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Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:10am On Aug 29, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: untag it yerself..... |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:10am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:13am On Aug 29, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Now the bolded cracked me up .. Marry a hooker and treat her with respect? What kinda weed y'all be smoking up in Arkansas? |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:14am On Aug 29, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Yeah you should go. Good bye puffy |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by pippimp(m): 12:20am On Aug 29, 2016 |
WiLdFLame: It's actually pippimp. Spelt p.i.p.p.i.m.p. I honestly don't think you comprehend the meaning of "what is good for the goose is also good for the gander". To discriminate based on gender or any other reason is the excuse for all terrible things that has happened throughout history. Everyone should be treated equally and held to the same standard. Unfortunately, Africans are slow to understand this concept. Not saying other nations are there yet, but they are slowly starting to catch up to it. Africans are at a stand still as regards this. 3 Likes |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:22am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Oahray: sir...u are misinterpreting self control is a cognitive process of inhibiting liking/obsession. whether you drive to or fro...the centre is still self control. |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by handsam(m): 12:23am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Hey you guys. Puffy and Wildflame |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:24am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Babzilla:That's what I mean buy value decrease and man can do as many women as he likes and would be married and respected. ••••••• Or he could take up with hookers for years and still hold his "value". Aii but I'm just wastin' my time here with you. •••••• |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by handsam(m): 12:24am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:26am On Aug 29, 2016 |
handsam:Hi I smiled when I saw yer mention ••••• |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:28am On Aug 29, 2016 |
pippimp: look here oga pipimp....because man is the measurement of things trying to fight/elude the fact that men are differently wired from women is like fighting/lecture God. we aint talking abt discrimination here...its just abt modern women lacking self control to keep their dignity....aaarh.... when u wan turn cheezy now self... |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:29am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:30am On Aug 29, 2016 |
handsam:I didn't see nothin' in my mail. |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by handsam(m): 12:31am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by handsam(m): 12:34am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by handsam(m): 12:35am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:35am On Aug 29, 2016 |
handsam: shine forever bro |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:37am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by handsam(m): 12:38am On Aug 29, 2016 |
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Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by pippimp(m): 12:47am On Aug 29, 2016 |
WiLdFLame: It's not about turning cheezy. We are just wired differently. Our thought process is different. We generally believe that hypocrisy is the bane of Africans. The mentality in Africa usually is, "i can do what i want but you can't". 2 Likes |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 12:50am On Aug 29, 2016 |
pippimp: k nice to meet you sir pippimp **kow tow** 5k times.... |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Oahray: 1:04am On Aug 29, 2016 |
WiLdFLame:no misinterpretation there. There's no self-control in obsession. It's an extreme. You'd only need to control yourself because you like something. When you restrict self-control to actions like you did in your opening post (for example saying a lack of self-control is when she sucks when it shouldn't be and she doesn't want to), you are overlooking the simple fact that every deliberate action is an offshoot of conscious thought. See what you said... So now, A SLUT, LovePeddler OR HOE is a woman that lacks SELF CONTROL. Its not whether she likes anal or she sucks a man's dick, it's that she sucked his dick when it shuouldnt be,when she didn't want to, she just couldn't control herself. One big assumption you made there is that a lack of self-control is when you don't want to do something but end up doing it. That's wrong. It is the desire to do something that brings about the need for self-control in the first place. That's why a fondness for sex is the root of all sexual misbehavior. It's why I used the Lady A and Lady B analogy. What if a lady likes sex and WANTS TO have it and goes ahead to have it as often as she likes, your opening post implies that it is not a lack of self-control. |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 7:56am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Oahray: Liking sex in and of itself is not a bad thing, just like drugs, tasty food, etc. It's