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Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 11:34am On Oct 01, 2016 |
Those were the days, but not of now, deal with it! The world is changing, you need I accept change Jokerman: |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by lilmax(m): 11:34am On Oct 01, 2016 |
this guy is right but what I don't get is why he created it |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 11:38am On Oct 01, 2016 |
same thing goes with respect, you've got to earn respect, respect is not given freely Berbierklaus: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 11:38am On Oct 01, 2016 |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 11:39am On Oct 01, 2016 |
ElsonMorali:true! 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 11:42am On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008:The man is meant to chase after the woman first, not the woman chasing after the man. Your logic is naturally wrong .....if you expect the woman to approach the man first you will wait for all eternity 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 11:46am On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008:If you continue this way you will never marry again. Learn to love 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 11:57am On Oct 01, 2016 |
As for me, I can't submit to any fvcking man that treat me like shit, I will leave him ASAP! ...when I'm not a robot or a zombie .....like I said treat me like a queen and I will treat you like a king 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by ElsonMorali: 12:29pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by ElsonMorali: 12:37pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008: OK I'll ignore the fact that you just called me one of unsound mind. How is it possible for a woman whom you treat with disgust and indifference in marriage to respect and continue submitting to you? Unless of course you think that women are zombies or sex objects or baby making machines to be used and discarded. A wife and a husband each has different roles to play in making a good family. The husband has to love unconditionally his wife and cherish her and pet her. The wife has to love and respect and submit to her husband. You seem comfortable stressing the role of the woman according to the Bible while ignoring that of the man. The Bible instructsthe man to love his wife just like Christ loves His bride the church. How did Christ love his bride, the church? By laying down his life for her. So Mr. Are you prepared to lay down your life for your spouse whom you demand submission from? Oh and by the way, yes a man must show love to his woman first before there can be mutual sharing of love and trust and the submission of the woman can come in. After all the man is the one that woos the woman and not the other way around and if we are using Christ as our model then He died for His bride the Church even while we we're still sinners. 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by ElsonMorali: 12:47pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Berbierklaus: I wish Seun would add more horrible emotions to the collections here. I know a couple I'd like to use on you. These ones don't do justice to my expression at all. |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Toks2008(m): 12:50pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ElsonMorali: First and foremost I never labeled you as unsound so stop the blackmail. Now let me hint you about the mystery of submission. Go and do your findings and I mean serious research and it will blow your mind that only a minute fraction out of 100 men will treat a submissive eoman badly. The problem us that most ladies have been brainwashed to believe in tit for tat even in marriage. To Kemi her husband may not deserve her submission because she asks for money and he could not provide....for titi maybe her hubby lasts just 2 minutes in bed and that is a ground for disrespect and fir shade it could be his drinking habit that has made her stop submitting to him. We tend to hear stories of many ladies claiming lack of love but before you call the guy names please find out and you will be amazed that at a point the lady decides to disrespect him. I don't know how advanced you are in age but I have seen things and I have mediated in many relationship scuffle and in every 9 out of 10 cases it is always the lady that faltered. If you'd husband does not show you the required love that is not a reason to disrespect him...if you want to leave please do....this is the part you are missing Men are naturally programed to love a submissive woman |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by firstking01(m): 12:51pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Hmmmm |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Toks2008(m): 12:57pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: And the law of natural cohabitation between a man says submit first and you will definitely be treated right. You talk as though you are a watch dog waiting for signs of maltreatment from the guy for you to stop submitting to him but the words of GOD which you called "unrealistic" says submit in all things and submitting to him he will most likely maintain a proper decorum even if he treats you bad at the moment. See young lady ..in this present day no reasonable man has time for shits and any lady who decide to prove hard to Crack will be sampled and dumped and by the time the lady goes through the hands of different men she will be forced to learn the hard truth. A man may treat you bad but your act of submission will eventually reset his brain. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Toks2008(m): 1:03pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: As long you want to use logic then you will forever have issues with any man in the area of submission except he is not man enough. A man says shut up you tell him why must he ask you to shut up then expect a slap from an aggressive type but when you keep shut there is every likelihood that he will apologize to you See all these threads I create is to help women folks who are the real endangered species in the cruel world of men but to many nland ladies I'm a monster but time will tell. