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Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by habsydiamond(m): 10:48pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
I hope u are not thinking she is older than you. But why would she be killing such from u. Do one have to keep his or her body from the person who is going to bath for his or her corpse. For the sake of the children involve pamper justice with mercy sir. Don't put ur little kids in a position u will live to regret. Let dem feel the joy in having both parents caring for them. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by luminouz(m): 10:49pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Donpressman:Take a bottle of chilled champagne n add it to my account! U super make sense! 6 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by TerrorSquad147: 10:49pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
chuksbogus2001:you're the only reasonable person here bro 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Jacko1(m): 10:49pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Women deceiving men since 1760 See scam na Who knows hw many oda women r in marriages wit falsified ages 4 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by TerrorSquad147: 10:49pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:what do you know?? Nothing... |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by odamaken(m): 10:50pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
mr husband I don't think that's an excuse for u to divorce your wife unless you want to tell me that she senior u for that six years following the new age, if not forget it.For you have so many hidden sins u haven't told ur wife and if you insist remember the only ground for divorce is adultery,moreover if u want a divorce sit ur wife down and confess all the sins u have committed since u guys got married I bet you if she stills agrees to marry you then u r lucky,what is lying about age I see it as nothing |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by luminouz(m): 10:51pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
TerrorSquad147:N me too! |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by aprilwise(m): 10:52pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
in the course of dating I guess u have seen more heart breaking things than this. if u divorce ur wife because of age issue then u nevery loved her before |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by bbjummy: 10:52pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
If she's older than you but still submits to you and accords you the respect due you as expected of her, then you just have to forgive her for the sake of the children and the love you both share cos it's possible you divorce her and yet never find a good woman to replace her and even take care of your kids. All the best. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by TV01(m): 10:52pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
nickxtra:Hi Nick, Sorry to hear your plight. Your wife has broken trust - and in a way that could have affected the fundamentals of your decision to marry her. Please forgive her, strongly impress upon her the kind of openness and honesty you expect in your relationship, and help her work towards it by showing her you are committed to her come what may. Do not take this issue to any outside parties. Lies & betrayal can come much worse than this - more later. She was attractive enough for you to marry and not suspect anything. Work with her to ensure she retains her youthfulness - do likewise yourself. Continue to delight in her physically. Hopefully your sexual journeys will perfectly align. Thank you for putting your children first,but I'm actually asking you to put your wife first regardless. I sense you believe - be that Godly man. ****************************************************************************************************************** The basic/carnal women will lie about inter-alia; The length, volume and even origin of her hair The fullness and curve of her eyebrows The plumpness and shape of her lips The perkiness of her breasts Her looks generally, and her height and weight The flatness of her tummy and the narrowness of her waist The "sticky-outiness" of her bottom The length and leanness of her legs Her shoe size - hence the numerous callouses and bunions The number of lovers she has had The number of abortions she has performed How many children she has - if she actually tells at all How many friends she has, how in demand she is, the men after her, her job She'll lie about how good a person she is, how loyal, how committed and how hard-working She'll lie about why she got divorced, why she stole her friends man She'll lie to herself about how the lies are actually good, for the best and really a form of "attenuated truth" She'll not only overlook, she'll actually support the lies of other women at a "group" level, for that validates and justifies her own lies (manifold examples on this thread alone) Oga, if that's the only thing, you actually got off pretty lightly TV 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by patola080(m): 10:52pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Why do u want to kill urself over number?age is number MR MAN 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by TerrorSquad147: 10:52pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
luminouz: |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by theunmistakeabl: 10:52pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
@op Don't be more devastated by comments of all these "mama thank ma" boys/girls that made up the million members of nairaland. Mine equally lied to me about her age but not upto 6yrs and I feel ur pain 100% But I've come to realize that many a woman lied to their husband about their exact age b4 the marriage. My brother if her only sin in your marriage is this, I advise u forgive her, readjust ur feelings and continue ur marriage. I wish u well 3 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by agbonkamen(f): 10:53pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
