REASON Number 3: POOR SOCIAL SKILLS

It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet that just don't GET IT when it comes to basic social skills.

It is as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for lower beings who need to play games,
and not worth the time it would take to learn them.

In fact, I believe that there are a lot of
smart guys running around this planet who don't
even have "social skills" and "be a cool guy that people like" in their "MENTAL MODEL" of what it could possibly take to be successful with women and dating.

Social skills are just that, SKILLS.

They are not social INFORMATION.

They are not social THEORIES.

They are social SKILLS.

And you don't get them by THINKING about them. You get them by GETTING them.

Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with other humans, and if you don't have good social skills, you dramatically lower your chances for success with women.