the overindulgence in these things; everything in moderation. situational now whether she in a relationship and its demands, rules and regulations to be kept.....if she is not in a relationship..moderation,mindset,religious,environment etc has alot to play of lady A sexing anyhow....here alot of things play on from religious aspect, mindset factor and environmental things also. but liking sex is not bad in itself.....since its moderate and can be controlled but obsession it is when she start sleeping with different men.... your point is taking liking as been obsessed with something..which is not necessary so sir at one hand moderation but self control is the key |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by handsam(m): 9:26am On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Oahray: 10:51am On Aug 29, 2016 |
WiLdFLame:how did you miss the part where I said an obsession is an extreme? Still you cannot separate it from 'liking' the way you are trying to do. Since you used 'like' which is a rather large umbrella, obsession is included. Obsession is not the action of overindulgence. It's a mind thing. It's the uncontrollable thoughts that lead to overindulgence. Thinking too much about something or liking it in the extreme is what obsession is. You are trying to separate actions from thoughts. When a person likes food too much, he'd definitely become a glutton. All that aside, you are saying many different things. Lemme get your point. Do you mean it's a moment of weakness that makes sexual activity bad for a woman? What makes a woman a 'slut'? Are you going with what you wrote in your opening post? 2 Likes |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Muvacci(m): 3:30pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
Babzilla: A cousin, maybe? 1 Like |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Muvacci(m): 3:32pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
WiLdFLame:I hail, brother. 1 Like |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by Nobody: 4:28pm On Aug 29, 2016 |
Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by abdultobz: 12:45pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
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Re: Liking Sex Doesn't Make A Woman A Slut, Lack Of Self Control Does by LordAdam: 1:50pm On Sep 03, 2016 |
I find it intriguing, but utterly disappointing at the same time, that we have so many derogatory names for women but far less for men. Shall we get down to the list: For women, 1. Slut 2. Bi.tch 3. Wh.ore (Hoe) 4. C.unt For men, the worst I can think of is "Dick," most others are either unisex like 'scumbag,' 'bastard,' 'shithead,' or explicitly targeted towards the mother of the man like 'motherfucker' and 'son-of-a-bitch'. Somehow it is fair to call a guy a 'cunt' or 'pussy' to mean weak and worthless, but no one would even call a lady a 'dick' because that derogatory term is too dignifying for them (only meant for guys). If you want to read more about this distortion--try scanning through this article -- http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/comment/damaged-goods-slut-and-spinster-sexist-labels-against-women-8192854.html. Where does this end? At what point does it stop? Are women just baby factories, cum buckets, or meats with three (more if you are creative) f**kable holes with no desires of their own? A man is only expected to have self-control not to cry or let emotions out but they can let their phallux dance around in as many v-jays as they can find. While women can be emotional train wrecks but must exercise self-control when it comes to sex. Who gave men the right to control or dictate how, when, and why a woman should have sex. Are men better than women. Why is okay to split things along gender lines and say men should be more out-going than women, but the same people who champion this split would feel offended when it is remotely opined that whites are better than blacks. There are two types of people on planet earth. Those that have high libido, and those that don't have high libido. A nymph can be a man or a woman. But most of us are programmed to think it's just a woman problem. Guys like to pull back the hair of ladies during "d***y sex," girls like to hold the head of the guy during cunnilingus. It's sex drive. We become rabid when the floodgates of the sex hormones are opened. When a lady seizes the initiative or lets you do her on the first date. She isn't a slut. She is a human who was charmed enough by you to let you in. She shouldn't be chided because she let you have a go while someone else was in the room. We all have a bit of an animal in all of us. Both guys and ladies. If you think it is okay for guys to show theirs, but ladies should keep theirs locked up, then you are worse than a racist. Sex is one of the principal needs in the Maslow Hierarchy of Needs. Who a lady chooses to have sex with, where she chooses to have sex, when she chooses to have sex, and why she chooses to have sex are her own business. Take your judgement to the bank if you think it's worth something. There are no sluts, just ladies with high sex drive. If you can't stand one, then don't associate with one. Don't even attempt to date one, unless you are okay with the idea of couple sharing and swinging. Know who you are and find your type. Don't judge people for who they are. -Lord |
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