Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my boyfriend..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.

He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.

I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.

Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

What advice is left, dear? Are you a sex machine? Or a sex slave?

Geraldyne:
Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my bf..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.
He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.
I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.
Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

Talk 2 him

lmao....pls change him o before you will start aborting babies your life is more precious

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

so cos I bleeped...I shudnt pray??...u gonna tell me dah u dnt pray evn wen u a sinner...I want advice nt judgement

The guy wan drain your sweetness,

What advice do you seek? The heart is wired to get us disturbed when something is not what it should be. You mentioned that he is your boyfriend and not husband. Though, I'm not in support of pre-marital sex, I'll just encourage you to run away from every selfish relationship before you get more "sore".

Geraldyne:


so cos I bleeped...I shudnt pray??...u gonna tell me dah u dnt pray evn wen u a sinner...I want advice nt judgement

dont mind the hipocrite the think having sex is the greatest of sin but then they lie,back bite and they think its no sin when they are all the same none is greater.

Cook a very Nice meal for him,let him comsume to his satisfaction,gv him 5 bottles of Erujeje,nd u urself,take 10 bottle of Alemo + Erujeje,them Bleep the hell out of him.....asuming him is nt performing u for wan kill an,nw he is doing his job nd u re complaining...ANY WAY U GUYZ HV TO SEAT DOWN ND TALK IF U HIM LOVE U AS HE AS U SAY THEM HE WILL CHANGE...THANKz

Prayer after fornication. Chai!!! Aru!!!

You need serious deliverance.

Hmn

Mhen, ur ass must b dat sweet or probably made of gold dat e jst cnt get enough

Mismatched libido. Either you match up to his or he tones down to yours. That's how you can both solve this problem.

It's better checked now because it can lead to problems in marriage.

You have to be compatible in all ways or atleast compromise in some but if you think you cant cope, it's better you back out though i dont think sexkillz except something is attached to it


[s]your next relationship could be worse tho[/s]

jmoore:
Prayer after fornication. Chai!!! Aru!!!

You need serious deliverance.

Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

You
pray after
have sinned yeah?? Wawu

AxeurdaddyIX:



Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

You
pray after
have sinned yeah?? Wawu

And there he goes quoting the bible without comprehension.

But you were throwing stones at thieves na

AxeurdaddyIX:
They're all thieves btw. Either Pdp or Apc.

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

Of course, God no be Man

But baby,I thot we talked this thru already... So why bring it here??
Am sorry .... Just come and let's settle this ...
I will be waiting for you in the other room,with no boxer on...the way you love it...

Tor,

Well, im no expert on relationship, but i think u should communicate with ur guy, n tell him how u feel about it.

Communication doesn't harm no one

The guy may truly love you per se but it's just a case of voracious appetite for sex.... It's either he is not too busy or it's just a normal thing to him ... Don't blame him much for wanting to have sex with you even while mourning, I am not a hypocrite so I know the way this thing works.... The dickkkk has a mind of its own especially in this peculiar case where your boyfriend has a voracious appetite for sex... Your boyfriend and I share the same thing in common it's just that maturity has helped me to at least know when to avoid it... Solution... Try to get him to be busier with school/work or let him join a department in church and also give his life to Christ... Note that , it will not automatically stop his voracious appetite for sexx but it may help him to reduce the number of rounds he goes then maybe from there he could even become so changed that you will be the one to disturb him for sex.... I remember dating a church girl for only six months without sex and she left me for it... ( if only she knew that I was a reformed sex maniac that no girl( the ones I have tried) has been able to match my appetite for sexs).... It's matter of your guy channeling that appetite to something more productive... It may take a long time, Maybe even a break up from both of you before he gets there....

Okay!

You need to really think deep about areas where your minds meet because if the concerns you expressed here about him is anything to go by, he seems to be into you for the 'assured" sexxx alone while you appears to be in it for genuine relationship.

The answer you get from the exercise above should give u solid reasons to decide correctly. Whether you decide to stay or leave based on your answers above, learn not to always "give in to guy's sexxx request" against your wish. Understanding should not be on sex alone. There are clearly so many areas that mutual understanding should be exercised on.

well sex or relationship is all about compatibility if you cant bend any further, i advice you just move on. he wont change, he has a super active adrenaline abi na libido self. maek hay while the sun still shines

Everything got a bad side.. If you can't tolerate or deal with the bad side quit it.



Relationships ain't some box of chocolate. .. So it's up to you!

Geraldyne:
Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my bf..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.
He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.
I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.
Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

My question to u will be if he actually loves u or just a sex object to him to use for agile and dump. If it's d later he shud chill out pls since it's not dat serious bt if it's he actually loves u(I don't mean play play love Ohh!) try teach him how to wait smtmes cos he seems to be abit obsessed bt it or by u(if u guys are exclusive).

Ur guy should learn to ve self control, 2 much of everything is bad. Its left 4 u to stay or quit, d choice is urs and mind u, he will surely get it 4rm s/o else if u re nt meeting up

Ifakiland:

U went to spend d nite in his house, he forked u and u decided to pray in d mrn after?? Menh God is truly not a man o!

lol


Always merciful.

Geraldyne:
Hi,
Its not a friends story or from a blog,its mine and I want you all to read and give me matured advice.

I've been in a relationship for almost 8 months now and everytime I go to visit my bf..he must demand sex,even if I say am on my period.
Sometimes I just get furious and say am no longer interested in the relationship and he starts begging and because I love him, I forgive him.
He'll stop that for a while,then start it all over again.
He doesn't consider my feelings at times, there was a certain time I was still mourning the death of my cousin,he came around and after symphatizing with me,he wanted us to have sex..Gosh! I was so pissed.

The one that pissed me off the most was last night,after having like 5 rounds,I felt sore all over, I told him that and he stopped,then this morning, while I was trying to pray,he started touching me again saying he wants me.
I don't just understand whether this is normal,sometimes I just displease myself to please him but still he's not satisfied.
Am confused on whether to quit or not,cos apart from the sex thing,he still has his good sides and I dont want to make a wrong decision.

pls advice a confused sister...thanks

look 4 a sharp knife and cut off his damn dick

Ask urself if he will stop loving you the moment u stp fu*ckin him


Coz this relationship seem parasitic alredi.