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Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by tosyne2much(m): 6:57pm On May 19
Most ladies don't want to date broke guys not because they have nothing to offer financially, but because dealing with broke guys requires strategies, patience, endurance and perseverance. To have a very good relationship with broke guys, ladies need to take caution of some things summarized below.

Without wasting time, below are the ways to keep peaceful relationships with broke guys.

1. Don't ask Him for a Kobo

Nigerian men are quick to insult and ridicule any girl that talks about money in a relationship. Asking a broke guy for money is not a good idea because a little amount of money will likely cause fight between you two. Imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends, by buying provision or something for them. He will feel unhappy and may tag you an evil person. Since broke guys know that most ladies are only in for material things, they seek out for ladies who will accept them for who they are, and will never ask them for kobo. In fact, the best way to be in a peaceful relationship with a broke due is to avoid asking him for money no matter how much you need it. (not even N100 recharge card)

2. Never Deny Him Sex

Most broke guys are naturally temperamental people and are quick to resort to violence especially when a woman denies them sex. Denying them sex is just like you're bruising their ego because of their financial status. When your female friends are going places with their rich boyfriends, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other’s faces in his bakery-like heated room. Denying him sex at this point is very dangerous as it can result to physical combat or capital punishment. We have heard stories of guys who used koboko on their girlfriends just because of sex. cheesy

3. Never bring a Friend along on a date

Nothing is as disastrous as dating a guy who is broke and at the same time, stingy. These are guys who will take a lady on a date and will be the ones to order on her behalf without even asking her. These are guys who will take a lady to Mr. Biggs and will order gala and kunu for her just to avoid spending unnecessarily. Imagine bringing your friend along with you on a date when your broke boyfriend has already budgeted N1, 000 for the two of you. He will find this very ridiculous because it's like you want to put him to shame in the presence of your friend.

4. Never Argue with Him

Broke guys like me (Tosyne2much) normally demand total submissiveness and high level of respect even more than rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their girlfriends. The best a lady can do is to avoid arguing with them even if you're right and there wrong. Even if your broke boyfriend says Taribo West is the president of Zimbabwe, never argue with him if you don't want him to feel he knows nothing because he isn't financially upright. Always try to accord him with the respect he doesn't even deserve and watch him treat you like the queen of England.

5. Appreciate any little thing He does

Showing mind of appreciation for every little things he does is one of the ways to have a peaceful relationship with a broke guy. Even if he buys you a cabin biscuit on your birthday, kind appreciate it and don't hesitate to eat it in his presence. If possible, lick your fingers after eating it just to show you appreciate it, otherwise, this will make him feel you're not appreciative in nature.

6. Avoid talking about Valentine

What broke guy hate the most is for ladies to think they aren't capable of taking care of their responsibility. When valentine is approaching, avoid talking about the gift he's going to get for you or where he's taking you to. Majority of broke guys like me quickly loose interest in a woman who talks about valentine.

7. Avoid keeping Wealthy Guys as Friends

If you want the best for yourself, ensure you avoid keeping financially buoyant men as friends otherwise he will begin to feel insecure about his possibility of loosing you to them. This is because he gets so jealous mere seeing you talking to a guy who owns a car or dresses expensively. As funny as it sounds, keeping broke men as friends is even better so that they won't feel intimidated.

8. Buy Him Gifts

He might not be used to the idea of gifts and giving without any occasion to. So on a good day, go shopping, buy something cheap, give it to him. With time he'll learn to do the same, out of shame, guilt or whatever. If possible, go to the market and use your money to buy food stuffs and cook delicacies for him

9. Hype Him in the presence of your Friends

Your friends may not respect him by the time they get to know about his financial incapacitation, the respect will just not be there anymore. The best thing to do is to always hype him and heap praises on him in the presence of your friends. Talk about how he's the best man you've ever come across and his self esteem will elevate

10. Avoid passwording your phone

Locking your phone will make him feel you're cheating on him and that you don't want him to suspect. Even if you lock your phone, never hesitate to let him know your password if you don't want him nag you to death.

I drop my pen at this juncture cool

Feel free to add yours

Cc
Lalasticlala

Written by: Tosyne2much


http://www.tosyne2much.com/2017/05/ladies-10-ways-to-keep-peaceful.html

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by McBrooklyn(m): 6:58pm On May 19
Tosyne2much: Ladies, 10 ways to keep a peaceful relationships with broke guys...


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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by RuggedArab: 7:00pm On May 19
No love for a broke nigga!

It can never be peaceful!

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by BiafraBushBoy(m): 7:01pm On May 19
Broke guys shouldn't date!!
Have you seen me date anyone??
I love my Bae sha... she loves me Broke!!

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by TrapHedges(m): 7:03pm On May 19
1000bulks says tis post will make fp...any bet ? All bets now


modified***

finally on fp

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by Dockybae: 7:04pm On May 19
What is the essence of dating then?

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by Halfpenny: 7:05pm On May 19
Or... Just don't date one.

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by adepeter26(m): 7:06pm On May 19
Buhahahahahaha.

