Amelian:
Op. u want to divorce your wife who bore two healthy kids because she lied about age.? I swear u r not serious.. U want to divorce her before, fucvk this age thing u r saying.. She's fertile, she appears young, if not for certificates u won't have known..

My guy u no serious...
If u know since the day u were born, uv never lied before? Thru dating and now married to her, uv not lied at all... Then by all means go ahead and divorce.

But remember . Karma is waiting for u calmly later in life... Smhhh..

Dey divorce nah.

When men brag about divorce over little things it's so annoying..

U've gone mad,bliv u me,go 4 medical checkup(MRI or CT SCAN)For brain damage

birds of similar feathers

CAPITAL IDIOT!!!

OP: you married a liar, deal with it.

If you had known her to be a liar from the beginning, you would have married her anyways.

Many things have been said to op. Out of all the advice given, its his crucifixation that I detest. Instead of offring useful advice. Op, its bad enuf that your wife lied to you about her age, truly its painful. My take: talk to her, let her reveal other secrets she has lied to u about. Then forgive her and tell her to sin no more.

[quote author=oxon post=49896054]bruv in this time and age where married women are keeping multiple boyfriends and visting strip clubs and all and this guy is worried about is the fact she lied about her age,which she probably did out of desperation to get married and settle down ... abeggi the guy should wake up,, men after how many years find out their children aint really theirs still sail the marriage ahead talk more this[/quote my broda woman mata no b here.. Come c Wetin men dey face for yankee here..it is well

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Amelian:
Op. u want to divorce your wife who bore two healthy kids because she lied about age.? I swear u r not serious.. U want to divorce her before, fucvk this age thing u r saying.. She's fertile, she appears young, if not for certificates u won't have known..

My guy u no serious...
If u know since the day u were born, uv never lied before? Thru dating and now married to her, uv not lied at all... Then by all means go ahead and divorce.

But remember . Karma is waiting for u calmly later in life... Smhhh..

Dey divorce nah.

When men brag about divorce over little things it's so annoying..

You must be a daughter of Lie Mohammed

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

So over age don follow enter marriage? na football dey sabi get that kind malaria o.. Meanwhile Bros, provided she still dey score goals, no sweat am...

Nairaland is really a funny place..

Take a look at the 1st page nd see galz who don't even know how to wash their pants blaming a married man for being angry he married his wife on deceit..

Yes age is just numbers, we re even tired of hearing that, how would a man like me who can't even date his mate, now married, only to discover my wife is an "aunty" to me..

All u fried mess supporting the lady, ve u dated a boy younger than you talkless an age gap of 6years..

Advisors ndi Uwa Mmebi..

TerrorSquad147:
what is the essence of the Bible verse if you can insult him like that? Oloriburuku

I'm sorry. But it's the truth. Anyone who lives his life against what God says is Stupid. No one is exempted.

Make I see wetin dis man go do him wife before I tell my bobo my real age.

Op age na food ni?abeg chill jo

why do married people have so many problems, besides this na small issue, just chill till another one pops up, there is no need for separation base on dis I think

TerrorSquad147:
what is the essence of the Bible verse if you can insult him like that? Oloriburuku

And again what makes you better? And I guess you're the oloriire

In this economic situation, your wife's false age declaration is your problem?!



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emeraldknytt:
From my point of view, I foresee no deal breaker in your stale epistle. So far her lie hasn't affected you negatively or potentially, there is no reason to quit your marriage. Truth is, if you cant handle well something as trivial as this, I wonder what you would do if she told you those kids ain't yours.... .... Be patient and tolerable

Something as TRIVIAL as this

Maybe I don't know the meaning of trivial.

ItsQuinn:
Lots of childish Nigerian men everywhere

You took the words out of my mouth dear

Richy4:
Is another girl knocking at the side door OP?

Why is this an issue to you instead of the employers..?

Do you now realize that she was older than you or what?

is she committing adultery?

is she not a good mother to your kids?

Does her n@kedness look different or aged overnight since you Now discovered the age discrepancy ?

What precisely is the problem here? This is something that could be overlooked when there is love....

People are different anyways.. but i can only have trust issue with a lady when I have an evidence that she is "running around" not something as petty as age difference.....If She like let her be 100 and claim 15 for all I care as long as she is a wonderful mother to my children and attend to my needs..

Do the necessary investigation and confirm if it is an error or not. If you find out that she truly lied then go with your conscience. I cannot advice any man to settle for a potential happily ever after with a woman 6 years older than him. The children are important in this discussion but not at the cost of your own happiness. The most important thing to think about here is trust, can you trust a woman that lied to you for several years? If you can live with it then no amount of influence from outsiders can deter you but if not then let her go before it's too late. In addition to this, if you eventually confirmed that she truly lied then her parents,friends and family must be in on it,SHAME!!!

What she did was wrong and you have a right to be upset. But divorce?? Come on

6 years.... that's horrifying.

If I was a man, I would likely divorce her.
But if I was a man, I wouldn't be a good man.

Find it in ur heart to forgive her if u can and if she's penitent. After all, a biblical prophet took back his whōre wife like a bagillion times. So ur own is still small.

Jisie Ike.

amunkita:
Nairaland is really a funny place..

Take a look at the 1st page nd see galz who don't even know how to wash their pants blaming a married man for being angry he married his wife on deceit..

