Don't be deceived. Sex is not love. Its just a means to an end(satisfaction).

Ask them guys.
Sex is a gift in Marriage not dating. Before you waste your time on sex, have you thought of where you are going?


Have you discovered your purpose. A purposeful man doesn't beat around with sex because he knows he will get it better, later in marriage. He works for a brighter future. Don't let sex destroy your purpose. Its devil best way of misleading the youth.
I have heard guys say; " what's the essence of a relationship without sex, after spending all my money" ......keep your money dear.


I have heard ladies say: " I need to give him sex to keep my man" ........My dear sex never stopped the high rate of divorce.
I tell you, sex should be postponed till the right time.

Discover your purpose first and live it.
Change your world today. Its not only about sex .
Live a fulfilled life.
Be Wise! Be Real!! Be You!!!

hian!

But love maketh way for sex now.

This two pple above me sha. Them no send op. They know sex is the koko

All you've said is true however I have a similar yet different disposition.

One of the strong emotions we experience is desire(I believe). We desire many things just as we desire sex.
And the desire for sex appeal is stronger most of the other desires. To delve a little into the theory of origin of man as postulated by the Bible, when God created man, he said into world and multiple, not go into the world and love, therefore, we have a stronger programming to have sex than even to love our selfs.
This connotes that by natute, we are naughty
Therefore, basic instinct tells us have sex have sex and have more sex, that's why a guy that's laying the most beautiful girl in the world, may still go about laying oloshi, and a girl with a man with all her specs, still might go about knacking.


Now that's estallished, let's look at the sex and love dycotomy. op, much emphasis is laid on the guys desire to have sex while that of the ladies is underplayed. Now, girls desire sex just as much as boys. However, wile guys can have what is termed "meaningless sex " girls desire a connection or should I say assurance.
This encounter I had years back may further strength my position. I just clocked 20 and had this lawyer friend about 27 years, something lead to another and for some reason we had something, I was surprised when she asked were we are heading, when it was obvious that we both just had backs to scratch.
In a nutshell, men and women desire sex and crave it, only men are more willing to do it for doing sake while wimen want to do it, and not feel like they are being used.
The emphasis I have been trying to make is that a girl can have sex for satisfaction and so can a guy, it must not be love love love everytime. I am not trying to promote promiscuity in anyway, No, all I'm saying is we should be bold enough to embrace our sexuality and be honest about it. Now tell me, if you tell a lady I want only sex, she'd most often never let you have it, she prefers the reassurance of marriage or love, while Even in her heart, she knows it might not be the case

Lily don't assume you know everything about SEX. SEX is one of the things that are beyond human understanding because it deals with emotions and individual state of mind depending on the situations at that moment. Sex can be love depending on the state of the two mature individuals . Don't generalise sex just to score a point . Simple put sex are for married people religiously while sex are for mature minds worldly.

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sex is part of love dear