Tosyne2much, you wicked o-o. Which kan expose come be this naw. Dem dis babes go Sabi the code naw.....


Lol

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by TrapHedges(m): 7:07pm On May 19
RuggedArab:
No love for a broke nigga!
It can never be peaceful!
u literally got no clue bout love fam

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by Nobody: 7:08pm On May 19
TrapHedges:

u literally got no clue bout love fam
What is LOVE? cool

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by biz2get(m): 7:09pm On May 19
This is Just a Temporary Solution.

None of this can keep the relationship going.

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by tosyne2much(m): 7:10pm On May 19
biz2get:
This is Just a Temporary Solution.

None of this can keep the relationship going.
Based on say your own case strong gan? cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by pocohantas(f): 7:11pm On May 19
Never Deny Him Sex

Most broke guys are naturally temperamental people and are quick to resort to violence especially when a woman deny them sex
Never deny him sex?
Then after spreading her leg like compass and allowing him turn her anyhow on the bed, he'll come online with his 10MB to talk about virgins?

Do you know how many calories you burn during sex?
That energy he uses to thrust and strive to hit Gspot, he should channel it into lucrative projects.

Is a broke guy even supposed to have an ereçtion?

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by falconey(m): 7:11pm On May 19
Girls asking? una no broke na hin una dey beg for money?

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by imma2(m): 7:11pm On May 19
In view of world economies, most Nigerian guys are broke. So I don't understand your definition of broke.
Having one million Naira today in Nigeria is already like been dead broke to me.

So where does the limit fall?

Meanwhile....

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by MhissBelva(f): 7:12pm On May 19
It's not by force to be in a relationship

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by Nickymezor(f): 7:12pm On May 19
Just passing by
Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by BlackDBagba: 7:13pm On May 19
grin

I hope she gets to read this!

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by biz2get(m): 7:14pm On May 19
tosyne2much:
Based on say your own case strong gan? cheesy cheesy

Sorry to Burst your Bubble. wink wink

In My Personal Opinion,

Less Attention

NO Same Street Relationships

this can keep the broke guy in the relationship for a WHILE cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by Nobody: 7:16pm On May 19
pocohantas:

Is a broke guy supposed to have an ereçtion?

Oh my goodness. grin

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by Nobody: 7:22pm On May 19
hmmmmm
Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by waxxydude: 7:23pm On May 19
2. Never deny him sex?

My guy you'd better edit that post before you cause mass murder.

Never deny poor man poosee? Dont you know that poor men are dangerous?. Naa only them get inbuilt VIAGRA, factory BOSS-RHINO.

Na only poor man get the ability to pause and hang im shemar for air, scatter im toto like sey na MATRIX.

Most poor men share characteristics with madmen like "gra-gra, agidi, ishun" and them get that "die-ontop-the-matter-spirit".

Infact as i'm typing this now fire-fighters just left my area after rescuing one babe from the hands of her poor man, who claim he sees poverty in physical form.

The guy knack this babe sotey the gel dry inside, my guy still dey do am (do or die affair), and him prick strong and firm like sey na carving, him shemar come lepaa, naso their bones just dey knack "kpan kpan" coupled with the dryness, lead to friction, naso fire start. :-/.

Like i said earlier if u nor won get hands inthe death of another man pikin, edit that post.

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by tosyne2much(m): 7:27pm On May 19
pocohantas:

Never deny him sex?
Then after spreading her leg like compass and allowing him turn her anyhow on the bed, he'll come online with his 10MB to talk about virgins?

Do you know how many calories you burn during sex?
That energy he uses to thrust and strive to hit Gspot, he should channel it into lucrative projects.

Is a broke guy even supposed to have an ereçtion?
Guys will soon be there for you cheesy

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by phensbassey: 7:32pm On May 19
dey Neva learn
Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by TrapHedges(m): 7:36pm On May 19
KissChrixx:


What is LOVE? cool
iono brah.. But one thing i know is.. Err body deserves to be loved... Rich, poor, cute, ugly, etc,

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by pocohantas(f): 7:36pm On May 19
tosyne2much:
Guys will soon be there for you cheesy
Honestly, I was expecting to see support, encourage and pray for him. Things that would help push him to be the best.

Are these what broke guys really want?
Who is even a broke guy?

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by TrapHedges(m): 7:41pm On May 19
pocohantas:

Never deny him sex?
Then after spreading her leg like compass and allowing him turn her anyhow on the bed, he'll come online with his 10MB to talk about virgins?

Do you know how many calories you burn during sex?
That energy he uses to thrust and strive to hit Gspot, he should channel it into lucrative projects.

Is a broke guy even supposed to have an ereçtion?

success is not all about hard work
at times tho.

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by marshborn(m): 7:59pm On May 19
grin no romance without finance....na to just find person wey you go use dey cure conji once in a while....nothing like dating for a broke guy.

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Re: Ladies, 10 Ways To Keep Peaceful Relationships With Broke Guys by McBrooklyn(m): 8:04pm On May 19
cc: lalasticlala... Methinks this our Oga post deserves to be on the front page... cool

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