Muvacci:


This is just one out of many successful trials. Moreover, what you do is far from encouraging self love.

I think there are more like this than are reported 2 the public.
But I'm not soley pointing 2 the failure
There should have never been a procedure .not this time.not ever.
She never should have been made 2 feel her natural body was inadequate
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You think I don't talk on self love?
Have you seen my thread?
https://www.nairaland.com/3274040/7-reasons-2love-small-breast
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Or my comments on this form

Oahray:
hmmm... Typical.

Goodbye.

it's not I answered you. But you wanted it yer way

ILuvGummyBears:
it's not I answered you. But you wanted it yer way

Oahray:
Have my way? Seriously? You probably think it a contest.

I read your 'answer' over and over. It wasn't clear what you meant (but not because of the awkward text colouring), that's why I asked again. If it's all about having one's way, you shouldn't have even bothered replying me. You have a choice to communicate or to ignore, but if you choose to communicate, passing a CLEAR message is the least you can do.

Enjoy your 'victory' ma'am.

Now you've gon and assumed!
I made it clear. I don't know how you missed it!

it was her way of getting what she thought she lacked.
and that it was her choice influenced by whicever thing.

ILuvGummyBears:
Now you've gon and assumed!
I made it clear. I don't know how you missed it!

Oahray:
no, I didn't assume. Words are deeper than you think, so choice of words matter.

See why I don't think it's a clear answer. I didn't ask if you think a woman is incapable of thinking at all or of making a choice at all. What I'm asking is are you saying she cannot do it for herself? If I am capable of 'thinking for myself', it means my thoughts and subsequent choices aren't unduly influenced by others (which probably is what you termed 'whichever thing'). That's how I understand it.

So when you say "it's was her choice influenced by whichever thing" as an answer to my yes/no question, it seems to me mean that you think her choices must bend to some external influence and she can do nothing about it. However, that contradicts the very meaning of the word 'choice'.

Don't worry though. It's not worth your getting worked up over

Woah,do you know how 2 start and stoke a fire
I'm not "worked up",I'm just through with yer snide remarks and assumptions.
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ILuvGummyBears:
Woah,do you know how 2 start and stoke a fire
I'm not "worked up",I'm just through with yer snide remarks and assumptions.
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You were influenced does not mean you are not thinking for yerself .
It only means yer view/thoughts were impressed.
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Some people are impressionable.
Especially women in the area of beauty standards
Which we are constantly having forced into our minds on a daily basis

Oahray:
lol. If I say I don't understand, I want to have my way. If I do not question, I have assumed. If I don't readily agree with a viewpoint, my post is snide. If I analyze your post, I'm starting and stoking a fire.

No wahala sha

I think I get your stance now. A woman can think for herself, but she cannot help adopting popular opinion after having stuff FORCED into her mind on a daily basis. She's a victim of society.

No further questions.

Stop this
stop making out like the issue is mine
you did assume I wanted victory
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You have made snide remarks
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i never said you were snide for not agreeing, I'm not even trying 2 get you 2.
But these little remarks you make are.
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You quoted me with questions and I'm just trying 2 explain my viewpoint in that post the best I can .
But you are making it very difficult
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The problem is yer analysis
read what I wrote and take it as it is and stop adding 2 it

ILuvGummyBears:
Stop this
stop making out like the issue is mine
you did assume I wanted victory
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You have made snide remarks
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Yli never said you were snide for not agreeing, I'm not even trying 2 get you 2.
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You quited me with questions and I'm just st trying 2 explain my viewpoint in that post the best I can .
But you are making it very difficult

Oahray:
lol. Babe relax, e never reach like this na

I agree. I've been all that and more. My bad... Completely.

Have a great rest-of-the-day.

Now you are placating me

ILuvGummyBears:
Now you are placating me

Oahray:
yes. It's the right thing to do. Considering how you've been unfairly treated while trying to explain yourself.

I'm not one to ruin a damsel's mood on purpose.

There goes those snide remarks you pretend you don't make

ILuvGummyBears:
There goes those snide remarks you pretend you don't make

Oahray:
ah! That wasn't my intention, believe me.

This babe don make up her mind to vex for me, no matter what I write.

Pray tell, how do I placate you? What should I have said?

in yer case its best you say..... nothin'.
The problem is yer analysis
read what I wrote and take it as it is and stop adding 2 it

MrCork:



..darlin plis shange yor color & bleach or else u shall never find man on nairaland..i swaaar!

Julietcutie:

k

MrCork:


...giv us a date?

youngest85:



U must be a gud forecaster.....


U deh play bet9ja?

Julietcutie:

don't quote me again

Fedayeen02:
It's disgusting

Charles4075:
How bet9ja take enta this one na bros?

ABEngine:
The cosmetics world have consistently proved that almost every lady is quite uncomfortable with her natural looks.

To make matters worse, those whom have successfully altered their appearance become models to be emulated, creating unecessary panic amongst other female folks.

All these are aimed at attracting some dude or maintaining a consciousness of status or class.

Breaking news:

We, men, care less.

We however, find it amusing walking up to impostors and subsequently waking up to strangers.

Your Ibadi would not cook my meals nor raise homes, your heavily made face will simply mess up my bedding which I prefer to be white.

C'era una volta, all things were made bright and beautiful .

youngest85:


If u can read my mind den predicting game wont b difficult