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by ElsonMorali: 1:10pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008: I have to say that you're making some sense there. But here's the thing, you say men are naturally programmed to love a submissive woman, yet we know that human beings aren't the same. They are the product of their environment and upbringing. So if a man spent his childhood watching his mom cowering in fear as his father dealt blows on her with his belt, the likelihood that he'll beat his wife is very high. So a woman being submissive in this case will be suicidal. Now, in marriage, it is expected that a man love his wife unconditionally even when she is not looking so beautiful as she used to, even if the sex wasn't as good as it used to be due to the wide region below. I also believe a woman's submission and respect should be unconditional even if the man can no longer put food on the table, or maybe he becomes sick or impotent or becomes a drunkard. All these arguments won't be there if couples would just sit down and have a Frank discussion about what is expected of each other in marriage before they tie the knot. Something like, "pinkie promise I'll always love you no matter what", "pinkie promise I'll always respect and be submissive to you no matter what". And then they both work at it. No marriage is ever perfect. There'll have to be minor compromises here and there for it to work out. As the couple grows older the marriage becomes more bearable and easier. |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Toks2008(m): 1:10pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: Ladies and sentiments are like bread and butter. Who told you I have issues with marrying ? This shows how gullible many ladies are..so because I write facts mean I don't know how to love and you will be liking the post of pretenders who come online to fool you people. I don't ass lick so I'm confident enough to say things as they are. ..if I woo you no gree. |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 1:13pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008:I guess you missed that part of the bible that says: Out of the abundance of the heart speaketh the tongue ' Who is the gullible and misleading fellow here sir? 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Toks2008(m): 1:15pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: Kilagbe kileju? a n wi ru o n wi iru. |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008:I know you don't like the truth especially when it comes from a lady..... Its no argument bro just a suggestion Take care 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Toks2008(m): 1:24pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Diddyydiva: What I wrote means you are deviating. You don't expect a man to love you first before submitting to him. Even if he does not show you "the type of love" you want....the best you can do is leave him rather than disrespect him. Is this not clear enough? |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 1:30pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008:My first quote wasn't based on this thread alone. Most of your posts and threads depict you have something against females. First comes attraction, then love. If both are meant for each other and they really want their relationship to work there will be compromise. The Man loving her for who she is , The woman submitting to the man irrespective of who does it first. But love gave this compromise a chance. So love comes first |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 1:47pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008:I will keep shut if he tells me to shut up, but I know some men will not apologize after saying shut up, I've experienced situation like this before....I don't think you're a monster, you definitely have a point but the reality of submission is that it doesn't work for everyone, it doesn't work for some women and some men. That's the world we live in. If something favours someone, it doesn't mean it's going to favour the other. This world is made of variety of ideas, people and so on....God created us humans to think different, to have different ideas and to be creative. |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 1:52pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008:If he maltreats me I can tolerate it and be submissive... but if he doesn't improve or change his ways....I will definitely leave him. Simple! Every human being have a limited to tolerance true or yes? |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 1:54pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Miladi: "Some Men" so hush it!!! Hush it! "We say things, not the way they are but the way we are"...That's an epitome of you. Your last paragraph: You think everyone who writes is like you, not meaning what they say... You for all ladies, are BOSSY, RUDE, UNCOUTH. Do you see an iota of submission in yourself?...I see the way you quote thread creators here as though you are one...pfft. Get off my way and mention please, young lady. With all due respect. |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 2:00pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Some guys are Autocratic! Plain Autocratic! They love to be worshipped! As for me, I love to be befriended by my wife, even @ 50. She should fart in my presence without fear. Submission is a silent word where TRUE LOVE lives. That's me. Today, tomorrow, forever. Cheers! 1 Share
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Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 2:04pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
lilmax: Same reason every writer; creative writer puts up an article: Via Observation, Deep thinking etc. You are free to think what you think. |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 2:05pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Toks2008:and men are natural program to find a woman, to woo a woman, to ask a woman out or propose, not the other way around |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by ceejayxy(m): 2:18pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
the husband has to be loving n respectful to deserve a submissive woman...nothing less 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Miladi(f): 2:38pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
emusmithy: Citing this gibberish you wrote now, you have shown that you're a typical example of a petty man, which I narrated in my first post on here. If exercising my freewill means insurbodination to you, then you're sure a petty man, I say. Next time, before you make a thread, make sure that you knows what you intend writing before penning it down. Teacher, don't teach me nonsense. Now run along and look for your mates elsewhere. I don't join issues with anyone - least of petty people. |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Nobody: 2:39pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
I think every human being deserve a submissive person whether they are loving, respectful or not. It's called humility. Submittion can do wonders most times tho ceejayxy: |
Re: Reasons Some Men Want Submissive Ladies by Singingbae(m): 2:43pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Miladi: Wife Material!!!!!!! |
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