1. Always be appreciative when a guy tries to make you laugh. One of the major chat killer is when you have a low sense of humour, how you response to a joke goes a long way in making the chat interesting. Its so annoying when a guy crack a very funny joke to a girl and all she could reply is "lol" or "smiles".... So annoying.
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2. One other chat killer is when you lack continuity, its not nice to be using a mono-syllabic mode of chatting. Some girls will be the first to inbox you...for example;
Girl: Hey
Guy: hello how are u?
Girl: fine.
Guy: how was ur day?
Girl: Kul.
Haba...At least have the decency to ask how his own day went na. i.e
Guy: how was ur day?
Girl: Kul, and urs?
If you don't know, that's what keeps a conversation going.
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3. When someone deliberately exaggerates, please flow along with him, he's just trying to be funny. Don't give a dry response. For example;
Guy: what are you doing now?
Girl: eating
Guy: ok should I come and join you?
Girl: mtchww...me that stays in Lagos, so I
should stop eating and wait for you to come
from Abuja right? Mumu, he was just joking!
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4. Please if you know you're busy with something, then don't come online. Stop replying a message after 9hrs or even e days. Some will just leave when the chat is getting interesting without saying bye, they will just leave you waiting for their replies
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5. Its a conversation and not an interview.Ask questions too. Don't make him to be asking all the questions.
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6. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran or the constitution that a guy should be the one to always start a chat, learn to also start a conversation too.
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7. Stop asking for recharge cards through a chat, believe me it makes a chat BORING.
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Hope You Got That??[center]1. Always be appreciative when a guy tries to make you laugh. One of the major chat killer is when you have a low sense of humour, how you response to a joke goes a long way in making the chat interesting. Its so annoying when a guy crack a very funny joke to a girl and all she could reply is "lol" or "smiles".... So annoying.
.
2. One other chat killer is when you lack continuity, its not nice to be using a mono-syllabic mode of chatting. Some girls will be the first to inbox you...for example;
Girl: Hey
Guy: hello how are u?
Girl: fine.
Guy: how was ur day?
Girl: Kul.
Haba...At least have the decency to ask how his own day went na. i.e
Guy: how was ur day?
Girl: Kul, and urs?
If you don't know, that's what keeps a conversation going.
.
3. When someone deliberately exaggerates, please flow along with him, he's just trying to be funny. Don't give a dry response. For example;
Guy: what are you doing now?
Girl: eating
Guy: ok should I come and join you?
Girl: mtchww...me that stays in Lagos, so I
should stop eating and wait for you to come
from Abuja right? Mumu, he was just joking!
.
4. Please if you know you're busy with something, then don't come online. Stop replying a message after 9hrs or even e days. Some will just leave when the chat is getting interesting without saying bye, they will just leave you waiting for their replies
.
5. Its a conversation and not an interview.Ask questions too. Don't make him to be asking all the questions.
.
6. Nowhere in the Bible or Quran or the constitution that a guy should be the one to always start a chat, learn to also start a conversation too.
.
7. Stop asking for recharge cards through a chat, believe me it makes a chat BORING.
.
Hope You Got That??[/center]

I'm guilty of #6...

For me, I felt like I disturbed my friends when I start the convo.. Unless it's very important matter...

Like money,this post is relevant...9ce1

80% of Nigerians are guilty of this.....

what is the meaning of this? (i know your post is geared towards the female folks) I feel its not left to anyone to decide how or how not to reply or 'chat' a message, its my friggin phone... not yours!. I even find it disturbing when you 'kick start' a sober chat you know wont end even with the last percent of the battery. TRUTH IS, I FIND YOUR POST REDUNDANT AND EDGY. Now, take your bitter 'chat-life' elsewhere before you write us another sad tale. i am being open.. no more/less