How Chinedu my son was killed - Stella Oduah's ex-hubby laments


Lt-Col. Satchie Emmanuel Etoromi (rtd.), the estranged husband of senator Stella Oduah and father of late Chinedu Maxuel Etoromi who was laid to rest last weekend at his mother's hometown in Anambra, has spoken out again.

In reply to his eldest son, Mr Tuoyo Etoromi-Oduah's letter where Tuoyo swore to be "rather called a bastard than to be called your son," Pa Etoromi wrote on Sunday:

[b]"Eyituoyo my son, they have misled you. When Omabuwa came home last year, Stella, your mother told me to call you to come home.

"She gave me your phone number. She said you were in the United States of America and don't answer calls. All calls to that your phone were not answered. I believe Omabuwa was killed, that is why Stella refused to tell me.

"The stories about how Stella took you away need not be told now. The grief that my son, Omabuwa who was contacted by your junior sister, Valentina Omawumi Etoromi and who came home is dead is too much a pain for me now. Stella should bring our kids home. I want to bury Omabuwa who is now late, and you my lovely son, Eyituoyo should come home. I married Stella traditionally and under Igbo marriage law, every child she has before my dowry is returned belongs to me.

"It is Stella and not yourself who should tell me that my son, Omabuwa, your senior brother is dead.

"You said you offered flight tickets and accommodation to attend the burial and funeral of my son. Burial where? Do you have flight infrastructures at Akili Ozizor now? Is it Ibo culture for a woman whose dowry was paid to take her children's corpse to her home town? That is abomination. The controversies surrounding Omabuwa's death will be investigated".

"My son, do not allow yourself to be dragged into what you do not have knowledge. Could it be that Omabuwa was killed because he came home? This is not the time to talk. May the Almighty God grant us His Mercies, show us light that will make us know the truth. Amen.

"Eyituoyo, I am not Mr Satchie Etoromi. I was commissioned into the Nigerian Army and attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel before Stella came into my life. I was also conferred with a Chieftaincy title when she was with me. It is a pity that you were not told my status in life. You will know I am not a nonentity as you were made to believe"

"My marriage with Stella was not short. She moved out of our home 19 years ago and so her telling you she divorced me 30 years ago is another big lie. How old are you? So why did she tell you all these lies? I am an incorruptible and disciplined officer and gentleman and you shall be proud that my blood flows in your veins when the truth becomes knowledge. I was a polygamous man before Stella married me. I married many wives and it is a custom of our people. His Royal Highness, Igwe Oduah 1 of blessed memory had many wives too, so what did I do wrong?

"When Stella took you and everything away, in humility I prayed for the Almighty God's mercy. Must she not do the needful and bring you to me? The Almighty God shall judge. I am your father. Bring Omabuwa home and come with him. I am not threatening you nor your mother. .

"May the Almighty God bless you my son. All will be well."[/b]

Source: http://www.somtoo.com/2016/09/how-chinedu-my-son-was-killed-stella.html

These kids are really confused.
Denying your paternity and still bearing his surname seems contradictory.

The part of Nigeria i come from it is a taboo to bury one's son without his knowledge and consent irrespective of any outstanding quarrel between both families provided the kid have not claim the paternity of someone else before the demise.
The wealth,clout, influence or the background of the woman is immaterial,if Stella attempt this in my place her paternal lineage will be forgotten.

Anyway culture differs but i don't think African culture support this shenanigan.

This story get as e be

When will people learn to take their privacy away from the media.

It is so sad that even in this tragic time in their lives, both parties choose to wash their dirty linen in public..

lt is a gross disrespect to the memory of the young deceased..

So sad...

ajepako:
It is so sad that even in this tragic time in their lives, both parties choose to wash their dirty linen in public..

lt is a gross disrespect to the memory of the young deceased..

So sad...

Take it or leave, that guy death no be ordinary.

Why bury him in his maternal home. Was he disowned ... why bury him as a bastard, with 61 priests....

That boy shouldn't have insulted his father and I wonder why Stella had to bury a full grown man in her father's compound. So far the man paid dowry and married her properly the kids are his.

Just as PDP used to say, it's a family affair.
Pls is the dad from Ebonyi? Cos I believe Ebonyians are the only igbos who are polygamous. A more informed igbo person can educate me though, we learn everyday

In Igbo culture, a man who is rejected by his father or fathers people can return to his mothers kindred where he be allowed to assume his mothers original surname and live out his life there just as if he were in his fathers domain.

