So I'm one of those questions "how do I orgasm" I lost my virginity late as I was waiting for marriage. I am happy that I waited I think he is the right one. I've never had any huge sexual desire to lose it sooner. I do not masterbate and do not know how or where to start. Sometimes in the bath if I touch myself and nothing happensiI feel stupid. I have a thyroid problem I'm on meds and my blood is checked every year. I'm not sure if that might play a role. He wants to give me orgasms and do things to make me feel good. I do get wet during floor play. During sex I like being on top and sometimes if I hit a rhythm I think something happens that I like...but I can't find that spot every time. He probably thinks its him but I'm sure its not. Its me. So I've been reading articles on this website and other questions and wondered if anyone had any suggestions

You've got to relax ,and are you sure his hitting the right keys.

Try telling him to give u a full body massage with scented oil.will MAKE U RELAXED.