before you know it, he will be out of your house. Not every wife will tolerate this I know, but then again, this can teach you patience and still work in ur favour Incase tomorrow any of your children go to stay in a relatives house for a while..you owe it to yourself to be happy..no matter what.. and above all pray about this to God. He has a way of fixing things like this..best wishes! |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by MrCEO69(m): 11:16am On Aug 26, 2016 |
Rossy99: Anuty, tell brother the u need a house help. To him it will sound stupid cos the guy is there, isn't he helping, That will be his reply, then u can register ur complain more. if not then u get a help, shey na hubby go pay for am. Pple dey sha, me i fit not do oh! He even rises his leg while u sweep. U may as well contact his mother and talk to her so she can talk to her son. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Pasche1: 11:57am On Aug 26, 2016 |
[quote author=Rossy99 post=48650979]An undergraduate of polytechnic staying with us is growing wings. He doesn't help in domestic chores when hubby is away, he does when hubby is around, he Waits for us to tell him what to do before he does it and he is really making me angry which i hate to be. When i report him to hubby, he won't do anything or even chastise him instead he complaints whenever i give him food that his food is too small. I'm not a bad type to give him little food cos i have conscience and it disturbs me wen i do bad but he is a glutton that only eats and sleeps without doing anything even to wash plates he use to eat. What do i do? To be sincere, the guy is not doing well, I am not here to side anybody but inasmuch as the guy live with dem, there should be a way of helping the wife, if he's to stay with dem for one or two weeks, nobody will complain, but staying for so long without assisting the wife is a very bad habit, I was with my uncle b4 he married, nd I stayed 9years with him after marriage but I never had issue with his wife once, we don't gist at all, apart from greetings and little little conversation, everybody on his/her own, because I hate been taken for granted, if I wake up in the morning, I will sweep everywhere except kitchen, I will fetch water for the entire house when we used to fetch water b4 we entered a house where water is running, I left dem 2 years ago, after my NYSC,am in my own apartment now, we don't have any issues till now, there are some things to endure when squatting with pple, if you don't want to cause problem btw couple, don't put assunder to pple's marriage, u will come and go, dey will live 4ever.tank you. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Pasche1: 12:00pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
[quote author=Rossy99 post=48650979]An undergraduate of polytechnic staying with us is growing wings. He doesn't help in domestic chores when hubby is away, he does when hubby is around, he Waits for us to tell him what to do before he does it and he is really making me angry which i hate to be. When i report him to hubby, he won't do anything or even chastise him instead he complaints whenever i give him food that his food is too small. I'm not a bad type to give him little food cos i have conscience and it disturbs me wen i do bad but he is a glutton that only eats and sleeps without doing anything even to wash plates he use to eat. What do i do? [b]To be sincere, the guy is not doing well, I am not here to side anybody but inasmuch as the guy live with dem, there should be a way of helping the wife, if he's to stay with dem for one or two weeks, nobody will complain, but staying for so long without assisting the wife is a very bad habit, I was with my uncle b4 he married, nd I stayed 9years with him after marriage but I never had issue with his wife once, we don't gist at all, apart from greetings and little little conversation, everybody on his/her own, because I hate been taken for granted, if I wake up in the morning, I will sweep everywhere except kitchen, I will fetch water for the entire house when we used to fetch water b4 we entered a house where water is running, I left dem 2 years ago, after my NYSC,am in my own apartment now, we don't have any issues till now, there are some things to endure when squatting with pple, if you don't want to cause problem btw couple, don't put assunder to pple's marriage, u will come and go, dey will live 4ever.tank you.[/b] [color=#990000][/color] 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by PrincessAnna: 12:12pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
lolaluv1:Lol, I read in between the lines. |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Image123(m): 12:27pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
Rossy99: i don't know what you are, but let me give you the Christian perspective which is the best perspective anyway. Talk to the boy. Step two, throw him out if he doesn't change. Irresponsible boys should not be pampered, he is not your child. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by Pasche1: 12:32pm On Aug 26, 2016 |
JustHere2Observ:Tank you my brother, you hit the nail. And at the same time, the wife sud also respect her self, by not making life difficult for the guy, simply because he's squatting under dem, nobody knows 2mr,and the guys should try as much to assist her, there would be no quarrel.[/color] 1 Like |
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