Nawao

LoveDecay:


Take it or leave, that guy death no be ordinary.

Why bury him in his maternal home. Was he disowned ... why bury him as a bastard, with 61 priests....

lt is so sad l tell you..

Aufbauh:
These kids are really confused.
Denying your paternity and still bearing his surname seems contradictory.

The part of Nigeria i come from it is a taboo to bury one's son without his knowledge and consent irrespective of any outstanding quarrel between both families provided the kid have not claim the paternity of someone else before the demise.
The wealth,clout, influence or the background of the woman is immaterial,if Stella attempt this in my place her paternal lineage will be forgotten.

Anyway culture differs but i don't think African culture support this shenanigan.

The part of Nigeria I come from. The part of Nigeria I come from. The part of Nigeria I come from. 1000 years ago is not today.

PFRB:


The part of Nigeria I come from. The part of Nigeria I come from. The part of Nigeria I come from. 1000 years ago is not today.

Our own culture is not easily destroy with time and money. I am certain the scenario here can't happen in my place up till date.

Sad.

Ghen ghen! The rich also cry season 2

Oga o... Oro family leleyi ke.... Settle privately biko

Do you have flight infrastructures at Akili Ozizor now? Is it Ibo culture for a woman whose dowry was paid to take her children's corpse to her home town? That is abomination.

"...I was commissioned into the Nigerian Army and attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel before Stella came into my life. I was also conferred with a Chieftaincy title when she was with me. It is a pity that you were not told my status in life. " Stella sef

"....My marriage with Stella was not short. She moved out of our home 19 years ago and so her telling you she divorced me 30 years ago is another big lie. Senator Stella sef

"Must she not do the needful and bring you to me? " Senator Stella Oduah has been doing the needful since time immemorial

I see grief, frustration, anger and bitterness all through this presentation...this government sef

lalastica

I feel the man's pain, but I doubt he's pained.

Is it when one child dies you start fighting for his corpse? Why didn't u fight to train the child or fight for custody of the others.

As for this Madam ex minister now senator, only you married this soldier man and Ogiewonyi (former minister for works). Abeg who else did/has she married.

attackgat:
In Igbo culture, a man who is rejected by his father or fathers people can return to his mothers kindred where he be allowed to assume his mothers original surname and live out his life there just as if he were in his fathers domain.

You captured it...there are so many dynamics involved. Though not same as the topic but from my own part when a man dies, his maternal side is formally informed and they come and meet the deceased's kinsmen and they agree on where their grandson/nephew will be buried.

Who dey write all these poem?
Was it written before or after the guy's death?


The rich also cry.

This man just dey constitute..nawao..
Where have you been all this while..you know raise voice..you know talk..you know do anything...you self no publish your profile..nothing about you..and you're living..all of sudden..mmandie..you wan comedey form boss..and caring..
Oh man...dem. don bury the boy..all this your mumu cry na sentiment wey no fit raise dust..
V made a mistake..and it cant be redo..the woman v moved ahead...
For 19yrs now..
Please allow the boy to rest in peace..and make peace with the living..cos you still have time..
We don't want to hear this you mumu talk tomorrow again..God forbid anything happens..
Wetin sef..

i just tire for this people matter well i believe this man to the core, cos he just wants the family to do the right thing. not that he has anything to gain from this

frenchwine:
Just as PDP used to say, it's a family affair.
Pls is the dad from Ebonyi? Cos I believe Ebonyians are the only igbos who are polygamous. A more informed igbo person can educate me though, we learn everyday

He's from the itsekiri tribe in warri, not igbo

Hmmm pride kills oooo.

Even if you hate your ex-husband, respect your culture ma. You should know much as a woman from the same tribe or why didn't your elders advise you against such act?

The way people reason when they have money is appalling.

They should let this matter rest and stop airing their issues in public na.

X

Everyone including 61 priests are enjoying this abomination and show of shame perpetrated by Stella Oduah because of her vast wealth but the the truth is when the repercussion of this abomination starts to bay for justice many who know the story won't be around and those who will bear the brunt will be the next generation of Etoromi ,then they will start running from night vigil to night vigil looking from solutions to what has hit them but won't realise that it all started on 2016 when thier wealthy grandmother decided to buy the corpse of her own son against wise counsel and the traditions of the land ..A word should be sufficient for the wise

Aluu meru