Yes age is just numbers, we re even tired of hearing that, how would a man like me who can't even date his mate, now married, only to discover my wife is an "aunty" to me..

All u fried mess supporting the lady, ve u dated a boy younger than you talkless an age gap of 6years..

Advisors ndi Uwa Mmebi..

please where in the original post did he talk about an age gap. Did you even read it at all or you're just seeing what you choose to see. You're a really funny person

nickxtra:
My marriage to my wife is facing a serious challenge, after I discovered from my wife's WAEC certificate, that the date of her birth on the result is 6 years more than what she told me and what has been in all her non academic documents, including her C.V. Actually, i have seen all her academic certificates, including her NYSC discharge certificate, but never saw her S.S.C.E and FSLC results that normally bear dates of birth. Each time i ask her for them in order to compile all the credentials for job application purposes, she would tell me that her WAEC, NECO and primary school results are in a box, with her mum in thier home town; that she would ask her mum to bring them. I gnomo her mum lager came with them for her.

Eventually, a serious sure job came for which i would need these credentials to forward to the organization. She gave me the WAEC result with the excuse that age forgot the NECO and FSLC in her current office, which she promised to bring. Lol and behold! What i saw on the WAEC result is a date of birth 6 years higher than what she told me and what is in her C.Vs.

I called her attention and she started giving me excuses that hold no water. She is saying that the same DOB were erroneously registerd for her when, perhaps they were registering her for both WAEC and NECO. That when the results came out and she noticed the errors, she complained and applied to correct same, but since then, the exam authorities have not corrected them. I have not come to terms with the this discovery. I think this may cause us peace, thrust and love in pur marriage.

My brothers and sisters, i think am contemplating of what action to take against her and am contemplating a divorce, but our two children are still very small for this. I want to report this issue to her family and mine. Am gradually withdrawing my trust for her.

I need matured advice and suggestions that will see me through this.

Simple question with d added six yrs is she nw older than you? Or are you still older

If d later then forgive her and let it slide

But if d former men it becomes a bigger issue BC u married ur elder unknowingly

werthy:
Op, you have been enjoying a woman who is older than you for about five years and yet you arw conplaining about age wahala,


Its not even about the most important thing which is her respect for you


Bro.... you are still a boy...

Tired of seeing babies with grown fallangies inbetween their legs getting married because the feel they have aged enough

Wrong reply!
Are you married?
Looks like you are the boy.
TRUST is important in a marriage...she lied!
But Op, its not enough for a divorce.

Rubbish comment, simple answer is what the guy needs, address the issue and not blaming men... that is why you wrote JAMB up to 6 times.

ItsQuinn:
Lots of childish Nigerian men everywhere

Donpressman:
I swear the way people think is gross to say the least. Especially when its a lady involved. It would have been a different story if it was the man who lied and probably his employers found out and sacked the guy from his job. The lady will say all manner of bullshit about lost trust and how she can't cope in the marriage again. All our laws and by extension how we think now is now feminist. A man is always liable but if its woman then its just a mistake that is irrelevant and should be ignore. What rubbish!

The numerous disgusting comments here is just a confirmation that telling LIES to get what you want, is now a normal thing for the ladies, and this is disturbing.

Telling lies to get something is FRAUD and the woman in question is a dangerous one. I even read where some people are asking the OP to sit her down and veg her to tell him the truth. This is a woman that lied and has refused to be remorseful and apologize.

The most annoying thing I kept seeing here is that some people are calling it a "mistake". For God's sake, how can a premeditated lie be described as a mistake?

What exactly is the definition of MISTAKE?

Those of you attacking the OP, you will be lied to and deceived into marriage. And when that happens, as it will surely do, just remember this day and how you attacked this OP.

You re a wise Woman unlike some 21st-century-girls and may you continue to grow in wisdom.

maggilove:
I really understand the woman's plight, I believe she doesn't wants to lose you bxos if she had told u her real age you might dissolve the courtship.
I guess the woman is humble and dutiful if not you won't enjoy ur marriage to her ever since, many in this category are usually proud but she's the type of wife the bible described.
I will advice u not to let any fay member interfer in your personal life, talk to her calmly and let her explain why she did that, sincerely u will hear her point . Forgive her and keep enjoying your marriage. God bless you, shalom.

Age is just a number but for u to fall for 6yrs reduction prank then she must look good n younger than her real age..We should start requesting for FSLC frm ladies b4 marriage

Zellie:
please where in the original post did he talk about an age gap. Did you even read it at all or you're just seeing what you choose to see. You're a really funny person

I swear with my last breath, u re a NEBOSH certified Dumbo..

U mean u did not see the wife is 6 years more than what she declared before marriage..

Dude, u must come from a garri frying community, see how it has messed up with ur eyes..

Pls go back nd read the Op's plight once more.

Anya Awo..

amunkita:


I swear with my last breath, u re a NEBOSH certified Dumbo..

U mean u did not see the wife is 6 years more than what she declared before marriage..

Dude, u must come from a garri frying community, see how it has messed up with ur eyes..

Pls go back nd read the Op's plight once more.

Anya Awo..

You are a stup.id person.

Slowpoke logic... She's six years older than he thought = She's six years older than him.

Can you now see how mentally ret.arded you are?