kandiikane:

Personality- everything you would want in a woman but comes at a prize

Cook me meals
Clean my house
Make my bath
spend money on me
be there at my beck and call
Respect me

The reward for that day of pampering will be very great

kandiikane:

lool.

I will accept his proposal

Inked_Nerd:

@OP: Ok, here is my response. In terms of personality, I can usually vibe with most guys. There really isn't one type of personality that I like. In terms of my own personality, I would say I'm pretty laid back [idk, I guess you'd have to judge that for yourself].

As for what I expect from a guy:

- he should be respectful

- he should be compassionate.

- he should be reliable.

- he shouldn't rely on text messaging as a tool of courtship.

- he should have a "way" about him.

- he should have moved on from pickup lines to conversation starters.

- he should want the party to end at some point [at some point in time, he needs to realize that he has responsibilities and that life isn't always about partying and having a good time.]

- he should be worldly.

- he should at least know know how to cook one thing really well.

- he should have a politically, culturally, and socially aware of things both within the country he resides in, the country of his birth [if he was not born in the country he currently resides in], and the country of others.

- he should behave as if his mother raised him correctly--even if she didn't.

- he should still be eager to learn, teach, and exchange knowledge.

- he should be financially secure and independent.

- he should be a gentleman [I love gentlemen ].

- he should be faithful.

- he should not be addicted to his work.

- he should admit his mistakes.

- he should be secure with himself as a man, lover, and any other way possible that a man can be secure about themselves [even if he isn't, I can try and work with that].

- he should be comfortable with me emotionally, sexually, physically, and any other way possible.

- he should have a sense of humor with a dash of humility.

- I expect him to challenge me in a manner that enables me to become a better person, woman, lover, partner, and human being.

By the way, I picked some of the things on this list from and article I read through a while ago. All I did was tweak it to add some of my own personal preferences.
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Lol,the topic says 'pamper' not 'the idea man'

Inked_Nerd:

^^^ Hehehe, I know what I like . I didn't really say it was a must to have every single thing

Inked_Nerd:


When did I say that that was my ideal man? The OP said "To all the ladies in the house I like u to enlighten us guys on the basic, intermediate and advanced pampering gestures u expect from your man. Pls include at the beginning your personality type to put your answer into a bright perspective." which I did

Okie dokie

Una dey laugh eh? When you come see me wed such a man we shall see if you'll continue laughing

Phate07:


Inked, that your list is quite tall. Are you aware you'll be searching for a long time?

BABE!:

^^ Did you see my list! Very short and Succinct, not like Sister Inkiru's own! (lol)

Pls scroll up and check it out. See what you can do!