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Ladies: 10 Signs He Is In Love With You by lasmile(f): 1:43pm On Sep 21, 2016
Love is a strong word that has been used or abused in every relationship connecting men and wowen emotionally.
The truth is emotion is a very powerful factor and determinant in any successful relationship.
Below are 9 signs that usually, in fact universally indicates a true love:

1.Time Factor:
Time is one factor you can not over rule in a relationship. But, care must be taken to ensure time is not been misused.
Every guy in this emotional venture called love tends to spend more time with yo to hang out, chat and most usefully talk about his feelings for you. At this time most of his time will be dedicated to please you and every other things around.

2.Calling & SMS No Longer Expensive:
Calling syndrome is another new habit of a lover. Sometimes he could call in many times in the early hour of the Morning, Afternoon and Night. At this stage watch out for the quality of his conversation during these phone calls. Watch out for his strength and weakness, are his calls making sense? is he all about how to convince you to his home or about something Mum and Dad will listen to and also be pleased with also. SMS is a short message service which guys usually use to express their feelings. If he sends you an sms concerning how he feels about you is not a bad idea but feelings should not dominate the frequent conversation as there are more vital things to talk about if feelings must be sustained.

3.SELFISHNESS & SELFLESSNESS:
Many ladies don’t know or believe that many guys and their demands could easily be used against them before they get to their doorstep. Be smart as ladies to identify this tricks in any guy proclaiming love for you. Watch out for this things and words if you don’t want to end up regretting why again you gave him your body like a cheap pork. lol…

If a guy always talks about his business and how he intend to grow it bigger bla bla bla and also on how to empower his siblings(don’t get me wrong) it is good he empowers his siblings and himself but! YOU ARE ALSO A HUMAN! if you are still a student,he should find time to take a look at your exams & records and also summorn the courage to also ask about your passion. Absence of all these are all element of selfishness.



Selflessness is when he usually call,chat and physically discuss your career with you. Watch out for a pure demonstration of true love, this guy will always talk or ask question about your proposed future plans and begin to show some useful ways to achieve them. A true-loving guy will not jump at you with his own aspirations(some smart girls will think he is saying all these to win their emotions and sympathy).

No game, if he is not in support of your career, becareful to know why. OTHERWISE, he could propose a better idea on how you can improve on things.
He should definitely want to know all of these and more,education,family,finance e.t.c.

4.SIGN & WONDERS
I know this is hard to believe.it’s definitely the bitter truth. there are signs that you are in an healthy relationship. Psychologically you will feel this sudden confidence, satisfaction and loss of appetite (like some people would call it) and many beautiful feelings will start within you.

A good relationship purifies aural around you. Many things will begin to work in your favour or advantage. This is also an evidence that both parties are doing their best to make it work and also both parties are sincere to the union.



5. YOU FIRST AND YOU LAST:
If you are the first or going to be the first in his life, these are what you should watch out for:
-He is always talking about your progress and passion.
-He is always worried about your parent and your relationship with them
-He is always talking about your education and continuation.
-He will be so passionate about your career that you will be forced to ask him about his own career and why its important to talk about his own career too.



Mind you when he spent more time about your career and goals it will also boost your interest in his own career thereby making you care for him and vice-versa.
True love is selfless and he will always want to put you first and always. All these comes unconsciously and not pre-planned.

6.SEX IS THE MAIN THING?:
In true-love settings, demand for sex at the beginning could be very rare or minimal. It’s usually seen as something worth waiting for and its sometimes seen as a sacred part of the union and to be accorded maximum respect.

Watch out for his demands for your body. Examine his sexual demands. Are you been kept for sexual urge attention?
The truth is many true love is independent of physical attraction. True love could come bundled with both physical and spiritual attention.

Like they used to say “If you love me why not wait for me” true love could possibly come with internal satisfaction For instance, just like an owner of a house, he should not been tensed or anxious occupying such house.

In an atmosphere charged with pure feelings and true love, both parties will also express internal satisfaction and appreciation, thereby setting a goal for the future.

Most of the things he does will be super-imposed on the future. A long term plan is now visible since both parties will be eyeing a long term benefits of their newly found faith. Lol…

7.UNIVERSALITY & CREATIVITY
The new feeling of love do encourage universality and creativity. Once you discover he is always serious with yours and his business, be assured he wants to work hard to maintain you and his relationship with you.

Pure love feelings will make him think global and want to do something extra-ordinary. Sometimes it was his habit to be an extra ordinary man before he met but meeting you ends lighting up the fire to improve his passion for a successful life. Same to be woman also. Once you start feeling mentally strong and creative towards your passion simply because he is around and inspiring you but then you should suspect compatibility of souls and consider him as a soulmate.

Any vision to jump on top of the world?

8.NEW FRIENDS, OLD FRIENDS:
Watch out your new guy suddenly makes you his new friend and tends to be far away from his old friends. This is not a permanent experience anyway, he is doing his best to adjust to a new life-style of being a responsible person.
This popular saying that “wherever a man’s treasure is there lies his heart”. If you as a lady now spends more time with your man there is going to be a decrease in your interest with other friends. This is normal for a super hot relationship.

9.HAS HE BECOME A POLICE?:
This is an area you may find very troublesome about him, But, it is the hard truth that has bitter taste. if you can swallow it, then it will yield a positive result to keep him and have your feelings intact as long as you want.
He is in love with you if he keeps his eyes wide open to guide your step not to be mislead. watch out, he is not policing you against men and admirers but instead protecting you against bad influence, friends and negative information that could possible corrupt good manners.

Do not be deceived, men’s primary duty is to protect their women and if your Man is doing all these don’t mistaken it to be an act of too much jealousy. Assist him to make it work and at the end you will enjoy you did.

10. WHEN A MAN IS IN LOVE A NEW “MUMU” (FOOL) IS BORN ….


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Re: Ladies: 10 Signs He Is In Love With You by jashar(f): 2:12pm On Sep 21, 2016
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Re: Ladies: 10 Signs He Is In Love With You by lasmile(f): 12:17pm On Sep 26, 2016
LOL
Re: Ladies: 10 Signs He Is In Love With You by McBrooklyn(m): 12:33pm On Sep 26, 2016
11. He is also in love with you when he got you an IPhone 7 cheesy
Re: Ladies: 10 Signs He Is In Love With You by lasmile(f): 1:43pm On Sep 26, 2016
McBrooklyn:
11. He is also in love with you when he got you an IPhone 7 cheesy

lmao all join oo

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