munas:people like u end up with sugar mummy what she did was wrong but it does not warrant divorce for that guy to say he is planing divorce shows some traits of immaturity what will happen to his kids |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Shuggatti(m): 10:53pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Mr man,do your worst,make the mistake,learn your lesson, and regret later..... I'm sure you already have it in mind that you wanna divorce your wife,you just using the age lies as an excuse..... Let me tell you that side chick that you want to divorce your wife because of her will so mess you up ehhn,you gonna go back and kneel to beg your wife.....mtcheww.. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Suljosh: 10:53pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
nickxtra:A divorce? are you high? just because of a mere figure 6? |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Donpressman(m): 10:54pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
luminouz:Bros I tire o. Even if person gf do this kind thing e go pain person die, let alone your wife. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by willibounce1(m): 10:54pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Oga go and do DNA to be sure the children are yours.. she was going to keep this secret until death do you part. She is not trustworthy.. even if you guys have been married for forty years, it is a serious problem for you to have discovered that she lied about her age. Why didn't she tell you all the while.. Women can just be very devilish... as far as I'm concerned, things can never be the same. Yes you can forgive but no man will ever forget this kinda crap. Why did she lie about her age? 5 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by wiseoneking: 10:54pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
nickxtra:i know you feel very bad but for the sake of love, do forgive her.BIBLE says love covered multitude of sins. Is she now older than you? What is the diff? If she is now older thats pretty bad. Just forgive. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by MChaze25(m): 10:56pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
And since when does getting angry over your feminine fish brain become a childish act? ORUWE! ItsQuinn: 5 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Nobody: 10:56pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Ranchhoddas:Please ignore that frustrated thing 2 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by fm7070: 10:56pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
emeraldknytt:gbam! You just said my mind |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Tearg1: 10:56pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Men Lie Women Lie but "the Kitty" NEVER lies... If she lied, thats deception. But the only way I would recommend you to divorce her is to answer this question honestly; HAVE YOU NOT ALSO LIED TO HER IN THE PAST ABOUT SOME THINGS IN YOUR LIFE? If so, then I recommend you turn to Jesus with your heart so that He can restore Joy, Peace and Happiness in your home. PROVERBS 31:30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the LORD will be greatly praised. |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Iykon1313(m): 10:56pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
ItsQuinn: Mature girl, let your husband lie to u that he never married b4 and doesn't have kids and u find out 8 years later that you are the third or forth wife. Let me see how mature you will handle it. 6 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by TerrorSquad147: 10:56pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Ranchhoddas:most of them are big idiots that aren't even married yet but are coming here to form marriage counselors. 5 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by luminouz(m): 10:57pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Donpressman:Na true talk baba! 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by chronique(m): 10:57pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Calling them idiots is an understatement. No wonder a lot of relationships don't work out. People don't understand that not everone can tolerate lies and deception. Once trust is broken,a union starts to crack. The woman misled him into marrying her by being deceptive and people can't see that fact;how do people conveniently lie to the ones they claim they love? Why don't humans have a conscience? How many more lies will he discover? How will he cope when he finds out more? I'm not saying it's ok to divorce her cos she lied but people have to understand that what she did isn't something that should just be waved aside,without repercussions. The day you lie to me and I catch you,I'd start doubting everthing you've ever said,and would ever say. Ranchhoddas: 6 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by ifeanyi83(m): 10:57pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Oga!!!...better behave yourself. You want to divorce your wife because of alleged age falsification. Behave yourself Oga!!! |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by MChaze25(m): 10:58pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Shuggatti:shut up and sleep! 5 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by Feanah(f): 10:59pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Jacko1:I'm a woman but this is outrageous...how can someone lie like this for so long?She get PhD for lying,it's really true..some women lie so well. OP,your feelings are justified but try and forgive if you can. 7 Likes |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by luminouz(m): 10:59pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Shuggatti:U well so? 1 Like |
Re: I Discovered My Wife Lied About Her Age After 3 Years Of Our Marriage. Help! by princefaculty(m): 11:00pm On Oct 03, 2016 |
Na wah o, nothing person no go hear for we country naija: government increase fuel price, 'I wan divorce my wife'; nepa bring half current light breeze blow off the half current, 'I wan send my wife go back her father house' and now just because say nairalander discover say him wife fit don reduce her age or say WAEC de vex say she too pass her exams and dem wan spoil her show come add just 6years weh no even reach 8years weh Obasanjo use scatter naija democratically or even 56years weh naija don do no too change him don de reason divorce... Like say him never lie even yesterday. Yesterday far sef I de suspect say the OP lie inside this post sef 2 Likes |
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