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My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by dearbunmi(f): 7:35am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Dear Bunmi, I'm currently engaged and my fiance is requesting that I have sex before marriage with him otherwise he would forfeit the wedding which is in two months time. I'm scared! If I agree to have sex with him, will he run away before the wedding? Can I trust him? These are the questions on my mind please help me!!! I've heard of people who get dumped after agreeing to have sex with their boyfriend/fiancé I really love him and I don't know what to do. Thanks. Nicole Via Facebook Click below to see my response http://dearbunmi.com/fiance-wants-sex-marriage/ Do you have any relationship questions? http://dearbunmi.com/send-your-story 1 Share
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Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by CHOPUP411(m): 7:37am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by general111(m): 7:38am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Have you guys had sex before?if not,your fiance doesn't love you if he can't wait for just two extra months. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by finalboss(m): 7:45am On Aug 30, 2016 |
give him wah he want... |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by FreeSpirited: 7:45am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Maybe he thinks if you are not having sex with him you are probably doing it around the corner with someone else.....we guys quickly make such conclusion. Many guys can do no sex before marriage but the fear is always ' what if someone else is drilling her badly while I'm waiting like a fool'....that's the reason we always want to fvck our fiancee so that one idiot won't be doing it for us Believe you me....those secret helpers can be merciless on the pvssy. hammering it really hard. its an ego boost for them, since they know she will be marrying soon 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by CIGARETTE: 7:46am On Aug 30, 2016 |
In law of contract.... There's wat is called concensus ad idem |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Davash222(m): 7:47am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Are you a virgin? If no, then something serious is wrong with you. After sleeping with all those efulefu boys, then you no wan give your fiance, abi? You see your life? 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by falcon01: 7:47am On Aug 30, 2016 |
just fu*k her |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by youngberry001(m): 7:52am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by ultimate73(m): 8:04am On Aug 30, 2016 |
If u are not a virgin give it to him |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Greenbullet(m): 8:12am On Aug 30, 2016 |
you must be ....
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Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by drealbobo(m): 8:41am On Aug 30, 2016 |
You guys are engaged, so there shud be no reason for yu holding on to yur pu**y , allow the poor guy enjoy you before he ends up with anoda woman. |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by nrexzy: 8:49am On Aug 30, 2016 |
Ur on drugs!!!! Plz tell me ur a virgin he has tested n comfirmed it himself, if not |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 12:05pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Why is he in a hurry ? It's just two months away 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by eniwhy: 2:27pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
Firstly, How long have you guys been in courtship? Secondly, He should be patient since he has already been. I suspect he has ulterior motive for wanting quick sex. If he cannot wait let him go to blazes. dearbunmi: |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 2:42pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
In cases like this, i loveto imagine myself in such situation and ask what id have done. From your post, its possible you a virgin (primary, secondary or tertiary) or you have core moral values of adhering strictly to your descions. i can also decipher that you probably have not had sex with him because you are scared he'd hit and run. In summary, if this was my case right now, I would try and convince him to wait since its just two months away (why the rush?). If he still insists id ask him to do as he pleases and if he eventually calls it off.....#noregrets 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 2:42pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
In cases like this, i love to imagine myself in such situation and ask what id have done. From your post, its possible you a virgin (primary, secondary or tertiary) or you have core moral values of adhering strictly to your descions. i can also decipher that you probably have not had sex with him because you are scared he'd hit and run. In summary, if this was my case right now, I would try and convince him to wait since its just two months away (why the rush?). If he still insists id ask him to do as he pleases and if he eventually calls it off.....#noregrets 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by firstking01(m): 2:44pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
If you 've had sex with him before then i'd advice you continue having sex with him, but if you 've never had sex with him before pls stand your ground. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Ranchhoddas: 3:37pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
lilyqueen:Mtchewww... |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by sexymoma(f): 3:41pm On Aug 30, 2016 |
my sister don't trust all these naija guys....dia ritual too much there is more to it sis... |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:12pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
eniwhy: So far, you're the only one who's said anything reasonable. I'm astounded by all the comments above yours. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:17pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Naija, which way? Just imagine comments up there! Whether or not you've had sex with him before, stick to your guns as long as you're abstaining for the right reasons. If he decided he won't marry you just because of that, then let him go. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 11:21pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Maychang: Thank you for this |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by KingRex1(m): 5:45am On Sep 20, 2016 |
You urself arnt to be trusted.. He has proposed, set a wedding date, ready to have u as his wife and yet you are still holding back. Are u sure u have a hole or sexually ok? Pls don't give him his worst nightmare on ur wedding night 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Esty20(f): 9:20am On Sep 20, 2016 |
you won't try that my friend! |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Aregs(m): 9:47am On Sep 20, 2016 |
Maychang:[ abegi whch one b primary, secondary or tetiary virgin? |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by Nobody: 10:16am On Sep 20, 2016 |
Aregs: primary virgins have never had sex. secondary virgins are those that iv not had sex in a long time e.g 5- 10 yrs and above. at this stage, the vagina would become tight. Tertiary- id define this category as those who have lost it , sexually active but when they want to settle down, they claim not to want sex or claim they are virgins. now u get it right? |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by oxmale: 10:52am On Sep 20, 2016 |
drealbobo:They are engaged but not married. op let him wait till you get married. |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by oxmale: 10:54am On Sep 20, 2016 |
KingRex1:why do you guys take pleasure in giving people wrong advice. Let the guy wait till they are married. Two months is not two years. |
Re: My Fiance Wants Sex Before Marriage by oxmale: 10:57am On Sep 20, 2016 |
let the nigga wait. The way people go crazy about sex I begin to wonder. |
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